Adhoora Safar....!

Saturday, January 21, 2012 4:50:09 PM

MERI TAMEER..

"Meri Tameer (My Construction)"

Sadiyaan beet gein yuhi adhoora mehsoos karte karte
Na jaane kaun chhor gaya mujh ko tameer karte karte?

Kaha tha wajood ka malbah kisi koone main rakh dena
Warna aik umar lage gi meri zaat yakja karte karte

Mushkil hargiz na tha aapna qaid-e-maazi se niklna
Main dar-e-maazi par hi pahncha har bar chalte chalte

Zinda zameeroo ki adalat main fesle jab hote hain
Phir umarain beet jati hain khud se larte larte

Mere khayaloo ki duniya bhi jese moom ke jesi thi
Har hasrat piglaa gey mere khuwaab jalte jalte

Jis ne bantne hoo zamaane ko ujaaloo ke tohfe
Kei aur chragh jalaey woh chragh bujhte bujhte

Aalam-e-mayoosi main umeedain zinda rakh Gulshan
Warna maar detti hain yeh umeedain marte marte

By; Abrar Gulshan

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YAAD KISI KI AATI HAI..

Friday, January 20, 2012 6:20:11 PM

"Yaad Kisi Ki Aati Hai"

Har lamha har pal mujh ko yaad teri kiyo aati hai?
Likh bhejo tujh ko bhi aese yaad meri kya aati hai?

Tujh sang guzra har ik pal shiddat se tarpata hai
Kya mujh sang guzri koi sham yaad tujhe bhi aati hai?

Sham dhale kiyo tanha panchhi afsurda sa lagta hai
Is ko bhi kya meri tarha yaad kisi ki aati hai?

Tanhai main khoob satain guzre dinoon ki baatain
Aankh sawan barsati hai jab yaad kisi ki aati hai

Kiyo shor machae pehlo main pucha dil se jab Gulshan
Cheeekh uthi har ik dharkan ke yaad kisi ki aati hai..!

By; Abrar Gulshan

Wednesday, December 28, 2011 7:42:19 AM

TERI JUSTAJOO.. (Your Search)

"Teri Justajoo"

Kisi ne duniya kisi ne duniya ka khazana manga
Hum ne manga to Khuda se sirf tujh ko manga

Manzilain har tarf thain ird gird aapme lekin
Jo humain tujh tak le jaye wohi raasta manga

Dil dharkan, chahat wafa, jaa jahaa, soch khuwab
Yeh sab tera hai jo kabhi tu ne hum se manga

Dukh dard, ahain siskiyaa, anso gham aur tum
De do ge yeh sab hain jo kabi hum ne manga?

Apna sab kuch teri amaanat hai to Gulshan
Baat to aik hai tu ne manga hum se ya na manga

By; Abrar Gulshan

Monday, December 26, 2011 6:18:53 PM

IQBAL-E-JURM(Confession of guilt)

““IQBAL-E-JURM KAUN KARTA HAI”…..?

jo baat aksar ki jaye...

who baat adhoori rehti hai…

azmat hai zaat aurat ki…

wafa hai zaat aurat ki…

magar jo mard hote hain….

mana bedard hote hain..

kisi bhanware ki surat…

khushbooain loot lete hain..

….mere humnasheen….

shaed tu ne nehi dekha…

aksar jo mard hote hain…

ishq zaat k hote hain…

kisi parwane ki surat…

kisi shama ki qurbat main…

jal kar raakh hote hain..

par ishq chhorh nehi sakte…

riwayat torh nehi sakte…

….mere hum-noowa….

wafa ki rah main aksar…

waedey toot jate hain…

sath chhoot jate hain…

koi ilzaam detta hai..

koi ilzaam letta hai…

magar riwayatoo ki sooli pe..

riwayat toot jati hai..

wafa chhoot jati hai

……mere hum-dam…..

magar aik sach aesa hai…

jo duniya jaan nehi pai..

k wafa ki puttli yeh aurat…

kitni majboor hoti hai…

ghamoo se choooor hoti hai…

zakhm seene main rakh kar b…

apna farz nibhati hai…

apne armanoon ki basti ko…

khud hi aag lagati hai…

par apna farz nibhati hai…

warna….

AURAT ZAAT AESI HAI…

WAFA JO CHORH NEHI SAKTI
RIWAYAT TORH NEHI SAKTI

By; Abrar Gulshan

Monday, December 12, 2011 11:20:45 AM

Tera Khayal...

"Tera Khayal"

Mere khayaloo k khayal main aik khayal tera hai
Is khayal main khayaloo ka khayal nehi rehta

Dhundta rehta hu tuje ahat main kabi dharkan main
Tu mera sya hai to mere saath kiyu nehi rehta

Kiyu toote phoote hain dar-o-diwar dil k istarha
Tere siwa to is ghar main koi nehi rehta

Yeh rat ki tareeki aur wehshi yaadoo k darinde
Gulshan teri tarha yoo jangal main koi nehi rehta

By; Abrar Gulshan

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Teri Udeek Ich......

Tuesday, December 6, 2011 6:30:28 PM

With Ton of Thanks

"Teri Udeek Ich"

kinni der aur udikaan tentu
kaddu tikar rehwaan vekhaan

jindd nu charha k sooli utte
ki karaan hun kinnu vekhaan

j koi hundda dil da dardai
zakhm wakha k udde vekhaan

ae jiwan penda turna he te
ki rahwaan ki kandde vekhaan

dard nal pahrya ae jag sara
dil enn zakhmi jinnu vekhaan

muqadraan naal ae milde ne
kadi qismat kadi tenu vekhaan

Rabb kare tenu sb kuj labbe
Dost tenu khush khush vekhaan..

