Thursday, 24. May 2007, 06:45:42
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference.
The opposite of faith is not heresay, it's indifference.
And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.
Elie Wiesel
Friday, 1. September 2006, 12:42:15
opera, blog
CONFIDENCE is all about holding one’s head high, and being the best one can be, amidst all the trials and tribulations, when life seems to fall apart at one’s feet, facing each difficulty with the realization, that time will bring better tomorrows, and never giving up, but moving uphill using just the power within!
COURAGE is all about upholding and standing for what one believes in, regardless of all the odds and the greatest pressure that life imparts, that’s sometimes so painful, that it tears into the very seams of one’s resistance, so much so, into the deepest myriads of one’s very soul!
STRENGTH is all about keeping a warm smile on one’s face, while inside one really feel’s like dying, and all in the humaneness, just for the sake of supporting others to hold on together in all adversities!
DETERMINATION is all about stopping at nothing, and doing what's in one’s heart, wherein the conscience guides one to the path of absolute righteousness!
COMPASSION is all about doing more than is expected, for one another, to make another's life (whoever it may be), a little more bearable, without uttering a single complaint in all honesty and truthfulness!
LOYALTY is all about helping a friend, when he/she is in need, no matter, the time or effort, to the best of one’s ability and beyond!
SELFLESSNESS is all about giving more than one has had, and expecting nothing, really nothing at all in return!
DO WE HAVE IT ALL????
LETS SOLEMNLY - ASK OURSELVES!
Hey guys I’m not trying to PREACH HERE..!
Just SHARING and CARING for a BETTER TOMORROW!
Wednesday, 30. August 2006, 08:29:25
browsers, opera, blog
Hey FRIENDS “WOMEN”!
(Hey Guys.. no offence meant J)))))))))))))))))))
– And SO its SAID….!!!!…
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away!
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay!
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior….!
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache….!
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be….!
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy….!
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you, as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."!!!!
“A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend”!
Don't settle….!!!!
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is….!
Don't stay because you think - "It will get better….!"
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better….!
The only person you can control in a relationship is “you”….!
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you….!
If something bothers you, speak up….!
Don’t BOTTLE things up….
BUT -
Never let a man know everything….!
He will use it against you later….!
You cannot change a man's behavior….!
“Cos Change comes only from within….!!!!
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are….
- even if he has more education or is in a better job….!
Do not make him into a quasi-god….!
He is a man, nothing more nothing less….!
Never let a man define who you are….!
You are – “Who you are”….!!!!
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you….!!!!
All men are NOT so….
You should not be the one doing all the bending….
Compromise is a two way street….!
You need time to heal between relationships….
-there is nothing cute about baggage.…
-deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
“You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you”....!!!!
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals….
- look for someone complimentary….not supplementary….!!!!
Dating is fun.. even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right….!!!!
Make him miss you sometimes..
- when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes you for granted….!!!!
Never move into his mother's house….!
Never co-sign for a man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(….Hallelujah, thank you Lord….!)
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need….!
Keep him in your radar but get to know others….!
Share this with other ladies.....
….You'll make someone smile;
….another rethink her choices;
…..and another woman prepare….!!!!
“Love never dies a natural death -
It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source….
It dies of blindness, of errors and betrayals….
It dies of illness and wounds….
It dies of weariness….
of withering….
of tarnishing….”!!!!
- Of BITTERNESS and BETRAYAL!!!!
Anita.
Thursday, 24. August 2006, 09:05:09
It's a bright and Sunny day....
a day filled with warm and cheer....
I wish..
may the SMILES of this WORLD..
DRY the TEARS in this WORLD....
for a BETTER MORROW..
may the PAIN in your LIFE - my friends..
be EASED with the JOYS on the WINGS of the MORROWS..
I WISH and HOPE....!!!!
Anita.
Thursday, 24. August 2006, 09:02:38
How WONDER-FULL the PATH OF LIFE ..would be!!!!
But - Would we then UNDERSTAND..the INTENSITY..and
- the VALUE..OF A SMILE..
- the PAIN in a TEARDROP..
- the MAGNITUDE OF JOY in a TEARDROP..
MIXED EMOTIONS..and
- the POWER OF LIFE in all its FORMS????
Anita.
Wednesday, 23. August 2006, 07:53:24
A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package.
"WHAT FOOD MIGHT THIS CONTAIN?"
The mouse wondered - he was devastated to discover it was a MOUSETRAP.
Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning.
"THERE IS A MOUSETRAP IN THE HOUSE! THERE IS A MOUSETRAP IN THE HOUSE!
" The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, "Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you but it is of no consequence to me. I CANNOT BE BOTHERED BY IT."
The mouse turned to the pig and told him, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!" The pig sympathized, but said, "I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. BE ASSURED YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS."
The mouse turned to the cow and said, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!" The cow said, "Wow, Mr. Mouse. I'M SORRY FOR YOU, but it's no skin off my nose."
So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer's mousetrap-- ALONE.
That very night a sound was heard throughout the house -- like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey.
The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught.
The snake bit the farmer's wife. The farmer rushed her to the hospital and she returned home with a fever..
Everyone knows you treat a fever with FRESH CHICKEN SOUP, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's main ingredient.
But his wife's sickness continued, so friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock.
To feed them, the farmer BUTCHERED THE PIG.
The farmer's wife did not get well; she died!!!!
So many people came for her funeral, the farmer had the COW SLAUGHTERED to provide enough meat for all of them.
The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with GREAT SADNESS.
So, the next time you hear SOMEONE IS FACING A PROBLEM AND THINK IT DOESN'T CONCERN YOU,
REMEMBER -- when one of us is threatened, WE ARE ALL AT RISK.
We are all involved in this JOURNEY CALLED LIFE!!!!
We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another.
Take a BIT OF TIME to reflect on THE LESSONS you learn from the EXPERIENCE. Each day gives you..
AND REMEMBER THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN LIFE..
there are - NO MISTAKES NOR TRANSGRESSORS IN LIFE.
ONLY ****LESSONS AND TEACHERS****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
RECOLLECT EVERYONE WHO HAS EVER HELPED YOU OUT AND LET THEM KNOW HOW IMPORTANT THEY ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST!!!!
EACH OF US IS A VITAL THREAD in ANOTHER PERSON'S TAPESTRY;
OUR LIVES ARE WOVEN TOGETHER FOR A REASON!!!! One of the best things to hold onto in this world is - A FRIEND!!!!
A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED!!!!!!
“Amen”-Anita!!!!