SECRETS OF A SUCESSFULL RELATIONSHIP

TOGETHERNESS,GOOD COMMUNICATION,BE ON THE SAME PAGE,FIGHT FAIR,THE ART OF MAKING UP,GIVING,TOLERANCE,HONESTY....

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TO ALL MY FRIENDS AM SO SORRY FOR NOT COMING ONLINE THIS DAYS,I STILL HAVE A PART OF YOU ALL IN ME....AM BACK FOR REAL AND I LOVE YOU ALL..XOXO..MUAAH
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VISION AND AMBITION

Most people still dont see the difference between the two words.
A vision is more of a planned and stabilised way of getting to/fulfilling a dream.
Am ambition is more of a vision but in this case,it is planned,its a dream that must be accomplished by all means possible...when you have a vision you work towards it,you dont struggle to get it although it might take some time but eventually you would get to it,but when you have an ambition,you become so desperate,anxious and impatient,you are ready to do anything to get it fast.
People think all visions have to do with being great or having money but it is far away from that,you can have a vision of helping the poor,a vision of bringing souls to christ,a vision of changing the mentality of people,a vision is something you naturally dont have and you hunger for,a vision is a gift from God that hasnt yet being fulfilled on earth,when you hunger/work towards getting that gift accomplished,you are working towards you vision.
Am ambition is a dangerous thing,because it makes people impatient and dangerous,an ambition is a selfish desire because of a self gain,you can cheat,kill,rob or die trying to get you ambition done.
In africa,where everyone wants to be a leader for their selfish desire,they kill themselves,struggle,rig elections and commit all sorts of sins.
Presently there is no african leader that his hands arent stained with blood,they arent elected there by their people.
Not everyone can be a leader,there are people who has these gifts to lead,not everyone are ought to be rich but everyone ought to be comfortable.
Some people grow an ambition of becoming rich,and so commit many sins,there are people who are ought to be rich in other to aid the poor,those people who goes via an ambition and become rich,are those who use their money to oppress others...80% of humans are ambitious,because we are humans,and cant be satisfied,it takes the grace of God to be comfortable and peaceful on earth.
It takes that grace,to give you a simple and peaceful life to work towards your vision and accomplish it,you need that grace today.
But first accept Jesus into your life.

God Bless You.

Where is the devil?

We as christains have all read the bible and have come across the book of revelations which talk about the endtime,and how the devil will come here on earth like a beast with seven horns to take all his agents captive.
But come to think of it,have you given your life to jesus christ or to the devil?
Are you waiting to see the devil?
Its funny though,but in the bible prophecies were made of the coming of jesus,it was said that he would come riding on a white horse and crowned king of glory,but jesus disguised himself,he came as a poor child of a carpenter,people were shocked and didnt believe when he said "i am the messiah" because they expected him in another way.
People are expecting to see the devil as the book of revelations described him with seven horns but am sad to announce to you that the devil is on the surface of the earth,making people to shy away from christainity,enjoying sin,women walking naked,gay,cannibalism and making our leaders to trust in the devil...all these has been done in the name of development and advancement,but the bible cant be modernised the word of God is the word of God,God is not a man that he should lie,God said instead of my word to go void,heaven and earth would pass away..
I want to encourage every christain,hold firm in your faith,at this time there would be criticism and persecution,just hold God firm.
And as for you who havent accepted jesus christ as your saviour,you still have a chance to do so no matter what you have done,he still loves you.
Theres no greater peace than when in jesus.

What you do here does matter where you spend eternity.
GOD BLESS YOU.

Be Carefull!!!

Be very careful of whom you chat with on yahoo and all dating sites.....its true that we all want fun and are looking for love but lets dont get heartbroken while doing that.

Nigeria is a country of over 140million people,and has a 45% rate of poverty,we all know that nigeria is known as one of the most dangerous scam nations in africa,although there are bad people but there are still the good ones there also,its just that the bad surpass the good and so we are just praying that god would change us one day.......below are the guide lines not to be a victim of fraud.
Note:nigerian fraudsters can go to any limit to get you,they can cast a spell on you,whereby you wont be ur normal self,you would just do their wish,which is"give me money".

