My OperaFor Prosfective Bride
Tuesday, April 6, 2010 4:28:51 AM
O my daughter, you are about to leave the home in which you grew up, where you first learned to walk, to go to a place you do not know, to a companion with whom you are unfamiliar.
A mother's advise: O my daughter, you are about to
leave the home in which you
grew up, where you first learned
to walk, to go to a place you do
not know, to a companion with
whom you are unfamiliar.
************
Take from me ten qualities,
which will be a provision and a
reminder for you.
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The first and second of them are:
be content in his company, and
listen to and obey him, for
contentment brings peace of
mind, and listening to and
obeying one's husband pleases
Allah.
************
The third and fourth of them are:
make sure that you smell good
and look good; he should not see
anything ugly in you, and he
should not smell anything but a
pleasant smell from you. Kohl is
the best kind of beautification to
be found, and water is better
than the rarest perfume.
************
The fifth and the sixth of them
are: prepare his food on time,
and keep quiet when he is
asleep, for raging hunger is like a
burning flame, and disturbing his
sleep will make him angry.
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The seventh and eighth of them
are: take care of his servants (or
employees) and children, and
take care of his wealth, for taking
care of his wealth shows that you
appreciate him, and taking care
of his children and servants
shows good management.
************
The ninth and tenth of them are:
never disclose any of his secrets,
and never disobey any of his
orders, for if you disclose any of
his secrets you will never feel
safe from his possible betrayal,
and if you disobey him, his heart
will be filled with hatred towards
you.
************
KNOW, O my daughter that you
will not achieve what you would
like to until you put his pleasure
before your own, and his wishes
before yours, in whatever you
like and dislike.
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DANBUZU # Monday, April 11, 2011 7:43:50 PM
THE OLD SOCK
A wise and saintly rich man, sensing his approaching death, called his son to his side and gave him these instructions: "My son, I shall be leaving you very shortly. On the day when I die, and they have washed my body and come to wrap it in the shroud, I want you to put one of my socks on my foot. This is my final request of you."
Soon after this, the old man did indeed die, leaving behind his goods and property, his children and his dependents. Family, friends, acquaintances and neighbours attended his funeral. The body had been washed and was almost completely wrapped in the shroud, when the son remembered his father's wish. Finding one of his old socks, he handed it to the washer of the dead, saying, "In accordance with my father's last request, please put this sock on his foot."
"That is quite impossible:" Said the man. “Such a thing is utterly impermissible in Islam. I cannot act against the Sacred Law." Despite this valid objection, the son insisted, “That was my father's final request; it must certainly be carried out."
The washer of the dead was unmoved. "If you won't take my word for it," he said, "go and ask the mufti. He will confirm what I tell you, that it is not permissible." Holding up the funeral, they consulted the mufti, preachers and scholars, all of whom declared that this was not permissible in Islam. Just then, an aged friend of the deceased interrupted the debate with these words to the son: "My boy, your late father entrusted me with a letter which I was to hand over to you after his departure. Here, this letter belongs to you." So saying, he gave him an envelope. Taken by surprise, the boy opened the envelope and read out the contents of his father's letter.
"My son, all this wealth and property I have left to you. Now you see: at the last moment, they won't even let you give me an old sock to wear. When you yourself come one day to be in my condition they will also refuse to let you keep anything but your shroud. Eight yards of shroud are all you will be able to carry over from this fleeting world into the Hereafter. So pull yourself together and be prepared. Spend the fortune I have left you, not for the satisfaction of vain desires, but in ways pleasing to Allah, that you may achieve honor in both worlds."
What beautiful advice and guidance for those who can understand! May the mercy of Allah be upon us all. Aameen
DANBUZU # Saturday, April 16, 2011 8:42:24 PM
Devotion and Obedience to Allah such that she fulfills His rights, such as the prayer, fasting, chastity covering herself, withholding her gaze and so on.
Obedience to Her Husband in that which does not involve disobedience to Allah such that she fulfills his rights completely. Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"If I were to order anyone to prostrate to other than Allah, I would have ordered the woman to prostrate to her husband. By Him in whose Hand is the soul of Muhammad, the woman will not fulfill the rights of her Lord until she fulfills the rights of her husband; and even if he were to request her for herself (i.e. to have intercourse with her) whilst she was sitting upon a camel's saddle, she should not refuse him." [Sahih, reported by Ibn Majah and Ahmad from Abdullah ibn Awfa]
That She Guards and Preserves Herself and Her Honor, in the Absence of Her Husband, from the hand of anyone wishing to touch her, the eye of anyone wishing to look upon her, and the ear of anyone wishing to listen to her.
Likewise that she preserves her husband's children, home and wealth. Allah says:
"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allah and to their husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.)..." [Noble Quran 4:34]
Serving Her Husband.
