Waiting

-such a waste

Coming Home for Christmas

Poeple are so busy at this time. I wonder where they are and what they are doing? I hardly see anyone online anymore.
Well, I do have my some suspicions. They are shopping. Gifts and meat. At least if they are Norwegians.
Meat for Christmas dinner is not regular meat. It has to be perfect. So it requires some inspection. According to my husband. I don't care much about meat at all, I wouldn’t mind eat only vegetables, and perhaps just add a meatball or two, for the sight.
But there is nothing like the smell from the ’christmas meat’. I must agree.
I started my preparations for Christmas quite early this year. You see, last year I was ill November and December had not a chance to go out shopping gifts to any of my friends or family. I wrote a list to my friend, and she was happy to go shoppig for me. I was very pleased with her choices, but this year I decided to start early, in case my chemo treatment would make me ill.
So all the christmas shopping is done, and may be that’s why I feel people are so busy. There are not many people around, not even online. Where are they? Baking, shopping, preparing for the season holiday?
The main Christmas day in Norway, is Christmas Eve. I would assume 25 % of Lyngdal’s inhabitantas go to church on Christmas Eve. The family services starts in the afternoons and last forabout 45 minutes. We sing Christmas songs and read from Luke 2, The Birth of Jesus. ”In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a cencus should be taken of the entire Roman world.” You all know the story. (if not ask)
When we get home from church, we eat the mail meal for Christmas, which is dryed and salted lamb, cooked in the oven on birch brances. This meat is served with potatoes and swede. The swede is mashed into a stew. This is more or less our main meal. For dessert cooked rice in whipped cream.
For all impatient kids, and grown ups, the ’distributing’ of the gifts come now. They are wrapped and are under the decorated christmas tree. Every year we say ”I don’t need anything for Christmas, I am so lucky I have everything’ which is true. But we have learned to accept whatever we get.
I have given up being the traitor and ruiner of the most important celebration. And you know, it is great joy to buy og make gifts for the people who are close to you and who you love.
This year I am expecting my two girls and my son- in- law coming home for Christmas. It’s good to have something to look foreward to. They will come to a decorated house, a clean house, but this year they’ll have to help with some baking. They won’t mind.

And there were spepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over ther flocks at night and an angel of the Lord appeared to them and the glory of the Lord shone around them.
”Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all people.
Today in the town od David a savior has been born. He is Christ the Lord.


Coming Home for Christmas.


BooksigningStill crazy after all these years

Comments

der WandersmannderWandersmann Friday, December 9, 2011 3:58:37 PM

Happy Christmas, Unni!

Unni Skaaland EllingsenBerith1 Friday, December 9, 2011 6:29:02 PM

Happy Christmas, Charles! And a happy new year. Let's hope it's a good one, without any fear. (according John Lennon)

judithchen Saturday, December 10, 2011 2:37:11 AM

make a wish...for the new year!

happy Christmas season!sing flirt

Unni Skaaland EllingsenBerith1 Saturday, December 10, 2011 6:17:08 AM

A very merry Christmas
And a happy New Year
Let's hope it's a good one
Without any fear.

And so this is Christmas
For weak and for strong
For rich and the poor ones
The world is so wrong.

And so happy Christmas
For black and for white
For yellow and red ones
Let's stop all the figh.

john lennon

p.s Beautiful picture, Judith.

studio41 Saturday, December 10, 2011 6:31:11 AM

it isn't too busy here, yet. Phoebe is participating in a Christmas musical, but the other activities are those status quo. I'm still thinking on our Thanksgiving smile

your preparations sound gladsome, the meal is appealing- makes my mouth water! I love lamb.

this angel with feather wings is sweet. I have one on my mini tree that my aunt made for me, a bit different from this one, but small and sweet, too.

blessed Christmas anticipation, Unni. I love the passage.

Unni Skaaland EllingsenBerith1 Saturday, December 10, 2011 7:40:55 AM

HI Jill! Good to hear from you.

Can you tell me something from your Thanksgiving,please?

Steve SmithiRagnarokk Saturday, December 10, 2011 8:30:24 AM

Happy Christmas Unni!
So organised, so early.......I'm jealous smile

studio41 Saturday, December 10, 2011 8:48:11 AM

Sure! We celebrated the way we usually do, with family and eating a turkey! We brought a turkey with stuffing to my mom and stepdad's home. Mom made my favorite, squash, and the potatoes. I made gravy when we got up there- Sophie, my eldest, made the pumpkin pies, they were terrific!

