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Problematic
Relationship
Patterns
Let’s first look at some
common relationship
problems and why many
romantic partnerships do
not work out.
1. Ego, Fear, &
Emotional
Insecurities
As with material
possessions or
professional
achievements,
relationships give our ego
a method by which to
identify who we are to the
outside world. The
problem is that we attach
so much of our identity to
the external appearance of
our relationships that we
lose touch with the parts
of ourselves that are wise
and conscious. The
attachment to this false
identity leads to a feeling
of desperation rather than
fulfillment. After all,
without the relationship,
or the job, or whichever
other false identity we
have chosen, who would
we be?
Besides the ego
identification, it’s easy to
develop a dependency on
companionship. That
independent person that
we once were starts to
evaporate. Our mind
becomes fogged and as
our self-identification
begins to attach itself to
the other person,
unconsciously or
consciously, we become
afraid to lose that person.
We become dependent
on that person and fearful
of loneliness.
Out of our emotional
insecurities, we start to
become needy and to
seek out validation from
our partner. So, instead of
focusing on the
celebration of love and
partnership, it becomes a
game of how to protect
ourselves from loss.
2.
Communication
of Needs