From Husain ibn Mihsan who said that my paternal aunt said,
"I came to Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) for some need, so he asked, 'You there! Are you married?' I replied, 'Yes.' He then asked, 'How are you towards your husband?' She responded, 'I do not fall short in his service except with regard to what I am unable to do.' He said, 'Then look to your standing with him, for indeed he is your Paradise and your Fire.'" [Sahih, reported by al-Hadim and others]
Here is an example of how Asma bint Abu Bakr served her husband. She said,
"Az-Zubayr married me and he did not have any property or slaves or anything upon the earth except for a camel which drew water from the well and his horse. So I used to feed his horse, draw the water, stitch his water bucket, and prepare the dough, but I was not proficient in baking bread - so ladies from the Ansar who were my neighbors and were honorable used to bake the bread for me. I also used to carry the date-stones upon my head, from the land given to Az-Zubayr by Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) - and it was about two miles away. One day when I was coming with the date-stones on my head, I met Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) and a group of the Ansar were with him. So he called me and said, 'ikh, ikh (a word said to make the camel kneel down.).' in order to carry me behind him upon the camel. But I felt shy to proceed along with the men, and I thought of Az-Zubayr and his sense of jealousy, and he was one of the most jealous of the people. So Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) saw my shyness and so passed on. So I came to Az-Zubayr and said, 'Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) met me while I was carrying the date-stones upon my head and with him were a group of his Companions. He caused his riding camel to kneel, but I felt shy and remembered your sense of jealousy.' So he said, 'By Allah your having to carry the date-stones is harder upon me than that you should ride along with him.'" She said, "Then later on Abu Bakr sent me a servant to look after the horse, so it was if he had set me free." [Reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
Keeping the Husband's Secrets.
Particularly what occurs between him and her in private - with regard to sexual matters and the private affairs within the marriage.
From Asma bint Yazid who said that she was in the company of Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) and men and women were sitting, and he (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"Perhaps a man mentions that which he did with his wife, and perhaps a woman informs of what she does with her husband?!" So the people were silent, so I said, "Yes, by Allah,, O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)! The women certainly do that, and the men certainly do that." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Then do not do so, since that is just like a male devil meeting a female devil upon the way, and he has intercourse with her while the people are watching." [Reported by Ahmad and there are witnessing narration's which raise it to the level of being Sahih or Hasan at the very least]
She Should Appear Before the Husband in the Best Appearance, such that if he looks at her it pleases him.
Abu Hurairah narrates: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was asked, "Which of the women is the best?" He replied, "The one who gives him (the husband) pleasure when he looks (at her outer beauty, or the inner beauty of her good character and how she devotes herself to obedience to Allah and Taqwa); obeys him when he orders; and does not go against his wishes with regard to herself or her wealth by doing that which he dislikes." [Sahih Muslim, reported by an-Nasa'i, al-Hakim and Ahmad]
She Should Not Permit Anyone to Enter Her Husband's House Except With His Permission
From Abu Hurairah who said that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"It is not permissible for a woman to fast when her husband is present except with his permission; nor may she permit anyone to enter his house except with his permission; and whatever she spends in charity without his order - then half of the reward is for him." [Reported by Al-Bukhari]
She Should Not Ask Her Husband For Divorce Without a Reason Necessitating That
From Thawban who said that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"Whichever woman asks her husband for divorce without a strong reason - then the fragrance of Paradise will be forbidden for her." [Sahih Muslim, reported by Abu Dawud, at-Tirmidhi and others]
Avoidance of Cursing
Abu Sa'id al-Khudri said, "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) went out to the prayer-ground for the (prayer of) Adha or Fitr, and he passed by the women and said,
'O women! Give in charity, for I have been shown that you shall be the majority of the people in the Fire.' So they asked, 'Why is that, O Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)!' He replied, 'You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands.'" [Reported by Al-Bukhari]
Being Thankful to the Husband for the good he does and for his good treatment to his wife.
This is accomplished by good words, and by her obedience to him in what is good, and by not forgetting his good treatment and avoiding denying this, since that is one of the reasons which brings about the entry into the Fire.
From Ibn Abbas who said that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"I was shown the Fire and found that the majority of its inhabitants were women, due to ingratitude. It was said: "Is it that they disbelieve in Allah?" He said: They are ungrateful to their husbands and deny the good they do. If you were to treat one of them well always, and she then saw something (displeasing) from you she would say: 'I have never seen any good from you.'" [Reported by Al-Bukhari]
She Should Not Remove Her Clothes Outside Her Husband's House
Allah's Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"Whichever woman removes her clothes in other than her house, then Allah, will tear down His cover from her." [Sahih-Jami, reported by al-Hakim and others]
What is apparent is that removal of her clothing means uncovering herself to strange males, for the purpose of sexual intercourse or that which leads to it.
Striving to Please the Husband by Every Possible Means
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
"Your women from the people of Paradise are the beloved and fertile, the one who is an asset to her husband, who if her husband becomes angry - comes and places her hand in the hand of her husband and says, 'I will not taste sleep until you are pleased (with me).'"
Abdulrahman bellodoc-manz # Saturday, April 16, 2011 9:21:04 PM
DANBUZU # Monday, April 18, 2011 8:42:58 AM
DANBUZU # Monday, May 9, 2011 5:32:05 PM
The truth is that there are a lot of couples out there that are just enduring their relationship. Maybe because they dont want the stigma of being called a divorcee or they just dont want to quit the marriage, or they are Godly people who believe that somehow it can still work. Well i have news for you..it really can still work provided you are willing to put in the work.
First I want to say that there is no relationship that does not require work from both partners. That is why when two people want to get married, they are asked about their commitment to the relationship viz "do you promise to have and to hold, to love and to cherish, in sickness and in health, in riches and in poverty etc etc till death do you part?". The usual answer without a second thought to it (you should have done that before that time anyway) is "i do", "I do". Well I know a lot of folks will say no dont include those "poverty....sickness" part. If you are real with yourself, you would know, regardless of what many so called "Men of God" tell you, that there will be times when one party gets sick. There will be times when there is no money to pay the bills. those times WILL come. It comes to one and all. What matters is how you respond to those times.