By; Abrar Gulshan

Tuesday, December 6, 2011 5:22:51 PM

MAA K NAAM (TO MOTHER)

"MAA K NAAM"

Tere jigar ka tukra hu main lot k aa jau ga,
Na karna koi mera gham main lot k aa jau ga,

Jab yaad meri ane lage shiddat se ae meri maa,
Keh dena bas aik bar main lot k aa jau ga,

Teri mamta tera piyar muje tarpata hai har pal,
Jo ghabrae ga ye dil main lot k aa jau ga,

Sare chen sare sukh sare jahaa ki kul khushiyan,
Sab kuch kar k tere naam main lot k aa jau ga,

Koun Jane zindagi kis ki kitni baqi hai Gulshan,
Gar hua naseeb main milna main lot k aa jaau ga. !!

By; Abrar Gulshan

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"Tips and Tricks For Students"

Monday, December 5, 2011 8:14:15 AM

"Tips and Tricks For Students"

There is no short cut to success, this is the first thing you should remember. For this reason you have to study well first of all. But the preparations are different for different types of exams. Some competitive exams need long term preparation while your school level exams may need preparation of few months.

The 1st tip : Never fear or hate exam and be confident.

Some students study well but still may be much afraid of exams and due to this reason they get distracted and won't be able to score marks.So leave all your fears and free your mind before starting the study. You have to be confident and it is the most essential power you should have for attaining victory.

The 2nd tip: Prepare a good time table.

Prepare a time table before starting the study. This should include all the subjects but may not be with equal priority. Tough subjects can be given more time and easier ones less but most importantly some time shall be allotted for entertainment and also there should be sufficient intervals between each subject.

The 3rd tip: Select a proper atmosphere for studying.

No need to explain this point. Study atmosphere has very important role. Can anyone study well while watching TV? So select a place where you feel comfortable. That is where you feel relaxed and can concentrate. And you have to make sure that while you are studying a subject you are concentrating on it only. So keep the books of other subjects away from your eyesight so that you won't be upset about the things you have to learn. And importantly it is better to study early morning when all the surroundings will be in silence and you can concentrate more. Your concentration really counts. Never place a mirror in the room such that you will ur reflection while sitting to study. This will lead to lack of concentration. And one top secret Study facing east or more accurately North east. This will give you great positive energy and your marks will definitely increase.

The 4th tip : Sit straight

This is so important that you have to sit in proper manner while studying. Don't study on bed or lying on a chair instead sit straight. Keep your spinal cord straight. And try to place your legs parallel to ground, a little bit raised from the ground. Other wise placing the legs on the ground causes ionization and induces sleep. And be alert that legs are not above the head level. This will affect the blood flow direction and causes sleepiness. It is better to place the legs almost parallel to ground but a little lower.

The 5th tip : Make notes while studying.

This is a very important point. While studying make small notes and that should not be descriptive make theme brief so that you can remember all points while doing revision with the help of that note. An ideal note shall include all important formulae and figures and also other important points. It will be a lot worth if you use this not for the revision in last one or two hours than u skipping through pages of your text book. It won't take much time to go through this note and if you feel tough anywhere you can refer for that portion in text book.

The 6th tip: Sleep well and Eat well.

You have to sleep well.Sleep deprivation study shows that Optimum hrs for sleep is 6hrs. Especially on the night before exam you have to sleep well, atleast 6 hours and not more than 8 hrs. Remember this will have a great effect on your exam. And have your food as in your daily diet. Don't fast on exam day. This will have reverse effect, so please have food properly. There are some food items you have to avoid and some other you have to include in your diet on exam day. And don't forget to have a glass water before you go to bed, essential to keep your brain cells charged!!!

The 7th tip : Write and Present well.

The presentation is the major factor that affects your marks. Whatever you studied or prepared your marks will depend on how you present them in the answer sheet. The teachers may not be able to read all what you have written. Remember daily they are going through 30 to 40 papers.They will scan for points. So try to present answers in points. In essay questions don't forget to underline the important points . Your hand writing also affects your marks. Try to write neatly. if it is not good enough, don't worry, if you presented it in a good manner you can score more marks. And another important factor to remember, As we all know 'First impression is the best impression'. So, answer the questions you know well, first. This will create a good impression on the evaluator and though you couldn't write some last answers well, that won't deduct your mark much. And care shall be taken so that you manage time well and is able to attend all questions. If there is any question out of syllabus, you just attend it. Usually full marks are awarded for such questions.

The 8th tip: Never malpractise in exam hall.

Never malpractise in exam hall as it may even affect your marks and also some times you won't be allowed to continue the exam. If you don't know answer don't write. Keep in mind that you are writing exam for you, to prove yourself. There will be no problem if you have followed the above steps, For sure you can score good marks.

The 9th tip: Believe in God, Believe in you.

The last but not the least point pray well before the exam and your mind should be free at least 5 minutes before exam. Pray can give immense energy and peace to your mind that will definitely do good for you.And it is much important that you are confident about what you can and will always produce pleasant result.

Also remember one thing please don't discuss soon after exams.This won't do good and may affect your coming exams.If your friends are discussing question paper avoid them and come to house soon.

"And above all you think about your parents their difficulties and sufferings and how they care you , you owe to them much, don't you?. The best gift you can give them is your victory. So never disappoint your parents. Study is not for them they are compelling you to study for your future. And ultimately what I have to say is that You have a lot of opportunities now.If you are serious in your studies for a few years of your life then the remaining part of your life will be fruitful and you people shall never stop study after getting a degree or a small job always look for higher studies and aims big hurdles like CAT, GATE, GRE, IAS,IES etc.So think your self and try your best."
AS WE ALL KNOW "GOD HELPS THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES"

Wednesday, November 30, 2011 8:19:13 PM

You Can Be Stronger,,,

"You Can Be Stronger"

Yes, we can become a better person if we face those trials, hardships,
and difficulties with the right attitude.
Before, I have not been kind, but because of circumstances,
I learned to be kind with everyone because everyone has their own battle to fight and doesn't need additional load to bear. Mentally,
I have developed a better way of dealing with problems than before.
The list goes on but the most important is to learn from every mistakes or any trial that may come our life.
Life is full of ups and downs!
"I have had many things in my life happen that should it happen to another it might of destroyed them for me it did make me stronger I believe things happen for a reason and never does anyone receive anything they can not handle so people generally have two choices rise above find a way to overcome the hardship and in turn make them stronger wiser or turn resentful fight it and let them turn negative or worse make themselves out to be a victim it all depends on a persons mindframe if you look at anything the right way you can take a lesson out of it..."