1.)dont give any nigerian you dont trust/know ur mobile number.
2.)never be in a rush to start up a relationship.
3.)always read the profile,status,notes,comments and blog of everyone.
4.)delete immediately any message of aid,help,busines proposal that you know nothing of.
5.)always log out you accounts and delete items after surfing the internet.
Note:they use a particular software in searching for email addreses and also knowing what you want....ie...i applied for a visa lottery to america earlier this year,i forgot to wipe out my account and few weeks later,i got an e-mail asking me to pay $2000 that av just won the visa lottery,i took my time to check the email add and discovered it was a scam.
6.)never release important details of urself to anyone on the internet.
7.)refuse to accept/receive money from anyone from the internet rather ask the person to send you a gift with the money.
8.)dont start making love statements or answering emails of someone who has no profile/blog no matter how handsome/beautiful he/she is.
9.)always read an email thoroughly before replying.
10.)be prayerful,GOD loves you.

NOTE:Am a nigerian by birth and race,but i dont like what my people are doing,since i cant stop them i have to warn my friends all over the world.....right now i dont accept nigerian males as friends....GOD BLESS YOU.

The Bible,the greatest Weapon

Whatever you need in life is rooted in the word,go for the word........a preacher said this and in john chapter 1 verse 1-5,the bible mentioned the word.
Jesus is the word,the moment you acepted jesus into your life,you are a new being,old things are passed away.

In my previous blog "faith" i emphasized its importance...faith comes by hearing and reading the bible,the bible teaches us more about our right,the devil has tormented most christains,just because they dont know their rights as a christain.
Jesus was holy and yet the devil came to tempt him,at that time he was hungry,jesus used the scriptures to defeat the devil.
When jesus was dam hungry the devil said to him if he could bow down and worship him he would give hin some bread and wine,but jesus replied based on the bible by saying"man shall not live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds out of the...."if jesus didnt know the bible and his right he wouldnt have been able to defeat the devil,remember in the old testament cain sold his birth right to his brother just because of a plate of porridge......that was similar to the first temptation of jesus,cain was less hungry compared to the way jesus was,cain didnt know his right and also didnt know the right words to use against the devil in his brother abel.
The devil can come in any form to tempt you,your wife,kids,date, whatever,he can even speak to you by bringing up negative taughts or bringing up the word IMPOSSIBLE to you,its left for you to rebuke him.

President barack obama is an example,he definitely has had challenges and people telling him to step down from the race for the presidency that he couldnt make it or that he was just wasting his time and money but he was determined to do it,most people even close relations might have told him that no black has ever gone to the white house and the few that tried either failed or died....but he was determined and today he is made and has set a record.
You can do so too...when the devil comes in form of a human being or taught give him the right word,say it out loud to his hearing.
Below are some examples you can use.

*When you are sick and the devil tells you that theres no way out,tell him that the bible says that jesus was wounded for our transgressions bruised for our inquities and by his stripes you are healed,say it and believe it.

*When you dont have enough money and the devil says you would be poor,tell him that jesus was made poor on earth that you would be rich and as a result of that you are rich.

*When the devil say you will die,tell him that jesus already died that you may live long,and that you would live to declare the words of God in the land of the living.

*When the devil says its impossible tell him that there is nothing impossible for God.

*When the devil tries to make you afraid tell him that at the mention of Jesus every kneel must bow and every tongues must confess that jesus is lord.

Wish i could continue but cant read your bible to get more.

WHAT DO I DO AS A CHRISTAIN?

I AM SORRY

Situations that bring in fornication,unfaithfulness,immorality amongst partners....

These situations only apply to the responsible and good people out there who have a partner...

1.) when partners live afar from each other.
2.) when partners stay away from each other for a long time"i dont really support the act whereby a man/woman stays away from their partner for a long time,its not safe,we all are humans and have sexual feelings,we might be tempted at any point,so go with your partner wherever and whenever,never leave each other alone.
3.) most men who go to clubs and parties" we all know what to expect in such environments,so when going take you partner along with you.
4.) when you arent proud of your partner's beauty.
5.) when you arent really satisfied with your partners sexual strength....this is the most important,noone was born into the world a sex freak,we all learn to be a good sex pal as we grow along,so i think,if you really love your partner,you should teach him or her and also learn to be satisfied with you partner.
5.) men who sleep outside their partner when she is pregnant...this shows how responsible a man is and it also shows how much you love and trust your wife...learn to restrict and control your sexual feelings only and solely to your wife.
6.) women who go after big dicks and sexy young guys...you can make your man what you want him to be and also you as a man can make out of your wive what you want out of her.
7.) when both partners cant learn to control their sexual feelings.

