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Merry Christmas to All my Opera Friendsssss...Miss You all, and love you ))))))))))))))

How does it feel to leave someone
Is it easy to say goodbye?
All the love all the dreams
And a sudden storm,
Turns the heart into broken piece.
How does it feel to give a smile
When the soul is crying inside.
An empty house without the light
The darkness tries to grab the life
Is it easy to say good bye to you?
When the heart stops beating
When a voice comes from inside
You are the one who make me live
Is it possible to say goodbye to you?
As long as i live for you

Relation, a simple word and at the same time it is a complex phenomenon. Sometimes the lìfe fall short to understand some relations. Here i am talking about the relations which link us with one another- blood relation as well as relation where the heart and the feelings speak.
Both these relations are very strong in their own way. One always find it difficult to deny it. And the second form of relation its more complicated to understand. Sometimes it becomes more powerful than the former. But in all the relations trust is the foundation. When we come to the world, everything is unknown to us. Then we learn things, relationships develop, and trust comes to heart. When the parents through the baby into air, he/she enjoys it. He/she has the trust that they will never let him/her fall. Its the Trust.
We all try to have good relations with others unless we dont have any revenge. But unfortunately only few relations last long and forever.
In my view few things can help in strengthenin a relationship-

a) Always try to keep the promise, never break trust.

b) Always try to tell the truth, and if any situation comes when a lie can prevent the destruction, then tell it (but there shouldnot be any selfinterest) Only to save the relation.

c) Always try to maintain a clear relation. If you are not happy with something tell truth and Ask if one is happy with the relation, if no, then try to know the reason 'why?'. Then try to show that u are not wrong. and if u honestly feels that u are on the wrong side, then do the best to change urself before its too late.

d) if one wants to go away just let him/her go, Because u cant change one's feelings by using force. If you are right then one day you will get the reward.

e) if one returns after the break up, then be the first person to hug tightly, because freedom is worthless if it doesnot include freedom of committing mistakes. Mistakes seperate us from the almighty.

And the guys who wants to break a relation smoothly just follow the following steps-

a) Always promise, but always break it.

b) Always try to break the trust with ur deeds.

c) Tell lies as often as possible, and let urself get caught red handed.
If you follow these steps you dont need to say Good bye to 1, these words will fly automatically from the other side.

But think it hundred times, ''Do we have the right to play with someone's trust, someone's heart, someone's life ? ''
''WE DONT HAVE THE RIGHT TO PLAY WITH ONE'S FEELINGS''

Saying 'hi' to someone sometimes can be very sweet. Sometimes a simple hi brings smile to face.
but different people have different opinions.
Some thinks it is not necessary to always say hi to someone, especialy in case of community sites.
but i think it helps to be in touch with the people. it doesnt take too much of time. just a simple 'hi' and a simple reply. if one is busy, then try it when get free time.
i always try to know how my FRIENDS are doing. i often ask 'hi, how are YOU?'.
I try to be in touch.
things changes very quickly. sometimes someone may feel very happy and in the next moment one may feel lonely. i hope my simple 'hi' can make them feel that i am still there, and my wishes are always with them

In our life sometimes we get so much busy that it becomes hard to communicate with the Friends.
Sometimes this sort of things can create a big communication gap and this may affect the relations.
But we all human beings can learn many things from our surroundings. Few days ago i noticed a huge number of ants, very busy carring their food. But, seeing them i suddenly realised that no matter how much busy they are, but they still stop and communicate with each other. We all can notice how they communicate with each-other during their busy schedule.
I think We should learn things from them and try to be like them.Even if we remain busy with our works, we should try to give time to our FRIENDS FAMILY AND ALL THOSE WHO ARE CLOSE TO US. Lets have some strong-healthy relationships.

Sometimes your memories come back to me
With the knocking of Silence.
It clings to my hazy life like cobwebs
And keeps the memories alive.
Like a child sitting in the corner of threshold
Silence chews a piece of time.
The reticent Silence wants to say something
But it afraid even of its ownself.
Like a bubble burst in air, this Silence abruptly disappears
Leaving all the memories behind it.
Words will be preserved, but what about this Silence?
Can anyone preserve the Silence?
Birth and death, the two parenthesis within which lives my life
With a Silence, a slowly melting silence...