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Never Let Yourself Down...

Sunday, November 27, 2011 11:51:06 AM

"Never Let Yourself Down"

You can't be happy all the time, noone can be.
You can pretend all you want,
but the world is such a difficult place that you sometimes need to break down and cry.
It doesn't make you weak.
It doesn't make you a bad person.
It makes you an average person that needs their friends and family there to support them through the hardship.
You can't always be happy.
The best you can do is try to dance in the rain and smile through the pain.
Never let it get you down,Cos there are people who would pay to see you fall

Friday, November 25, 2011 6:10:26 AM

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF...

"Believe in Yourself"

Consider things from every angle and others points of view.
Dare to Dream and Dream Big
Energy, Excitement and Enthusiaism is in your blood.
Family and Friends are hidden treasures; enjoy these riches.
Give more than you planned to.
Have a good sense of humour.
Ignore Criticism, Ridicule and Discouragement from others.
Jump on Problems because they are Opportunities in disguise.
Keep up the good work however hard it may seem.
Love yourself, just as you are.
Make Impossibility a Possibility.
Never lie, cheat or steal, always strike a fair deal.
Open your eyes and see things as they really are.
Prefect Practice makes you perfect.
Quitters never Win and Winners never Quit.
Reward yourself for every small success and achievement.
Stop Wasting your Time and Procrastinating important Goals.
Take control of your Life and your Goals.
Understand so that you could Understood.
Visualize your Goals and Dreams everyday.
Win over your own weaknesses and make them as your Strengths.
Xccelerate your efforts
Yes, Yes you Can and You Will
Zap your Stress and Enjoy your Life..

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A LOVELY MORNING MESSAGE...

Friday, November 25, 2011 2:43:33 AM

"A Lovely Morning Message"

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.

He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are'?

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is'.

I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life'.

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything ;
they just make the best of everything they have.....
"LOVE ALWAYS TO YOUR LOVED ONCE"

Thursday, November 24, 2011 5:08:18 AM

YAAD HUMAIN TUM KAR LENA…

Yaad Humain Tum Kar Lena…

Jab koi na ho paas tumhare yaad humain tum kar lena
Jab sara aalam so jaye to yaad humain tum kae lena

Jab band ho aankh neend ki devi le tujhe aaghosh main
Jab khuwab suhana koi aaye yaad humain tum kar lena

Kya hai doori yaadain kya aur kya tanhai hai
Jab gali se guzre koi diwana yaad humain tum kar lena

Kehain chand kehain charagh aur kehain roshan shama
Jab jal mare koi parwaana yaad humain tum kar lena

Door talak na ho manzil aur na koi ho rasta
Jab khud se door hune lago yaad humain tum kar lena

Gar aakash ki kaali chadar pe chamk rahe hoo do tare
Toot gire jab ik tara to yaad humain tum kar lena

Jate ho to jao tum tanha hum ko chhor kar
Na loto koi baat nehi par yaad humain tum kar lena

Jo doobne lago zeest ke is bhanwar main tum Gulshan
Barha ke aage apna hath yaad humain tum kar lena

By; Abrar Gulshan

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Ways to Make a Good Impressions ....

Monday, November 21, 2011 9:10:48 AM

Ways to Make a Good Impressions.!

Impressions are important:
They leave an initial taste in people's mouths that can remain prevalent for the entire relationship. If you are paranoid about what kind of impression you make, run through these seven list items and see if you are consistent with them; if you are, then you will probably expose the best of yourself. If not, then work to meet these standards.

1. Dress :
The absolute first impression you will make on someone will be through your clothing, because that is what is seen from a distance, and cannot change throughout your meeting. Make sure to dress according to the situation-don' t over or under dress-and maintain within the limits of good taste. If you aren't sure if what you're wearing looks good, ask people for an honest opinion. One last thought: always, and I mean always, pull up your pants

2. Hygiene :
Take a shower! Shave! Brush your teeth! You must be fully bathed and groomed before you meet with someone for the first time, because scruffy looking people generally don't seem as neat and mature. Pay attention to the little elements like breath: keep a pack of mint gum with you wherever you go, and periodically check to make sure you aren't killing bugs every time you breathe out. If you sweat heavily, keep a small stick of deodorant/anti- perspirant close, and if you notice you're stinking you can freshen up. People notice the minutiae!

3. Manners :
At the table and with other people be civilized, polite and respectful: keep your elbows off of the table, open doors for people and address everyone-initially, at least-by their formal title. This will make an especially good impression on senior citizens, because you will prove that you aren't one of those "new fangled punks."

4. Speech :
Have clean, clear diction and speak sans "like" or "you know." It is important to be articulate because that inspires a feeling of intelligence and education in the person you are meeting with. Always leave out profanity, and whatever you do, make sure to speak loud enough for all to hear, because conversationalists are easily agitated if you force them say "excuse me?" more than a few times.

5. Discretion :
Choose what to share about yourself: forget to tell everyone about that time you went camping and ruptured your appendix, then fell face first into a pile of bug infested leaves-it is rude and will alienate you from the group. Try to withhold from conversations on personal subjects like religion or more disgusting topics like personal medical care. Before you speak, think about the possible impact of what you might say, then imagine its implications in the long run.

6. Humor :
Humor can be your most powerful tool or your doom, because everyone has a slightly different sense of humor. What might be hilarious to you might seem disgusting to another, or vice versa. Try to withhold from any jokes that aren't family or dinner table friendly; you can tell those later.