A lot of people claim to have really made that commitment but you know how it is with young love birds about to marry. They can barely see any faults with their marital partners to be. They are awash with ideallic stories of romance and you know, the bedroom. They are breathless and can barely wait to be in their own marital home and enjoy unfettered conjugal rights. All this is good but a reallist knows that to succeed in anything you must expect the best and prepare for the worst.
I can not talk about marital relationships without talking about the "God factor". Why? because God started the institution of marriage. However, this is not a religious discourse, so I will leave it at that. I will state however, do not try to fill the God-vacuum in your life with your spouse's love. This is the principal cause for many a marital failure: expecting too much from your spouse. You must first realise that God is the only one that is perfect and that there are certain types of joy, happiness and satisfaction you will not get from your spouse, because he or she is a human being, imperfect, subject to a lot of errors, mistakes, character faults that every human being exhibits in one way or the other.
Also you have to know that you can not have it all. You may have a fabulously beautiful wife but she is a terrible cook. She might be very pretty, can cook very well but is a very disorganised or untidy person. She might be not so much to look upon, she obeys you always in humility but is a very moody person. The same goes for the women. The man may be rich but he is short and ugly. He may be handsome and rich but is a very arrogant person. You know in one way or the other, those irritating imperfections will show up. It is how you handle each other's imperfections that will determine if you would enjoy or endure your marriage.
Do not be decieved by celebrity marriages that look so wonderful and perfect. You should know that these same issues affect them also. They may look ever so perfect, so loving, so romantic, so comfortable. It is the man wearing the shoe that knows where it hurts.
Never wish that you were married to some other persons spouse. The reason tendered above is why you should not do that. On my next post, i should be able to do one or two posts a week, we will elaborate further on the power of love in a relationship. Do you really love your spouse? What are you willing to do, suffer, endure, because of him or her?
Please if you have a heartache in matters related to the subject post, share it here. If you can do that, the problem is halfway solved.I will respond to you and give you counsel that may just make all the difference. It's an anonymous service, so dont be shy.
DANBUZU # Saturday, July 14, 2012 8:09:38 AM
RIGHTS OF A WIFE
The Qur’an states:
"And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may live in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between you; Verily, in that are signs for people who reflect." (30:21)
Marriage is therefore not just a physical or emotional necessity but, in fact, a sign from God! It is a relationship of mutual rights and obligations based on divine guidance. God created men and women with complimentary natures and, in the Qur’an, He laid out a system of laws to support harmonious interaction between the sexes.
"…They are your garments and you are their garments." (2:187)
Clothing provides physical protection and covers the beauty and faults of the body. Likewise, a spouse is viewed this way. Each protects the other and hides the faults and compliments the characteristics of the spouse. To foster the love and security that comes with marriage, Muslim wives have various rights. The first of the wife’s rights is to receive mahr, a gift from the husband, which is part of the marriage contract and required for the legality of the marriage.
The second right of a wife is maintenance. Despite any wealth she may have, her husband is obligated to provide her with food, shelter and clothing. He is not forced, however, to spend beyond his capability and his wife is not entitled to make unreasonable demands. The Qur’an states
"Let the man of means spend according to his means, and the man whose resources are restricted, let him spend according to what Allah has given him. Allah puts no burden on any person beyond what He has given him." (65:7)
God tells us men are guardians over women and are afforded the leadership in the family. His responsibility for obeying God extends to guiding his family to obey God at all times.
A wife’s rights also extend beyond material needs. She has the right to kind treatment. The Prophet(S) said,
"The most perfect believers are the best in conduct. And the best of you are those who are the best to their wives."
God tells us He created mates and put love, mercy and tranquility between them.
Both men and women have a need for companionship and sexual needs and marriage is designed to fulfill those needs. For one spouse to deny this satisfaction to the other, the temptation exists to seek it elsewhere.
DUTIES OF A WIFE
With rights come responsibilities. Therefore, wives have certain obligations to their husbands. The Qur’an states:
"The good women in the absence of their husbands guard their rights as Allah has enjoined upon them to be guarded."(4:34)
A wife is to keep her husband’s secrets and protect their marital privacy. Issues of intimacy of faults of his that would dishonor him, are not to be shared by the wife, just as he is expected to guard her honor.
A wife must also guard her husband’s property. She must safeguard his home and possessions, to the best of her ability, from theft or damage. She should manage the household affairs wisely so as to prevent loss or waste. She should not allow anyone to enter the house whom her husband dislikes nor incur any expenses of which her husband disapproves.
A Muslim woman must cooperate and coordinate with her husband. There cannot, however, be cooperation with a man who is disobedient to God. She should not fulfill his requests if he wants her to do something unlawful. A husband also should not take advantage of his wife, but be considerate of her needs and happiness.
The Qur’an states:
"And it becomes not a believing man or a believing woman, when Allah and His Messenger, Muhammad (S) have decided on an affair (for them), that they should (after that) claim any say in their affair; and whoso is rebellious to Allah and His Messenger, he verily goes astray in error manifest," (33:36)
The Muslim woman was given a role, duties and rights 1400 years ago that most women do not enjoy today, even in the West. These are from God and are designed to keep balance in society; what may seem unjust or missing in one place is compensated for or explained in another place. Islam is a complete way of life.