HOW TO BE A SUCESSFUL PERSON

Yes,everyone wanna be great but not everyone can be great until you know the basis of greatness.
How do you mean?
Greatness has a price to be paid...if you desire to be great in your field,then adhear to this.

You must have a mentor in your field.
You must push pride away and be humble.
You mustnt be greedy and covertious.
You must be zealous and willing to be great.
You must have a high aspiration and be serious.
You must set a goal and time schedule.
You must be a sharp thinker and also a talk less.
You must develop yourself in a different way in your field of study(think of how to make your product or skill special and unique,be an inventor of things and ideas).
You must think before acting.
Above all, always put God first.

I always tell people that poverty is not the absence of money,its the state of mind of a person,how you think determines how far you would go in life.
The difference between a manager and a messenger is the ability to use the mind, while the manager thinks on how to make profits and keep his organisation soaring high,the messenger never thinks that far,he only thinks on his wage and how to answer and go errands.
G.M-this can also mean a General Manager and it can also mean Gate Man...thinking makes the difference.
Always remember my word"God cannot work for you rather he will work with you....if you can reason it,then you can have it....if you dont dream,you are doomed....dont just think,work your thought out....for you to keep suceeding you must have a passion for sucess and greatness"

Tanx and God bless you.

WHAT DO I GAIN AS A CHRISTAIN?

Good question!
You stand to lose nothing as a christain rather you stand to gain millions.
As a christain you have a quality and power that even the richest man in the world dont have,you have power to request and receive,you have the power to heal the sick,you have the power to cast out demons.
Why should a spell work on you as a christain,thats impossible,jesus said "he has given us dominion over all things on earth"not just that the devil is the creator of spells,the bible says at the name that is above every other name the name of jesus every kneel must bow including the devil including the spell spirit.
The day you acepted jesus as your lord and personal saviour,you discover that theres an inner peace and confidence you have in you,the richest men with all the money dont have this peace and confidence,they are always scared and concious thats why they move with securities.
Upon the securities they are still asasinated and killed,the bible says"except God guides the city invain do the watchman watch"God is no respecter of persons...as a christain you have authority over every form of sicknesses,you have devine protection.
Benny Hinn the american born preacher narated his experience in india when he went for a crusade...his presence caused a total confusion to the kingdom of darkness in india,the people became so angry and wanted to kill him,God protected him ,same happened to apostle paul in the bible.
90% of african politicians go to india to get charms,protection and at the end they still die.
As a christain you automatically are in the family of God,the day you became a christain your genectic blood changes to the blood of jesus....
Are you confused?
As a parent you give birth to a child,definitely that child would take up your behaviour,what ever you did as a parent,expect it twice from your offspring,thats because your blood is what is in that child...that child if left like that would behave the way the parent did and in a sinful way because we are born of sin but are made righteous by the blood of jesus.
The moment that child acepts jesus into his/her life,a new spirit enters in and thats the holyspirit,it takes over that child and that child rather than potraying the genectic trait,start potraying a christlike trait and thats why its very important that as a parent you try to teach your children the way of the lord"proverbs 22 vs 6"when they are tender,children take after their parents,the only thing that can save them is acepting jesus.
You as a parent you can make it easier for your offspring now by getting to acept jesus now(a lion would always give birth and behave like a lion)then you have made a way for your offsprings to enjoy the benefits of being a christain.
As a christain you interact with God through your prayer and as a christain the word"IMPOSSIBLE" is pronounced I'M POSSIBLE....wish i could just keep reading out the benefits but they are too much.
First accept jesus into your life today.