7. Start and End with a Bang :
Whoever you are meeting with will remember how you greet them, and then in what manner you left them. If you feel you have trouble with this, practice a few different phrases in the mirror, and introduce elements like: "pleased to meet you," or "honored to make your acquaintance. " Ignore the antiquity of these phrases; it often makes them more memorable.

Making a good impression will set any relationship off on a good foot. If you are in a situation where you need to be judged at face value-such as a job interview or date-then make sure to go through this list and make sure you are within bounds of reason and good taste on all of your decisions.

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The Six Pillars of CHARACTER ....

Saturday, November 19, 2011 1:49:42 PM

The Six Pillars of CHARACTER !

The CHARACTER COUNTS...
Values that are not political, religious, or culturally biased. Use the points below to help young people understand the Six Pillars, and use the mnemonic devices at right to help them remember.

Trustworthiness
Be honest • Don’t deceive, cheat, or steal • Be reliable — do what you say you’ll do • Have the courage to do the right thing • Build a good reputation • Be loyal — stand by your family, friends, and country

Respect
Treat others with respect; follow the Golden Rule • Be tolerant and accepting of differences • Use good manners, not bad language • Be considerate of the feelings of others • Don’t threaten, hit or hurt anyone • Deal peacefully with anger, insults, and disagreements

Responsibility
Do what you are supposed to do • Plan ahead • Persevere: keep on trying! • Always do your best • Use self-control • Be self-disciplined • Think before you act — consider the consequences • Be accountable for your words, actions, and attitudes • Set a good example for others

Fairness
Play by the rules • Take turns and share • Be open-minded; listen to others • Don’t take advantage of others • Don’t blame others carelessly • Treat all people fairly

Caring
Be kind • Be compassionate and show you care • Express gratitude • Forgive others • Help people in need

Citizenship
Do your share to make your school and community better • Cooperate • Get involved in community affairs • Stay informed; vote • Be a good neighbor • Obey laws and rules • Respect authority • Protect the environment • Volunteer....!

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Beautiful Statements

Wednesday, November 16, 2011 6:30:20 PM

Beautiful Statements !

Imposible is just an opinion ,
But if you change your opinion everything is possible.

Silence on lips may Avoid many Problems.
But talking with open Heart can solve all the Problems.

Flowers Blossom in Style
Even when there is no one to Admire its Beauty!
Lets Continue our Good Work with Honesty
Even when Nobody is Watching us!

Excellence Has Always Been Achieved By Those Who Believe That
Something Inside Them Is Superior Than Circumstances

Brains determine how people react to mistakes
People who think they can learn from their mistakes
have a different brain reaction to mistakes than
people who think they can’t get smarter.

Laughing faces do not mean that there is absence of sorrow
It means that they have the ability to deal with it.

"Whoever you may be, Wherever life leads you,
You are always
a Mom's child,
a Dad's dream,
a Family's future,
a Friend's heart &
Someone's life!
Be the best of it......

Three Rules of Life :
Out of clutter find simplicity
From discord find harmony,
In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity !

If you look at what you do not have in life;
You don't have anything.
If you look at what you have in life;
You have everything.

Two bulls always fight in person's mind :
Good one & Bad One
Do you know which one will win ?
Is the one you feed the most !
Don't allow the bad one to win.

Unexpected results and problems are part of life.
Never lose hope in any condition
because Darkness of night always finishes with light".

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Glorious Notes !

Wednesday, November 16, 2011 6:18:03 PM

Glorious Notes !

The true measure of a man is not how
he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but
how he stands at times of controversy and challenges.

"The best relation is one,
In which Yesterday's fight doesn't stop
Today's communication."

“Mistakes, Failures & Rejections
are the part of progress & growth.
Nobody ever achieved anything worth
without facing these three things."

Golden Truth Of Earth :
Every Girl May Not Be A Queen To Her Husband
But She Is Always A Princess To Her Father.

Life is flowing like a river with unexpected turns,
may be good, may be bad,
learn to enjoy each turn
because these turns never RETURN...!

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So Simple....

Wednesday, November 16, 2011 1:03:40 PM

So Simple.!

In order to have a comfortable journey of life,
reduce the luggage of desires

Hurting Someone Who Really Care for you is
As Easy as Throwing Stone in the Sea,
But do you know how Deep that Stone hits?
So think before Hurting Ur Close Ones.

Sometimes people are beautiful not in looks.
Not in what they say.
Just in what they are.

The Best Day Of Your Life Is The One
On Which You Decide Your Life Is Your Own And
You Alone Are Responsible For The Quality Of It

My pain may be the reason for somebody’s laugh.
But my laugh must never be the reason for somebody’s pain

Wednesday, November 16, 2011 9:10:21 AM

What is Real Success?

What is Real Success?

Everyone wants success, and yet they often
don't know when they have it.

For most, it is the maddening chase toward a better
way of life or more of something.
More fame, power, recognition, money, or material stuff.For some, it is the understanding of a loving partner, the love of their child, or the people that they can count on when life throws them a curve.

I am coming to believe that success is not more material wealth, but peace, happiness, contentment, and love.
Most of all love.

Real success is not to be sought after in the outer world, but discovered in your inner world. I am not condemning the stuff of life. We all want the things that life offers.

But we don't need as much as we think we do.
Sooner or later you will discover that real success is friends, strangers,
and anyone who crosses our path.
It is kindness shared, support given and received, listening,
giving, and caring.

These will endure while your car rusts, your toys break, and you tire of the temporary gratifications that bring you what you think is real.

What matters is people.
What lasts is love.
What counts are true friends, and if you treasure these
You can count yourself a success.

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Forever It Wont Last...!

Saturday, November 12, 2011 1:23:36 PM

Forever It Wont Last....

Have u ever realized,
that u missed so much in life.
Do u live just to live,
just to be called alive..??

Have u ever forgotton
and let a great friendship die,
just coz u dint had time
and u forgot to say hi..