It was so nice to spend time together just relaxing. The kids and I went for a walk after dinner and Joe and Joseph played some football, too.

We often spend a bit of time looking through old family pictures which we did some. The kids listened to some of my stepdad's stories smile

The weather was mild and good for traveling. Right now, it is very cold! But, no snow accumulation- still good, therefore, for travel. Thank you for asking smile

How are you, Unni? Any sun poking its head out?!

Unni Skaaland EllingsenBerith1 Saturday, December 10, 2011 9:22:05 AM

Thanks Jill for telling. I can picture it in my head, not only the good food you had, but the time spent together.
I think it's a good idea to spend some time looking at old family pictures. I will remember that when we get together for Christmas.

The weather in Lyngdal now is stormy. It's the third storm that hits us in a week. Yesterday the wind took the roof of a small cottage we have in our garden. I've never seen that happen before.

There is nothing else to do than stay indoors and wait for better days.
smile coffee

Unni Skaaland EllingsenBerith1 Saturday, December 10, 2011 9:28:15 AM

Happy Christmas Steve.smile Yes, so organised, I can understand you are jealous. wink Working in EU takes all your time.
But in a week you are safe back in Inverness and at least one present is waiting for you. Isn't that good to know? smile coffee

Stevie BStevieBrown Sunday, December 11, 2011 2:17:45 AM

We three kings of orient are,
one on a bycicle one in a car,
one on his scooter papping his hooter,
traveling from a far....

While shepards wash their socks by night while seated on the ground,the angel of the lawndrette came down and passed soap powder around....

I once knew the right words lol,so this is christmas and what have you done,another year over,and one nearly begun.....Silent night holy night all is still all is right...

not shopping,decorating,money all spent on bills none left for presents or cards or food come to that,oh great britian what have we done,sold out our industries for better share returns..

I wish you a merry christmas,i wish you a merry christmas,and an happy new year,oh we all like figgy pudding,we all like figgy pudding,i wont leave till we get some,so bring some out here.....

sing sing party drunk wizard beer wine coffee



Stevie BStevieBrown Sunday, December 11, 2011 2:38:34 AM

your sunday song my good friend,wishing a nice day for you both.

Steve SmithiRagnarokk Sunday, December 11, 2011 2:51:46 AM

Yippeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
smile

der WandersmannderWandersmann Sunday, December 11, 2011 6:57:11 AM

Nice Enya, Stevie. Thanks for the heads-up; I didn't know she had a new album out.

studio41 Sunday, December 11, 2011 8:09:49 AM

Originally posted by Berith1:

third storm that hits us in a week


bigeyes wow. and so strong to take off a roof?! may I ask which sort of tea or coffee you are drinking as you await those better days? coffee

Unni Skaaland EllingsenBerith1 Sunday, December 11, 2011 9:10:40 AM

Ha, ha. What coffee I drink? hm... I'll have to write that in Norwegian first; Evergood, that's the name of it. Iam sorry I can't tell you if it comes from Brazil or Africa, but it's quite ordinary but a little more expensive than the others.
I drink it with milk and sugar.

At the time being I dont drink tea at all. I used to drink herbal tea, but now left it for coffee. Iam not a heavy drinker, two cups a day.
smile

Unni Skaaland EllingsenBerith1 Sunday, December 11, 2011 9:15:52 AM

Hello Stevie. I'll drop the festive Figgy pudding. We dont eat that in Norway. Too rich for us. I went to Enya. She is Irish, isn't she? Not to bad. I think my fiend Steve might like her.

Steve SmithiRagnarokk Sunday, December 11, 2011 10:03:24 AM

Enya......yes nice Stevie. Also listening to Kate Bush and her 50 words for snow.......(not that we have any in Belgium yet, but I expect to meet up with some in Scotland next week) smile

Steve SmithiRagnarokk Sunday, December 11, 2011 10:03:31 AM

studio41 Sunday, December 11, 2011 10:04:44 AM

coffee happy here is a cup for you, Unni. I hope your day is pleasant.

Unni Skaaland EllingsenBerith1 Sunday, December 11, 2011 10:38:33 AM

Thanks!smile

Stevie BStevieBrown Monday, December 12, 2011 12:08:05 AM

no comments on my humourous take on a few christmas carols lol,charles i think that album was out christmas 2008 i must admit i like enya but don't have any of her recent work,and yes steve i too love kate bush and have all her albums all eight of them lol....or is it nine?glad to see you got out of your house today and had a good time visiting your friend....