DANBUZU # Thursday, July 26, 2012 6:17:08 PM
FEW WAYS TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND
1. Discover his favorite pet name and call him
by that.
2. Allow him exercise his authority as the
head of the family.
3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.
4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back
to him in his sober moment with apology n
explain why you behave that way that
annoyed him.
5. Be quick to say " I am sorry dear". When
ever you offend him pettingly, insist on his
forgiveness, appreciate and kiss him when he
does.
6. Speak good of him before his Friends and
siblings.
7. Honor his mother
8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and
so be sure that he will do same for your
parents
9. Surprise him with his favorite dish
especially when he has no enough money at
hand and never delay his food.
10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food
when you are at home. Because u may lose
him to them.
11. Give him a warm reception with an
embrace when he returns, collect his luggage
and help undress him.
12. Smile when you look at him and give him
occasional pecks when you are out socially.
13. Praise him before your children
sometimes.
14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or
shower.
15. Put love note in his lunch box or briefcase.
16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.
17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello"
just tell him I love you.
18. If he is a public figure or politician gently
wake him at the early hours of the morning
and romance him to the point of demand. He
will not be entice by any other woman that
day.
19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as
your husband.
20. Give him a hug for no reason.
21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.
22. Always remember to pray for him.
23. Implement this law that every morning
your family will wake up and pray...
DANBUZU # Tuesday, October 16, 2012 11:49:33 AM
♥ Because I want my eyes to see someone special, someone halaal, knowing that she is my gift from ALLAH.
♥ Because I want someone who loves ALLAH and loves me because he loves ALLAH.
♥ Because I want somebody to share my happiness and praise ALLAH with me, someone to cry my tears with me and make du’ah with me and someone to love and love ALLAH with me.
♥ Because I want to have children of my own to love and care and share with a gift from ALLAH.
♥ Because I want to share ALLAH’s beautiful creations and praise His names with someone who ALLAH has fated to be with me since I was born.
♥ Because verily, with a halaal partner, my life and everything I do with my spouse will be halaal in the eyes of ALLAH.
♥ Because I am a gift from ALLAH to someone and I want to let him feel ALLAH’s love through me.
sultan selimsultanselim # Thursday, October 18, 2012 9:03:33 AM
http://natlusmiles.blogspot.com/
Muslim identity
Name: Muslim
Surname: Muslim
Fathers Name: Adam
Mothers name: Eve
Place of origin: Citizens of the world
Occupation: Path of Allah
Religious sect: Mohammed religious order
Temperament: brothers coterie
Nationality: Hanif '
Race: Human
Country: where is the master of Allah
Target: ALLAHs for
http://youtu.be/4nEMDKzDFQI
Hanif ^ ': a pure Islamic Monotheism
(worshiping ALLAH alone and nothing else)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hanif
Use of the term 'hanif' In the Qur'an
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/2/2_135.htm
English (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
2:135 They say: "Become Jews or Christians if ye would be guided (To salvation)." Say thou: "Nay! (I would rather) the Religion of Abraham the True, and he joined not gods with Allah."
Turkish:
2:135 Dediler ki: "Yahudi veya Hristiyan olun ki hidayete eresiniz." De ki: "Hayir, (dogru yol) Hanif (muvahhid) olan Ibrahim'in dini(dir); O müsriklerden degildi."
French:
2:135 Ils ont dit: "Soyez Juifs ou Chrétiens, vous serez donc sur la bonne voie". - Dis: "Non, mais suivons la religion d'Abraham, le modèle même de la droiture et qui ne fut point parmi les Associateurs".
German:
2:135 Und sie sprechen: "Werdet Juden oder Christen, auf daß ihr rechtgeleitet seiet." Sprich: "Nein, (folget) dem Glauben Abrahams, des Aufrichtigen; er war keiner der Götzendiener."
Spanish:
2:135 Dicen: "Si sois judíos o cristianos, estáis en la vía recta". Di: "No, antes bien la religión de Abraham, que fue hanif y no asociador".
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/2/2_136.htm
English (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
2:136 Say ye: "We believe in Allah, and the revelation given to us, and to Abraham, Isma'il, Isaac, Jacob, and the Tribes, and that given to Moses and Jesus, and that given to (all) prophets from their Lord: We make no difference between one and another of them: And we bow to Allah (in Islam)."
Turkish:
2:136 Deyin ki: "Biz Allah'a; bize indirilene, Ibrahim, Ismail, Ishak, Yakub ve torunlarina indirilene, Musa ve Isa'ya verilen ile peygamberlere Rabbinden verilene iman ettik. Onlardan hiç birini digerinden ayirdetmeyiz ve biz O'na teslim olmuslariz."
French:
2:136 Dites: "Nous croyons en Allah et en ce qu'on nous a révélé, et en ce qu'on n'a fait descendre vers Abraham et Ismaël et Isaac et Jacob et les Tribus, et en ce qui a été donné à Moïse et à Jésus, et en ce qui a été donné aux prophètes, venant de leur Seigneur: nous ne faisons aucune distinction entre eux. Et à Lui nous sommes Soumis".