THE GREATEST RIGHT

Everyone on earth has a right called the human right,its a right that gives us priviledges to do certain things as humans,the only person who has no right is the dead human.
There are some priviledges you are supposed to enjoy as a human that you dont,infact no body can give you those priviledges,such as peace,riches,good health,wisdom.....
And thats where the greatest right comes up,it is the heavenly right..its a right you enjoy as a christain,its a right that gives birth to others,its a right that the devil and the underworld respect.
As a christain you dont see problems,you see solutions.
As a christain you see things that be,as though they be not.
As a christain you dont get to see poverty or illness you see riches and sound health.
As a christain you see positivity not negativity.
If only you knew your heavenly right,the devil wont dare tamper with your life,you would be too hot for the devil,when you see the devil you get a stick(bible verses)and beat him like a child.
There are people who never fell ill through out last year,arent they humans like you?
You spend more than half of your wage on hospital bills and yet you arent any better,thats because you dont know your right.
The devil brings problems to you as an unbeliever.
Yes you might be lucky as an unbeliever to be rich but how long is it gonna last,if you die would you go with the jeeps,cadillac,mansions.never!!
Some people when they are sick they start thinking of death,forgeting that there is a chance for life.
The devil is the king of death and darkness while God is the king of life and light and as light over shadows darkness so does life overshadows death.

The bible says at the name that is above every other name,the name of JESUS,every knee must bow and every tongue must confess and accept his soverignity over all.
At that name the devil bows and when the devil bows,death bows,sickness bows,poverty bows...etc
the economy of your country doesnt determine your sucess in life,what determines is your connection to heaven.
Do you choose to be a citizen of heaven or a citizen of your country?
Heaven is above and your country is below,whatever decision it takes is what the earth obeys,so which do you choose.

If you really want to know how strong that name is,have faith,acept JESUS as your saviour...walk into any spiritual/spell/demonic house,when the leader starts saying some strange words,belief and slowly just say "THE BLOOD OF JESUS"you would discover that his charms,spells or whatever would stop functiöning.

What happened is that at that moment when you mentioned JESUS the devil obeyed God and bowed down.

When you know the truth(jesus)it shall set you free.
JESUS is the truth.

My life

Me!!!

Whats you aim this year? Put God first

My Experience at the military school.

My experience as a student being trained to defend my country was a nice one and also a harsh one.

I school at the Nigerian Airforce Military School,Jos...i started my schooling at the age of 2yrs,then we enjoyed life and were treated as kings,At 5yrs i started my primary school,then the harsh part of life started,we were taught to respect our seniors in school even if we were age mates,those who failed were flogged either with woods or with a dry cow tail,those who failed the law or disrespected their seniors were beaten like animals.
At the age of 11,i went into high school,here was the worst part of my life,our seniors sends us on errands any how,talks to us anyhow...infact we feared our seniors in school,far more than our parents,we pledged our lives to them...some of the students who could not cope withdrawed,i was determined to go to the end i and my friend whos a half nigerian...but i swore that when i became a senior i would also torment my juniors.
Finally i became a senior,i had the soft heart of my mom,i couldnt put someone through stress,but i left a legacy,i was called the torturer,i had my way of bringing criminal students to say the truth,i give criminals and also stubborn civilians a punishment that would make them repent.
I preached gods word to them when they are sober and torment them when they are hardened.
Some of the punishment i give to people who kill,i might just shock them,or pull out their teeth with a plier;for those who just commited an offence like rape,stealing,blackmailing etc...i lock them up in a dark room with no window and pour a tear gas in their...when they are sober and say the truth i give them a bible and preach to them.
I graduated from high school at 17 and was heading to study engineering at a military university.
This was the final stage before i would be enlisted into army.
People die here due to the harsh training but first the families of this people were required to sign an undertaking of the life of the individual.

The day i brought the form for my mom to sign she refused and withdrew me from the school,right now am in a state university,living a normal life and studying engineering but i still remember my days at high school,it was sweet and also bitter.
TANX

HOW TO MAKE YOUR PARTNER LAST..