Do u realize,
u are heading so fast.
This one life u have
Forever wont last..

Ever felt the drops,
the rain slapping the ground
Ever bothered to touch
and gather the moments around..??

Ever noticed the feel
on that innocent face,
all they want is a part of ur time
but u are hurried to win the race.

You often dance on the muzic,
the one playing somewhere behind,
Have u ever heard the voice,
calling u from ur inner side.

Slow down a bit,
and shower ur love to all.
Dont run so fast,
This one life u have
Forever It Wont Last...!

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Pardes Ki Aik Aur Eid..

Sunday, November 6, 2011 7:03:06 AM

Pardes Ki Eid !

Apne watan se door bethe yeh Eid b guzri hai,
Kya kahain kya batlain kese Eid ye guzri hai.

Apni basti ka har chehra ghoom raha tha ankhu main,
Dhundli dhundli yaadoo main apni Eid yeh guzri hai.

Jis tafr b uthi nazar surtain thi aghyaaoon ki,
Beech hajum main b tanha apni Eid heh guzri hai.

Hum sukhn, hum zubaa, hum nuah koi na tha,
Gunge behroo ki tarha apni Eid yeh guzri hai.

Khushi khushi lote hoo ge log apne gharoo ko,
Pardes k is sehra main apni Eid yeh guzri hai.

Ab nehi to agli bar chale chalian ge apnoo main,
Isi aas k sahare apni Eid ye guzri hai.

AAj ke din mat chhero Gulshan is fasane ko,
Aese hi guzrani thi jese Eid ye guzre hai!!

By, Abrar Gulshan

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EID MUBARAK..

Sunday, November 6, 2011 5:32:45 AM

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The Real Hero.......The Last Hope..!

Saturday, November 5, 2011 3:03:19 PM

MUST WATCH....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ky-DKUTITHM

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Salty Coffee.....!

Thursday, November 3, 2011 5:21:46 AM

Salty Coffee

He met her at a party. She was so outstanding. There were many guys chasing after her while he was so normal. Nobody paid any attention to him.

At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him. She was surprised but she accepted the offer out of politeness. They sat in a nice coffee shop and he was too nervous to say anything.
She felt uncomfortable and thought to herself, "Please, let me go home..."

Suddenly he asked the waiter, "Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."
Everybody stared at him for his strange request! His face turned red but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it.
She asked him curiously, "Why do you add salt to your coffee?"
He replied, "When I was a little boy, I lived near the sea. I liked playing in the sea where I could feel the taste of the sea which is just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood and my hometown. I miss my hometown so much. I miss my parents who are still living there."
While saying that, tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That must have been his true feelings from the bottom of his heart. A man who can express his homesickness must be a man who loves home, cares about home and takes responsibility of his home... Then she also started to talk about her faraway hometown, her childhood and her family.

That was a really nice talk and also a beautiful beginning to their story. They continued to date. She found that he was actually a man who meets all her criteria of a good partner; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm and careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Luckily, his salty coffee brought them together! The story became like every other beautiful love story where the princess married the prince and they lived a happy life together... And every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee as she knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away and left her a letter which said,
"My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life's lie. This was the only lie I said to you - the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous that I actually wanted some sugar but I said salt. It was hard for me to change what I said so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that as I have promised not to lie to you about anything... Now I'm dying and I'm no longer afraid of anything so I wish to tell you the truth. I don't like the strange bad taste of salty coffee... But I have had salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never felt sorry for anything I had ever done for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness throughout my whole life. If I can live for the second time, I would still want to know you and be with you for my whole life even though I would have to drink the salty coffee again."

Her tears made the letter totally wet.
Someday, someone asked her, "What's the taste of salty coffee?"
She replied, "It's sweet."

Pass this to everyone because love is not to forget but to forgive, not to see but understand, not to hear but to listen, not to let go but HOLD ON!!!!

Wednesday, October 26, 2011 10:19:40 AM

FOR INDIAN FRIENDS.......

DIWALI KA TOHFA

Meri taman hai key is diwali par
Gham ka na koi badal ho
Bas khushiyoon ki barsaten hoon
Hanstey hanstey guzrey din
Shaam yaroon ki mehfilain hoon…

Itni door reh kar main
Kya soghaat pesh karoon……?

Piyar bhari tamana hey
Khaloos bhari dua hai
Sarhad key is paar sey
Ehsaas ki packing main
Jazboon ki parwaaz sey
Bharat desh main basney waley
Apney hi aik hissey ko
Diwali ki is khushi par…..

DOSTI KA TOHFA HEY

By: Abrar Gulshan

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Selfishness...and..... Sacrifice....

Tuesday, October 25, 2011 4:50:32 PM

Selfishness...and..... Sacrifice....

There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she could see everything, including her boyfriend.
Her boyfriend asked her, "now that you can see the world, will you marry me?" The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend was blind too, and refused to marry him.

Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying..... "Just take care of my eyes dear." I'll always love you forever..

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Trust..

Monday, October 24, 2011 4:51:31 PM

Trust..

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter:
"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said:
"No, Dad. You hold my hand."
"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.

"There's a big difference," replied the little girl.
"If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...

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Don't Do,,,,,,But Do...

Monday, October 24, 2011 8:44:01 AM

Don't Do,,,,,,But Do...!

Don't wait for time. Make it.
Don't wait for love. Feel it.
Don't wait for money. Earn it.
Don't wait for the path. Find it.
Don't wait for opportunity. Create it.
Don't go for less. Get the best.
Don't compare. Be unique.
Don't fight your misfortune. Transform it.
Don't avoid failure. Use it.
Don't dwell on mistake. Learn from it.
Don't back down. Go around.
Don't close your eyes. Open your mind.
Don't run for life. Embrace it.

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HUMAN OF PRESENT AGE ....

Monday, October 24, 2011 7:14:41 AM

HUMAN OF PRESENT AGE

Today we have higher buildings and wider highways, but shorter temperments and narrower points of view.