German:
2:136 Sprecht: "Wir glauben an Allah und was zu uns herabgesandt worden, und was herabgesandt ward Abraham und Ismael und Isaak und Jakob und (seinen) Kindern, und was gegeben ward Moses und Jesus, und was gegeben ward (allen andern) Propheten von ihrem Herrn. Wir machen keinen Unterschied zwischen ihnen; und Ihm ergeben wir uns."
Spanish:
2:136 Decid: "Creemos en Alá y en lo que se nos ha revelado, en lo que se reveló a Abraham, Ismael, Isaac, Jacob y las tribus, en lo que Moisés, Jesús y los profetas recibieron de su Señor. No hacemos distinción entre ninguno de ellos y nos sometemos a É1".
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/3/3_67.htmEnglish (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
3:67 Abraham was not a Jew nor yet a Christian; but he was true in Faith, and bowed his will to Allah's (Which is Islam), and he joined not gods with Allah.
Turkish:
3:67 Ibrahim, ne yahudi idi, ne de hiristiyandi: ancak, O hanif (muvahhid) bir müslümandi, müsriklerden de degildi.
French:
3:67 Abraham n'était ni Juif ni Chrétien. Il était entièrement soumis à Allah (Musulman). Et il n'était point du nombre des Associateurs..
German:
3:67 Abraham war weder Jude noch Christ; doch er war immer (Gott) zugeneigt und (Ihm) gehorsam, und er war nicht der Götzendiener einer.
Spanish:
3:67 Abraham no fue judío ni cristiano, sino que fue hanif, sometido a Alá, no asociador.
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/3/3_95.htmEnglish (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
3:95 Say: "(Allah) speaketh the Truth: follow the religion of Abraham, the sane in faith; he was not of the Pagans."
Turkish:
3:95 De ki: "Allah dogru söyledi. Öyleyse Allah'i bir taniyan (Hanif)ler olarak Ibrahim'in dinine uyun. O, müsriklerden degildi."
French:
3:95 Dis: "C'est Allah qui dit la vérité. Suivez donc la religion d'Abraham, Musulman droit. Et il n'était point des associateurs".
German:
3:95 Sprich: "Allah hat die Wahrheit gesprochen; folget darum dem Glauben Abrahams, des Aufrichtigen; er war keiner der Götzendiener."
Spanish:
3:95 Di: "Alá ha dicho la verdad. Seguid, pues, la religión de Abraham, que fue hanif y no asociador".
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/4/4_125.htmEnglish (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
4:125 Who can be better in religion than one who submits his whole self to Allah, does good, and follows the way of Abraham the true in Faith? For Allah did take Abraham for a friend.
Turkish:
4:125 Iyilik yaparak kendini Allah'a teslim eden ve hanif (tevhidi) olan Ibrahim'in dinine uyandan daha güzel din'li kimdir? Allah, Ibrahim'i dost edinmistir.
French:
4:125 Qui est meilleur en religion que celui qui soumet à Allah son être, tout en se conformant à la Loi révélée et suivant la religion d'Abraham, homme de droiture? Et Allah avait pris Abraham pour ami privilégié.
German:
4:125 Und wer hat einen schöneren Glauben als jener, der sich Allah ergibt, der Gutes wirkt und der dem Bekenntnis Abrahams, des Aufrechten im Glauben, folgt? Und Allah nahm Sich Abraham besonders zum Freund.
Spanish:
4:125 ¿Quién es mejor, tocante a religión. que quien se somete a Alá, hace el bien y sigue la religión de Abraham, que fue hanif ? Alá tomó a Abraham como amigo.
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/6/6_161.htmEnglish (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
6:161 Say: "Verily, my Lord hath guided me to a way that is straight,- a religion of right,- the path (trod) by Abraham the true in Faith, and he (certainly) joined not gods with Allah."
Turkish:
6:161 De ki: "Rabbim gerçekten beni dogru yola iletti, dimdik duran bir dine, Ibrahim'in hanif (muvahhid) dinine_ O, müsriklerden degildi."
French:
6:161 Dis: "Moi, mon Seigneur m'a guidé vers un chemin droit, une religion droite, la religion d'Abraham, le soumis exclusivement à Allah et qui n'était point parmi les associateurs.
German:
6:161 Sprich: "Siehe, mich hat mein Herr auf einen geraden Weg geleitet - zu dem rechten Glauben, dem Glauben Abrahams, des Aufrechten. Und er war keiner der Götzendiener."
Spanish:
6:161 Di: "A mí, mi Señor me ha dirigido a una vía recta, una fe verdadera, la religión de Abraham, que fue hanif y no asociador"
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/10/10_105.htm
English (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
10:105 "And further (thus): 'set thy face towards religion with true piety, and never in any wise be of the Unbelievers;
Turkish:
10:105 Ve: "Bir muvahhid (hanif) olarak yüzünü dine dogru yönelt ve sakin müsriklerden olma,"
French:
10:105 Et (il m'a été dit): "Oriente-toi exclusivement sur la religion en pur monothéiste! Et ne sois pas du nombre des Associateurs;
German:
10:105 Und (daß ich spreche): "Richte dein Augenmerk auf den Glauben in Aufrichtigkeit, und sei nicht einer der Götzendiener.
Spanish:
10:105 Y: "¡Profesa la Religión como hanif y no seas asociador!"
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/16/16_120.htm
English (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
16:120 Abraham was indeed a model, devoutly obedient to Allah, (and) true in Faith, and he joined not gods with Allah.