Stevie BStevieBrown Monday, December 12, 2011 12:08:08 AM

no comments on my humourous take on a few christmas carols lol,charles i think that album was out christmas 2008 i must admit i like enya but don't have any of her recent work,and yes steve i too love kate bush and have all her albums all eight of them lol....or is it nine?glad to see you got out of your house today and had a good time visiting your friend....

Sam Hisamitsu Endohhisamtrois Monday, December 12, 2011 1:52:02 AM

Good morning Unni.

In my habit, I would send you the Christmas message or greeting more later, around 20.
The Japanese Christmas has no title role. A tree, a whole cake and a party at home without the God. lololol
For me, the Christmas has been a day of good palate of fresh cream cake.
This year, I would have a joy to send you a Christmas greeting.
It would be my new happiness.

der WandersmannderWandersmann Monday, December 12, 2011 3:16:40 AM

Unni Skaaland EllingsenBerith1 Monday, December 12, 2011 12:52:13 PM

Hello Sam. I don't know if there is a rule when to greet 'Happy Christmas'. I've never thought about that, but I think as close to Christmas day as possible. We call the last four weeks before Christmas for 'advent', which means more or less 'waiting'. So if I send a card during those weeks, I often wish them a good advent. Meaning; have a good waiting time.

For me this is a good waiting time. Time to reflect on this important event that took place 2000 years ago and which is alfa and omega in my Christian life.

But wether one belive in Jesus or not, I'd wish a good 'advent' time for all my friends on line.smile

Turquoise Tanglesjbaird Tuesday, December 27, 2011 7:17:12 PM

Unni,
I am A New Reader of yours. der Wandersmann pointed me in your direction, as my husband is undergoing chemotherapy for the next six months from stage four colorectal cancer.
What a beautiful getting ready for Christmas post. I love the scripture from Luke 2 best of all. Lovely to see scripture woven into your plans and Norwegian traditions.
~ Janean

Unni Skaaland EllingsenBerith1 Tuesday, December 27, 2011 7:57:46 PM

Hello there. Thanks for taking time to read my blog. I am sorry to hear your husband has cancer. Then you know much about it. It's hard to be the person 'next to' someone, I know that from my husband. But he is happy to have you. You must try to take care of yourself, too, in this, otherwise you can be worn out.

feel free to write me a note when you wish. Share your feelings or thoughts if you like. I appreciate to read about someone else. It's good for me to forget about myself now and then.

Love, Unni

der WandersmannderWandersmann Tuesday, December 27, 2011 10:02:01 PM

See, Janean? I told you she was something special.

Turquoise Tanglesjbaird Wednesday, December 28, 2011 2:07:33 AM

Originally posted by derWandersmann:

See, Janean? I told you she was something special.



der Wandersmann, I am grinning at your note. I never doubted you, and obviously took your advice, when you pointed me in Unni's direction to read about her journey. And yes, she IS someone special and I shall reply to her in just a bit... Thankful to know you both, two people who know different sides of fighting to the end and living with cancer. ~ Janean

Turquoise Tanglesjbaird Wednesday, December 28, 2011 2:13:27 AM

Originally posted by Berith1:

Hello there. Thanks for taking time to read my blog. I am sorry to hear your husband has cancer. Then you know much about it. It's hard to be the person 'next to' someone, I know that from my husband. But he is happy to have you. You must try to take care of yourself, too, in this, otherwise you can be worn out.

feel free to write me a note when you wish. Share your feelings or thoughts if you like. I appreciate to read about someone else. It's good for me to forget about myself now and then.

Love, Unni

Unni, Thank you for your advice for me, the Caregiver. We have two sons as well, ages 11 and 8. Since he was diagnosed in May I have learned to say, "Yes" when help is offered. I have learned to pace myself. Some days I go to bed early. Other days I take naps. He's had two surgeries and the pathology is encouraging. We are going for the cure. If he can get five years out from the end of chemo in May they will call him, "Cured". Diagnosed at 40. Turned 41 a few months later. Too young for this. The title of a post I wrote in early June, describing the surreal experience of being told the diagnosis. I've written about it plenty. It's helped me sort through it and work it out. We have a Caring Bridge site and it's been the best resource for communicating with our family and friends. Your compassionate note to me, a virtual stranger, means the world to me. Thank you for that as well. Love, Janean

judithchen Wednesday, December 28, 2011 2:36:49 AM

Originally posted by Berith1:

it is hard to be the person 'next to' someone, .... you can be worn out.


the one "next to someone "is very great person....happy up sing

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