We spend more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses, but smaller families. We have more compromises, but less time. We have more knowledge, but less judgement. We have more medicines, but less health.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk much, we love only a little, and we hate too much.

We reached the moon and came back, but we find it troublesome to cross our own street and meet our neighbors. We have conquered the outer space, but not our inner space.

We have higher income, but less morals… These are times with more liberty, but less joy… With much more food, but less nutrition…

These are days in which two salaries come home, but divorces increase. These are times of finer houses, but more broken homes.

That’s why I propose that as of today -- You do not keep anything for a special occasion, because every day that you live is a special occasion. Search for knowledge, read more, sit on your front porch and admire the view without paying attention to the needs. Pass more time with your family, eat your favorite food, visit the place you love. Life is a chain of moments of enjoyment; it isn’t only survival.

Use your crystal goblets. Do not save your best perfume… use it every time you feel you want it. Take out from your vocabulary phrases like, “one of these days” and “someday”. Let’s write that letter we thought of writing “one of these days…”

Let’s tell our families and friends how much we love them. Never pass up a chance at adding laughter and joy to your life. Every day, hour, and minute are special… Because you never know if it will be your last…

If you’re too busy to take some minutes to share this message with someone you love, and you tell yourself that you will share it “one of these days”.“one of these days” can be very far away, and you may not be there to see it.

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Raaz...

Tuesday, October 18, 2011 6:02:27 PM

Sunday, October 16, 2011 12:12:58 PM

AIK BACHEY KI FARYAAD....

AIK BACHEY KI FARYAAD

Wah Rey Duniya Walo...

Kya qasoor maera hai
main ney tumhari duniya main
sans bhi nehi li thi
aankh bhi nehi kholi thi
phir kya jurm mera tha....?
kya khata meri thi....?
k shikam-e-jannat main mujhko
yeh tohfa bakhsa hai...!
Kash mujh jesey bachey
laamatnai muqam par
apney Khliq sey keh dain
aey malik-e-dojahaan
Humko darindoon ki duniya main
Wehshiyoo aur hewaanoo main
Ablees k per-o-karoo main
Maot k sodagaroo main
Zindagi k thekedaroo main
HO SAKEY TO NA BEHJO.......
ISI LAAMATNAI MUQAM PEY....
LASHA'AOOR MAIN REHNEY DO...!!!

Wah Rey Duniya Walo ......

By; A. Gulshan

There is no trust more sacred than the one the world holds with children. There is no duty more important than ensuring that their rights are respected, that their welfare is protected, that their lives are free from fear and want and that they grow up in peace....!

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Oo Zindagi...

Saturday, October 15, 2011 6:29:48 AM

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KYA TUM INSAAN HO???????

Friday, October 14, 2011 6:37:14 AM

KYA TUM INSAAN HO?

KHAOF K LAMHOON NEY
ZINDAGI KI CHEEKHOON NEY
MAOT KI KHAMOSHI NEY
MUJH SE AAJ PUCHHA HAI...
KYA TUM INSAAN HO?

Jo aapney hi hathoon sey
apney hi bhaiyoon ko
kisi masoom phool ko
kisi komal kali ko
maaon ki mamta ko
behnoon k sohagoon ko
khaof-o-hiras ki aandhi main
zulm-o-jabr k toofaa main
abdi neend solatey ho
KYA TUM INSAAN HO?

Kis ki khatir larhtey ho?
kis ki khatir martey ho?
yeh kis mazhab main likha hai?
yeh kis maslik ki batain hain?
k wehshi darindoon k jesey
yoon aal-e-Adam-o-Hawwa ka
tum khoon bahatey ho
KYA TUM INSAAN HO?

Koi science bata sakti hai
khoon k mushahedey sey
k yeh kisi muslim ka hai
woh hindu ya christen ka
is ka rang kala hai
us ka rang nila hai
ilm k bojh main dabb kar bhi
phir bhi kitney jahil ho
KYA TUM INSAAN HO?

Gharq kar do sabi bandooqain
fanah kar do yah bomb,missile
tabah kar do jangi jahzoon ko
bujhao nafrat ki chingari
jalao dosti ki shama
roshan karo chiraagh-e-amn
kya itna tum dey saktey ho...?
apne aaney waley kal ko....
haan... tum dey sakte ho...
AGAR TUM INSAAN HO TO.......!
KYA TUM INSAAN HO?????

By; A.Gulshan

We will not build a peaceful world by following a negative path. It is not enough to say we must not wage war. It is necessary to love peace and sacrifice for it. We must concentrate not merely on the negative expulsion of war but on the positive affirmation of peace. We must see that peace represents a sweeter music, a cosmic melody, that is far superior to the discords of war. Somehow, we must transform the dynamics of the world power struggle from the negative nuclear arms race, which no one can win, to a positive contest to harness humanity's creative genius for the purpose of making peace and prosperity a reality for all the nations of the world. In short, we must shift the arms race into a peace race. If we have a will - and determination - to mount such a peace offensive, we will unlock hitherto tightly sealed doors of hope and transform our imminent cosmic elegy into a psalm of creative fulfillment.

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FORGIVENESS..

Thursday, October 13, 2011 7:56:07 PM

FORGIVENESS!!!

Love, Truth, Fears, Trust, Pain, Death, Kindness,
Why do you abuse these emotions?
“I love you.”
Why do you ask these words when you don't mean it?
“I swear I’m telling you the truth!”
Why do you swear? If you are lying?
“I want to chase your fears away.”
Why do you say that? If in the end I’ll fear you in the end?
“Trust me, I want what's best for you.”
Why did you say that? If now I am too scared to trust myself.
“I will heal the pain within your heart”
How? If you put it there in the first place?
“I will save you from death.”
How? If you already killed me inside?
“My kindness is so wonderful it’ll make you fly.”
Well now I’m falling. And are you going to help me again?
No...
I see now... I understand...
You never meant to keep the promise.
You never meant to make anyone happy.
You only wanted to use and play with everyone’s emotions.
You said love and you got hate.
You said truth and got lies.
You said fears, you got even more.
You said trust and received none
You said pain and cause pain into others.
You said death and killed the light in our hearts.
You said kindness and we are waiting to see when we’ll get it.
You are nothing or no one to hurt us like that!
But...
Even through the lies and the hurt.
You can still come to me and I’ll still be your friend.
Because there’s something that you forgot .......
Forgiveness....!