Turkish:
16:120 Gerçek su ki, Ibrahim (tek basina) bir ümmetti; Allah'a gönülden yönelip itaat eden bir muvahhiddi ve o müsriklerden degildi.
French:
16:120 Abraham était un guide (Umma) parfait. Il était soumis à Allah, voué exclusivement à Lui et il n'était point du nombre des associateurs.
German:
16:120 Abraham war in der Tat ein Vorbild an Tugend, gehorsam gegen Allah, aufrecht und er gehörte nicht zu den Götzendienern -,
Spanish:
16:120 Abraham fue una comunidad, devoto de Alá, hanif y no asociador,
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http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/16/16_123.htmEnglish (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
16:123 So We have taught thee the inspired (Message), "Follow the ways of Abraham the True in Faith, and he joined not gods with Allah."
Turkish:
16:123 Sonra sana vahyettik: "Hanif (muvahhid) olan Ibrahim'in dinine uy. O, müsriklerden degildi."
French:
16:123 Puis Nous t'avons révélé: "Suis la religion d'Abraham qui était voué exclusivement à Allah et n'était point du nombre des associateurs".
German:
16:123 Und Wir haben dir offenbart: "Folge dem Weg Abrahams, des Aufrechten; er gehörte nicht zu den Götzendienern."
Spanish:
16:123 Luego, te hemos revelado: "Sigue la religión de Abraham, que fue hanif y no asociador".
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/22/22_31.htm
English (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
22:31 Being true in faith to Allah, and never assigning partners to Him: if anyone assigns partners to Allah, is as if he had fallen from heaven and been snatched up by birds, or the wind had swooped (like a bird on its prey) and thrown him into a far- distant place.
Turkish:
22:31 Allah'i birleyen (Hanif)ler olarak, O'na (hiç bir) ortak kosmaksizin. Kim Allah'a ortak kosarsa, sanki o gökten düsmüs de onu bir kus kapivermis veya rüzgar onu issiz bir yere sürükleyip atmis gibidir.
French:
22:31 (Soyez) exclusivement [acquis à la religion] d'Allah ne Lui associez rien; car quiconque associe à Allah, c'est comme s'il tombait du haut du ciel et que les oiseaux le happaient, ou que le vent le précipitait dans un abîme très profond.
German:
22:31 Ganz Allah ergeben, ohne Ihm etwas zur Seite zu stellen. Denn wer Allah etwas zur Seite stellt, es ist, als falle er von einer Höhe und die Vögel erhaschten ihn und der Wind verwehe ihn an einen fernen Ort.
Spanish:
22:31 ¡Como hanifes para con Alá y no como asociadores! Quien asocia a Alá otros dioses es como si cayera del cielo: las aves se lo llevarán o el viento lo arrastrará a un lugar lejano.
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/30/30_30.htm
English (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
30:30 So set thou thy face steadily and truly to the Faith: (establish) Allah's handiwork according to the pattern on which He has made mankind: no change (let there be) in the work (wrought) by Allah; that is the standard Religion, but most among mankind understand not.
Turkish:
30:30 Öyleyse sen yüzünü Allah'i birleyen (bir hanif) olarak dine, Allah'in o fitratina çevir; ki insanlari bunun üzerine yaratmistir. Allah'in yaratisi için hiç bir degistirme yoktur. Iste dimdik ayakta duran din (budur). Ancak insanlarin çogu bilmezler.
French:
30:30 Dirige tout ton être vers la religion exclusivement [pour Allah], telle est la nature qu'Allah a originellement donnée aux hommes - pas de changement à la création d'Allah -. Voilà la religion de droiture; mais la plupart des gens ne savent pas.
German:
30:30 So richte dein Antlitz auf den Glauben wie ein Aufrechter (und folge) der Natur, die Allah geschaffen - worin Er die Menschheit erschaffen hat. Es gibt kein Ändern an Allahs Schöpfung. Das ist der beständige Glaube. Allein die meisten Menschen wissen es nicht. -
Spanish:
30:30 ¡Profesa la Religión como hanif, según la naturaleza primigenia que Alá ha puesto en los hombres! No cabe alteración en la creación de Alá. Ésa es la religión verdadera. Pero la mayoría de los hombres no saben.
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/98/98_5.htm
English (Yusuf Ali): (Recite)
98:5 And they have been commanded no more than this: To worship Allah, offering Him sincere devotion, being true (in faith); to establish regular prayer; and to practise regular charity; and that is the Religion Right and Straight.
Turkish:
98:5 Oysa onlar, dini yalnizca O'na halis kilan hanifler (Allah'i birleyenler) olarak sadece Allah'a kulluk etmek, namazi dosdogru kilmak ve zekati vermekten baskasiyla emrolunmadilar. Iste en dogru (dimdik ve sapasaglam) din budur.
French:
98:5 Il ne leur a été commandé, cependant, que d'adorer Allah, Lui vouant un culte exclusif, d'accomplir la Salat et d'acquitter la Zakat. Et voilà la religion de droiture.
German:
98:5 Und doch war ihnen nichts anderes befohlen, als Allah zu dienen, in lauterem Gehorsam gegen Ihn und aufrechtem Glauben, und das Gebet zu verrichten und die Zakat zu zahlen. Und das ist der beständige Glaube.
Spanish:
98:5 Pero no se les ordenó sino que sirvieran a Dios, rindiéndole culto sincero comohanifes, que hicieran la azalá y dieran el azaque. Ésa es la religión verdadera.