Av always told people that you are not a function of what you think you are a function of how you think....
Everyone wants true love but not everyone can have it.
WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO MAKE MY RELATIONSHIP LAST?
Change your character,most people spend more time decorating their body and looking sexy and romantic forgetting to address their character,beauty fade away by time but character never fades,did your man marry just because of your beauty?then prepare for a heartbreak but if he really married you based on your character then prepare for a lasting affair....in other wards learn to pay more time to your inner beauty.
SELF CONFIDENCE:Never condem your self,if you are fat,slim....someone is out there who loves you and is looking for you,learn to appreciate yourself,your lips,face,breast,hips,tummy.....you must learn to apreciate yourself,everyone has a quality,look for that quality in you that people like in you and build on it.
LEARN HOW TO SPEAK TO YOUR DATES:You must learn and mind the type of languages you use on your dates,also the type of language a person uses tells you whom he/she is, example some people always use the word "fuck"in all their sentences,that shows how much matured and responsible that fellow is,how many times have you heard the presidents use that language or even rich men(bill gates)learn to control your tongue.
LEARN TO BE SOCIAL:If you dont learn to be social,and also learn to be easy going and not easy angered,humble,and generous you cant have a lasting relationship.
SHOW CARE AND LOVE:How can you say you love someone and you dont even bother to know how that person feels even after 48hours of not hearing from him,thats not love thats lust...
LOVE IS PATIENT AND MATURED:This has made many women and men to be duped of huge amounts of money,never rush love,always learn how to give love a chance and time to grow...before you fall in love with anyone,make sure you know every dam thing about that persön and also try as much as possible to speak with the person regularly and also study the person closely by the type of messages he/she sends and also how he/she speaks,thats show and tells you how much responsible he/she is.
I pray that as you do this you would find your partner.
Am just like you also we are all out here in search of true love.

GO GET THIS BOOK AND READ IT MORE:
HOW TO FIND A GOOD MAN by Praise george

TRUST

What is trust?this is simply the feeling a kid has when an adult throws him/her up in the air an catches him again and he enjoys it.

HONESTY

Without honesty theres no trust and without trust theres no commitment and without commitment the relatiönship is an experiment doomed to fail.
Take HONESTY as a virtue to your relationship and it would excel.
Shun cheating,and immorality.

TOLERANCE

We all have differences;when we focus on it we become irritated,Sucessfull relationships requires partners to focus ön each others strength not weaknesses.
This is the bedrock of affairs,learn to enjoy your partners weakness...

GIVING

Lopsided selfishness is a core problem that shows up as many different symptoms in happy relationships,learn to give with no intention of receiving,put your ego aside and give...

LEARN THE ACT OF MAKING UP

Fights are inevitable,but what matters is the ability of you both to drop it,and love,kiss and smooch yourselves again,forget about the past.
NEVER ALLOW A 3RD PARTY INTO YOUR PROBLEMS...

FIGHT FAIR

Everyöne has a bad spot,but smart partners dont allow molehills to become mountains or use their words as weapons,no matte what refrain from attacking your partner...

BE ON THE SAME PAGE

How do you both view your relationship?
Do you take it as just about money,sex or what?
Learn to take you relationship as a lifeline,which without you cant live.
LOVE IT,CHERISH IT.

GOOD COMMUNICATION

Its the lifeline to any affair,it requires intentional listening,respect,understanding,open expression and not always thinking you are right.
The courage to confront potential conflicts and consistent assertiveness.

Togetherness

Learn to spend sometime with your partner,try also to find out what your partner loves and make sure he/she is happy doing it with you.
A COUPLE THAT PLAYS TOGETHER,STAYS TOGETHER....

Love

Nothing is as cool,sweet and comfortable as being in love.
Nothing is much devastating,heartbreaking and frustrating as not having someone to trust or being heart broken.
True Love deals with the heart and its expensive and hard to find.
Do you know i love you baby?

Lust

Love is made done and said by everyone,but love without feelings,care,touch is lust

True love

True love never comes twice,thats why it takes someone with wisdom to see it when its knocking.
Many people make mistakes by caling true love fake,because it comes with a lot of problems while the fake ones comes with no problem.
At times people say that they are in search of true love,but they are in search of the pride of life,forgeting to listen to their heart.

Love is something everyone would wish to last forever.
Thats why before you say the most expensive word read your heart and that of your beloved.
Goodday