Wednesday, October 12, 2011 11:38:02 AM

If I could catch a rainbow

If I could catch a rainbow

If I could catch a rainbow

I would do it just for you.

And share with you it's beauty

On the days you're feeling blue.

If I could build a mountain

You could call your very own.

A place to find serenity

A place to be alone.

If I could take your troubles

I would toss them in the sea.

But all these things I'm finding

are impossible for me,

I cannot build a mountain

Or catch a rainbow fair

But let me be...what I know best,

A FRIEND that's always there....!

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WONT LET U DIE MY DEAR

Tuesday, October 11, 2011 12:43:44 PM

I WONT LET U DIE MY DEAR

I seek in prayerful words, dear friend,
My heart's true wish to send you,
That you may know, that far or near,
My loving thoughts attend you.

I cannot find a truer word,
Nor better to address you;
Nor song, nor poem have I heard,
Is sweeter than God bless you!

God bless you! So I've wished you all
Of brightness life possesses;
For can there any joy at all
Be yours unless God blesses?

God bless you! So I breathe a charm
Lest grief's dark night oppress you,
For how can sorrow bring you harm
If 'tis God's way to bless you?

And so, "through all thy days
May shadows touch thee never - "
But this alone - God bless thee -
Then art thou safe forever.

Friday, October 7, 2011 5:24:21 AM

Mohkoom o Mazloom

Thursday, October 6, 2011 5:09:11 AM

Khuwab Reza Reza..

Khuwab Reza Reza

Who khuwab meri jagti ankhoo ko dey gaya
Meri neend mera chain sab kuch sath ley gaya

Who jis ke liye khaloos tha chahat thi dil main
Meri ankhoon ko saawan ki barsaat dey gaya

Kal khud sey mil kar main jee bhar kar roya
Mery hathoon main who mera hath dey gaya

Waqt-e-rukhsat najane us ne konsi sargoshi ki
Umr bhar ka meri sama’atoon ko azaab dey gaya

Sehr-e-aakhir tak bhi main uski rah dekhoon ga
Who lot aane ka Dost mujhe wa’ada hai dey gaya

By; A. Gulshan

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Guzarish

Tuesday, October 4, 2011 7:26:12 AM

GUZARISH

Mere dost
apni dharkan ko
iltaja ka roop dekar
apni har sans ki
iltaja o iltamas ko
yakja kar k
mangi thi main ne
har khushi teri
Main janta hu
tu kisi or k
daman ki kali hai lekin
phir bhi teri
bhini bhini khushboo
aati hai
gahe gahe
ghuli rehti hai
sansoon ki mehak main...
Tere aks k kuch khake
khayal k siyah khane main
rang bharte hain...
Mere dost...
dushman nehi hu
main apna
k apni dua ki qabooliyat ki
dua na karoon
ke yeh kali,
sada mehkti rahe
iski khushoo se
muatar ho
yeh jahaa sara
is ke aks
main
qos-e-qaza ka noor ho...
PAR
ik GUZARISH hai
ke agar kbhi
meri dosti bojh ban jaye
to hichkichana mat
keh dena k tum
zindagi k is warq ko
ulta dena chahte ho...
PHIR,
kabhi nehi dekhoo ga rah teri
kabhi na karo ga tujh se milne ki khuwahish...
Teri yaadoon ko
lapete
apne dil k boseeda labade main..
Teri duniya
Tere kooche se
kehain dooooor
bohot door chala jaaoon ga
itni door
janhan pahanch na paaye
Khayal tera...

IS GUZARISH KI GUZARISH HAI...
JAB THAK JAAO.....
TO.....KEH DENA.!
By; A. Gulshan

Friday, September 30, 2011 5:07:09 AM

Na Chher Malangaan Noo...

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AURAT..!

Friday, September 23, 2011 4:18:44 AM

Kainat main sab rishtoo ki bunyad bani hai aurat se,
Humain 1 lakh chobees harzar tohfe mile hain aurat se,

Bnaya humain ALLAH (swt) ne insan or phir muslim,
Rakhi jannat humare liye qadmu main ik aurat k,

Phelaye hue hai apna daman bargah-e-rubbani main,
Gire hain ankh se ansu humare liye ik aurat k,

Kitna piyara kitna mukhlis rishta hai yeh behen ka,
Kuch b keh do phir b nikle dua dil se aurat k,

Duniya main ik surat hai jo ankhu se dil main base,
Hosh khata ho jate hain bas jalwe se ik aurat k,

Kitni azmat kitna rutba dekho sinf-e-nazuk ka,
Mila humain aasmani tohfa roop main ik aurat k,

Hum kehte hain tum b keh do Gulshan sari duniya se,
Main ne b jeene ka hunar sikha hai ik aurat se. !!

[/align]By; A.Gulshan

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TOHFA....!

Thursday, September 22, 2011 7:23:11 AM

TOHFA,,,

chehere ki in jhoriyoo pe!

na itna heraan ho tum..

yeh zindagi ki musafat ka..

waqt ki inayat ka..

zamane ki berehmi ka..

farz ko nibhane ka..

apne jigar k goshoon main..

khud ko bant lene ka..

sinf-e-nazuk hune ka..

apne andar hi andar..

ghoott k jee lena ka..

khushiyoon ki dehleez pe..

armanoo ki lashoon ka..

roz-e-awwal se le kar..

aaj b bint-e-hawwa ko..

aaj b iban-e-aadam ko..