A is for Allah by Yusuf Islam (Cat Stevens)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-L-GOHa5-YQ
Mother Love
My ALLAH!Took pen in my hand,
I’ll write the love mother;
I grew up with mother in love,
Your Mother’s Love is your Love.
The poem written for the award,
Mother Love can not be expressed;
Way of expressing affection,
As millions of full flower.
Still not enough to express it,
Millions of flowers break
A flower that it do not fade;
We put the name, Mother Love
According to some of the ways of love,
Full of gifts should be expressed;
We think of the expression must be a way,
The way of love from the heart should.
A day full of gifts to be given,
Love mother of the nation every day;
Must be the way of love in his heart,
Love the way the mother of heaven.
Items not finished, but is out of paper,
Still not enough to express it,
Love of mother, Mother’s Love…
by natlusmiles
http://natlusmiles.blogspot.com/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8tR47v1KWHk&feature=related
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/12/12_86.htm
Bu Yazılanlar Hayatımından Kesitler Okurken Herkes Kendi Hayatının Kesitlerini Tekrar Gözden Geçirme Ve Böylelikle Nerden Nereye Nasıl Bir Yol Aldığımızı Birlikte Görebilmek İçindi...
Ve Herkes Şunu Bilmeli ki Kulluğumun İfadesinde Hala Bulunabilmiş Değilim Hayretler İçinde Kalmış Aciz Bir Kul Olmanın Dışında...
Tek bu sayfa ciltler dolusu kitabı özetemeye yeter...
in the name of ALLAH the most beneficent the most merciful
none has the right to be worshiped but ALLAH
and Mohammed is the messenger of ALLAH
identity muslim
name: muslim
surname: the muslims
fathers name:the adam
mothers name: eve
birthplace:citizen of the world
the profession:the path of ALLAH
religious sect:mohammed of a religious order
temperament : coterie brotherhood
nationality:hanif'
phylo-:human
country:the place to the master of ALLAH
the target:for ALLAHs sake
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hanif
hanif^'pure islamic monotheism
(worshiping ALLAH alone and nothing else)
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/4/4_125.htm
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/30/30_30.htm
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/41/41_33.htm
http://www.islamicity.com/MOSQUE/ARABICSCRIPT/AYAT/49/49_14.htm
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الصلاة و السلام عليك يا حبيبي يا رسول الله - الصلاة و السلام عليك يا حبيبي يا حبيب الله - الصلاة و السلام عليك يا خيرة خلق الله - الصلاة و السلام عليك يا من بعثت رحمة للعالمين - الصلاة و السلام عليك و على آلك و أصحابك أجمعين - صلى الله عليك و الحمد لله رب العالمين
Assalam AlaikumWarahmatullahi Wabrakatuhu!
لاَّ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ الله مُحَمَّدً رَّسُوْلُ اللهِ
صلى الله عليه وسلم
Laa ilaaha illa Allaah, Muhammad ur RasooluLlah!
There is NO ONE WORTHY of WORSHIP except ALLAAH;Muhammad (Peace be upon him) is the Messenger of Allah.
*!!*!!*
Almighty Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says:"Surely Allah and His Angels send blessings on the Holy Prophet (Peace be upon him). O you who believe! Send Blessings (Durood) and Salutations (Salaams) on the Prophet (Peace be upon him) with worthy Salutation".
( Surah al-Ahzab: 56)
*!!*!!*
Allahuma Salli Ala Muhammadin Wa Ala Aali Muhammadin Kamaa Sallaita Ala Ibrahima Wa Ala Aali Ibrahima Innaka Hamidun Majid !!!
*!!*!!*
Allahumma Baarik Ala Muhammadin Wa Ala Aali Muhammadin Kamaa Baarakta Ala Ibrahima Wa Ala Aali Ibrahima Innaka Hamidun Majid !!!
*!!*!!*
Allahumma! Send blessings upon Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) and upon the followers of Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) as You sent blessings upon Ibraheem (Peace be upon him) and upon the followers of Ibraheem (Peace be upon him); indeed, You are praiseworthy and glorious.
*!!*!!*
Allahumma! Bless Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him)and the follower of Holy Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) as You blessed Ibraheem (Peace be upon him) and the follower of Ibraheem (Peace be upon him); indeed, You are praise worthy and glorious.
DANBUZU # Friday, November 16, 2012 8:27:32 PM
You can feel her INNOCENCE in the form of a daughter
You can feel her CARE in the form of a sister
You can feel her WARMTH in the form of a friend
You can feel her PASSION in the form of a beloved
You can feel her DEDICATION in the form of a wife
You can feel her DIVINITY in the form of a mother
You can feel her BLESSING in the form of a grandmother
Yet she is so TOUGH too
Her heart is so TENDER... So NAUGHTY... So CHARMING... So SHARING... So MELODIOUS
She is a WOMAN.. And she is LIFE..!!!
To all the wonder women & those men who thinks that a woman is weak, who disrespect her, abuse her, beats her up & pass dirty comments if any passes by him.
They somewhat forget that the one who gave birth to a non-deserving creep like him is also a woman..!
DANBUZU # Saturday, November 17, 2012 3:51:07 PM
Many women dream of that special day. You know the one, where all of the attention is on her in that gorgeous white dress. The floral arrangements, the decorations & lighting, the fancy cars and let’s not forget, her Prince Charming. Most women have an idea of what age they will be when Mr. Right asks her to spend the rest of her life with him. She has the colors picked out, the ideal season, the wedding party and even the guest list!
To many women, the wedding day is the turning point in her life that will lead to her happily ever after. Many of us have focused (let’s be honest) so much time and thought on the wedding and the marriage that we have never spent enough time and energy on the most important part…preparing to become a wife! Marriage takes work; 24/7/365 work! The great thing about the marital covenant is that when you give it your all, you can live “happily ever after”!
1. Develop an intimate relationship with God. You cannot enter into a successful covenant with a husband if you don’t first have one with God. A three-cord strand is not easily broken (God, Your Spouse & You)
2. Master the art of fidelity and trust. No man wants a woman that cannot be faithful nor one that turns her neck at every fine man that she sees. Learn to 100% committed prior to a serious courtship.
3. Develop the ability to take care of a home. Ladies, in order to be a great partner in marriage, we must bring the ability to emotionally and physically take care of the house. Learn to set a atmosphere of peace and love. Avoid quarrels when possible & practice gentleness always.
4. Learn how to cook! We know that men like to eat. Let’s be serious here. We all need to eat to live. Eating out all of the time can become expensive and who doesn't love a home- cooked meal from time to time. If you cannot do anything beyond boil water, invest in a cookbook. Try one new meal a week and you will quickly improve your cooking skills.
5. Make smart financial decisions. If you desire to marry a man that provides and makes the best decisions for his family, you need to do the same. Smart men don’t want to marry a woman that spends way more than she saves. The ability to manage money is important in marriage.
6. Be complete as one. Be comfortable with not having a man in this season. Learn to be happy on your own. Find joy in those things that make you happy. Love what you have and don’t covet what others have. Spend time in your singleness doing the things that you love to do. Travel, find hobbies and do the things that married women tell you that you won’t have time to do when you get married and then become a mother.
7. Learn the art of compromise. Marriage will be about give and take. While you are single, learn that you don’t always have to be right and accept that most things will not always happen your way. Be willing to sacrifice what you want for the benefit and happiness of others.
8. Be committed to pursuing your dreams and supporting others. It is important to have your own goals and motivations prior to becoming one with your future husbands. The single season is a great opportunity to begin building your career, business or working towards other goals.
9. Know what submission is and be ready to walk in it. Many people shy way from this discussion. Submission is not equivalent to obedience. Submission is yielding in love. Study God’s design for marriage and understand the role of a wife. In your singleness, God is your husband. Submit yourself to Him. Trust His plan and timing for your life.
10. Be holy and feminine in your conduct. Always carry yourself as a classy woman who walks with confidence. Men want a woman they are proud to take home to their families. They want a woman with high self- esteem, one who walks gracefully, respects herself and others around her.
Marriage is a sacred bond between God, man and woman. This is a great starting list to help single women prepare.
DANBUZU # Thursday, January 24, 2013 3:58:55 PM
Dear very loving male folks,
We the female folks wish to bring to your notice that in less than 3 weeks, there shall be the celebration of love (Feb.14). We'd appreciate it if alongside that box of chocolate is a box of ring-be it diamond, gold, silver or bronze! We know how much you want us to take a trip to Bahamas, Sun-city, Miami and Paris and we appreciate the kind gesture. BUT instead of the holiday trip, we would appreciate it if you'll take a trip to our family house instead! We've given you enough hints such as invitation to weddings, church vigils, child dedication and all sorts. Unfortunately, we understand that some of you broke up with us during d Christmas period but apologies will only be accepted in the form of a marriage proposal with it's consummation in no distant time! Valentine's day is just 3 weeks away so you have enough time to call your friends for a drink and tell your fathers, mothers and siblings about us. Thank you for your kind cooperation.:|
Signed:
President, Single Ladies Association.
Chinwe Juliet Patrick
DANBUZU # Wednesday, February 27, 2013 8:03:09 PM
Just for the sake of ALLAH
♥ Tell your spouse “I love you” regularly.
♥ Always say please and thank you.
♥ Never demand anything one of another, but ask kindly with respect.
♥ Husbands, don't act like as if you own your wife. Support them they are your companions
♥ Wives don’t nag your husbands. If they have been too busy to get something done for you, and you have already asked them a number of times, try asking them after you have done something nice for them. You will find this goes over much better then telling them for example “I have been asking for two months now to fix the leaking tap.
♥ Husband, thank your wife for each meal, when laundry is done and for how well your clothes have been folded, and when the home is cleaned and what a clean house she keeps. Wives, when your husband fixes something around the home thank him and when he brings home his cheque tell him what a good provider he is.
♥ Each day ask the other if there is anything you can do for them.
♥ You both need to be patient with each other’s weaknesses and faults.
♥ Be always seeking what you can put into the marriage.
♥ Pray daily for each other.
♥ Keep a list of the things your spouse asks you to do. When your spouse asks you to do something make sure you put it on your list and put a date beside it so you know how long it has been there.
♥ Never discuss each others past faults and mistakes in front of other people. While your spouse may laugh along with you and not say anything about it later, you may have hurt them deep down.
♥ Don’t allow a disagreement to escalate into an argument and certainly not in public or in front of your children.
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said “The best of you are those who are best to their wives.." [Tirmidhi, 3895]