YEH UMAR-E-RAWAA KA TOHFA HAI..!

By; A. Gulshan

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KASH,,,,

Sunday, September 18, 2011 5:52:54 AM

AIK DOST(jo pardes main tha) KI WALIDAH K INTAQAL PAR,
Meri Maa,
kash ap keh deti
ajal se aik bar
abhi nahi yahan
mera munna mera lal
mere jigar ka tukra
woh mera dost hai
main uski raazdaan hoon
Aaj palat jaao
aa jane do
usko
aik baar dekh to le
woh mujh ko main usko
aakhri baar
diyar-e-ghair ko
waqt-e-rukhsat
woh bohot roya tha
gale laga kar
main b sarapa dua thi
us k liye....
KASH
Tum jan sako
k jab woh wapas aaye ga
to dhoonde ga muje
kabi yahan kabi wahan
kabi ghar k andar kabi baher
puche ga har kisi se
apne bhaiyoon se
apni behnoo se
.....kahan hain AMMI...
Koi nahi bole ga
par koi to lab khole ga
K TUMHARI MAA.....
....TooooT jaye ga...woh
yaad aaye ga use
jab bachpan apna
roz-e-awal se le kar
waqt-e-rukhsat tak
ik ik pal tarpaye ga usko
lot jaa tu aaj ae ajal
aa jana phir kabi
lot aane de
mere laal ko...
...Use apni ankhoon main
bsa loon to phir koi gham nehi....
KASH MAA....
Ap keh deti yeh sab
to mot b lot jati darwaze se....:
AUR... MAA
Ab jo main lot k aaoon ga
teri yaadian meri bebasi
meri majburi meri laachargi
meri badnaseebi
mere sath ho gi
kitni hasrat se
dekhain gi bebas aankhain
us raaste ko
jo ghar ko jata hai
us raaste pe kabi
mere nanne paoon
sharrart se uth'te the
tere qadmoon k sath
mere masoom haathoon ki
naazuk ungliyaan
tere dast-e-mehrbaan main
mehfooz samjhti thi
khud ko...
Kese utha paaoon ga
main apne qadmoon ko.....
Phir...
Teri yaad k sath sath
chal paroon ga
raaste k sab shajr
woh pathar woh boote
Dekhain ge mujh ko
sawaliya nazroon se
poochhain ge
akele kiyoon ho aaj....
Aur phir....
us ghar ka aangan
udas ho gaa mujhe dekh kar
sisak parain ge
dar-o-diwar
ro doon ga main bhi
unhain gale laga kar....
Bohot log aaian ge wahan
mujh se milne
mere daain baain
aage pichhe
koi khara koi betha
koi sofe pe
koi kursi pe
koi sehen main pari
chaarpai pe
par us hajoom main
nazar nehi aae ga
woh mamta bhra aanchal
jis k saae main
kuch der bethoon
apni jannat k pehlo main
kuch baatain karoon
kiya beeti
diyar-e-ghair main
aghyaaroon main.....
Us bhir main
meri nazrain
teri surat ki matlashi
shikwa karain gi
us matti se un hawaoon se
un khetoon se un khilyaanoon se.....
Roka kiyoon nehi...
Meri Maa ko...
Ro parhain ge tere gham main woh b mere sath
Ro pahain suraj chand aur sitaare mere sath
Tamam umar judai teri ka gham rahe ga mere sath
Main bhi maa tere gham ko lagaye rakhoon ga dil k sath..!

By; Abrar Gulshan[/SIZE]

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Kash aesa hota...

Friday, September 16, 2011 6:35:00 AM

Roz-o-shab yoon na azeeyat main guzare hote
Chain aa jata agar khael ke haare hote

Khud se fursat hi muyassar nehi warna
Hum kisi aur k hote to tumhare hote

Tujh ko bhi agar gham ne theek se batra hota
Tere chehre ke khadokhal humare hote

Aik bhi moj agar meri hamayat karti
Main ne us paar kei log utare hote

Lag gai aur kehin umar ki punji warna
Zindagi hum teri dehleez pe hare hote

Kharch ho jate isi aik mubabat main
Dil agar aur bhi seene main humare hote...

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BheeR main tanha...

Friday, September 16, 2011 5:51:08 AM

Raat sunti rahi main sunata raha
Dard ki dastaa main sunata raha

Log logoon se chahat nibhate rahe
Aik woh tha mera dil jalata raha

Dhoop chhaoon si uski tabiyat rahi
Woh nigahain milata churata raha

Ik main hi piyasa mere dosto
Log peete rahe woh peelata raha

Dil ke mehman khane main ronak rahi
Koi ata raha koi jata raha

Hum maktab ne sara sabaq parh liya
Main uska naam likhta mittata raha...

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Uss ne likha hai...

Friday, September 16, 2011 5:34:40 AM

Us ne door rehne ka mashwara b likha hai
Sath hi mohabat ka wasta b likha hai

Us ne yeh b likha hai mere ghar nehi ana
Aur saaf saaf lafzoon main rasta b likha hai

Kuch haroof likhe hain zabt ki nasihat ke
Kuch haroof main us ne hosla b likha hai

Shukriya b likha hai dil se yaad karne ka
Dil se dil ka hai kitna woh fasla b likha hai

Kya usse likhain aur kya usse kahein
Jis ne bejaan kar ke jaan b likha hai....

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Iradah....

Friday, September 16, 2011 3:55:06 AM

Yaad-e-mazi main jo aankhoon ko saza di jaye
Iss se behtar hai ke har baat bhoola di jaye

Jis se thori si bhi umeed ziyada ho kabi
Aesi har shama sar-e-sham jala di jaye

Hum ne apnoon ke rawiyoon se yeh mesoos kiya
Dil ke aangan main diwaar utha di jaye

Main ne apnoon ke bichharne se yeh seekha
Apne dushman ko bhi jeene ki dua di jaye...