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How To Approach Attractive Women In Public
When it comes to approaching women you really need to start observing their body language. This is especially so if you approach them cold. When in a bar environment never approach from behind always approach face to face.
If they are sitting at the bar approach from the side. When people are approached from behind they more than likely will get defensive.
A simple "hi" and a smile can break the ice. As mentioned watch the body language to see if they are comfortable or not and never ask personal questions from the get go. No one likes to have some stranger prying in their personal affairs.
As quirky as is seems a smile is your best tool in the bag. This is a warm and inviting gesture and if she smiles aback then you know that she is some what receptive to you. In the event you are at a grocery store for example you can just smile at her and if she smiles back check out what is in her basket and say something like "so chicken is on the menu tonight ha"
Once the conversation opens up at a later stage you can say, " I am terribly sorry my name is John" Then of course she will tell you her name. This way you have not asked her directly and she will be more comfortable sharing her name with you.
Humor of course is another wonderful tool. A little jab at yourself suggesting that you have to stay off the cookies will help her relax. When it comes to compliments never compliment her features just make a simple sincere compliment in general. Such as "You have a wonderful smile"
To conclude these are all just examples but I think you get the overall idea. Just keep it simple and be yourself.
How to Approach a Girl in Public
By an eHow Contributor
For a guy, one of the hardest parts of dating is actually approaching a girl for the first time. Some guys discuss with each other how to break the ice with the girl of their dreams; others will utilize female friendships to get some inside information on the workings of the female mind. Read the steps below to make approaching a girl in public a little easier.
Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions
1. 1
Locate an eligible girl in the room. If she is with a large group, do not attempt to approach her yet. Groups of girls will analyze and find any flaws possible to gossip about with one another.
2. 2
Make eye contact with a girl you would like to approach. Limit eye contact to intervals of 10 seconds. Lower eyes and gently smile at the same time. This will attract the girl's attention and open up the possibility of a conversation.
3. 3
Wait for the girl to be by herself. Approach her with confidence and smile when she looks around. Break the ice with a simple, "Hi, how are you tonight?"
4. 4
Watch for clues that she is interested. She may smile each time eye contact is made, laugh at jokes that aren't that funny or ask questions about the current discussion. Another sign she is interested is if she wants to introduce her friends to her new acquaintance.
5. 5
Ask for her contact information before ending the conversation.
Tips
• Hygiene: Wash, brush your teeth, clean your ears, cut your nails, pluck those hairs out of your nose. Women notice every flaw so hide them well.
Dress well: ask your sister or mother for advice, wear nice shoes, smell nice but don't overdo the aftershave and smell.
• Don't be cheap: pay for her drinks, dinner, her taxi ride home. If she insists on paying her own way, try, "I will get this one, you pay next time." However, if she seems truly intent on paying, don't push it! Let her, but insist you pay the next time. (Note the hint of there being a future between the two of you. Many women will pick up on this subtle comment, but not all; you may be able to ascertain if she's interested by her reaction to this.)
• If a girl is on her own, don't point that fact out, and beware if they are in a group of friends as you will end up having to impress more than one girl.
• For guys, remember that girls naturally have a wider range of vision than men. When a girl glances to her side she could be trying to get a view of you. Conversely, be careful if you're looking at a girl more than is normal and you can see the sides of her eyes: she can probably see you just as well as you can see her!
edit Warnings
• Be yourself.
• Be hygienic.
• Approach her only when you are happy.If you are angry,there are chances that you might end up shouting at her.
• Always have manners, open doors for her, chew food with your mouth shut, and be polite to staff.
• Do not act perverted around her. It is extremely unlikely that she will think it is funny. (While there may be some girls who will be amused by this, there is always the possibility that she is only pretending to laugh to be polite.)
Don't rush to tell her that you love her, take things slowly.
WAIT FOR THE PART 2
When it comes to approaching women you really need to start observing their body language. This is especially so if you approach them cold. When in a bar environment never approach from behind always approach face to face.
If they are sitting at the bar approach from the side. When people are approached from behind they more than likely will get defensive.
A simple "hi" and a smile can break the ice. As mentioned watch the body language to see if they are comfortable or not and never ask personal questions from the get go. No one likes to have some stranger prying in their personal affairs.
As quirky as is seems a smile is your best tool in the bag. This is a warm and inviting gesture and if she smiles aback then you know that she is some what receptive to you. In the event you are at a grocery store for example you can just smile at her and if she smiles back check out what is in her basket and say something like "so chicken is on the menu tonight ha"
Once the conversation opens up at a later stage you can say, " I am terribly sorry my name is John" Then of course she will tell you her name. This way you have not asked her directly and she will be more comfortable sharing her name with you.
Humor of course is another wonderful tool. A little jab at yourself suggesting that you have to stay off the cookies will help her relax. When it comes to compliments never compliment her features just make a simple sincere compliment in general. Such as "You have a wonderful smile"
To conclude these are all just examples but I think you get the overall idea. Just keep it simple and be yourself.
How to Approach a Girl in Public
By an eHow Contributor
For a guy, one of the hardest parts of dating is actually approaching a girl for the first time. Some guys discuss with each other how to break the ice with the girl of their dreams; others will utilize female friendships to get some inside information on the workings of the female mind. Read the steps below to make approaching a girl in public a little easier.
Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions
1. 1
Locate an eligible girl in the room. If she is with a large group, do not attempt to approach her yet. Groups of girls will analyze and find any flaws possible to gossip about with one another.
2. 2
Make eye contact with a girl you would like to approach. Limit eye contact to intervals of 10 seconds. Lower eyes and gently smile at the same time. This will attract the girl's attention and open up the possibility of a conversation.
3. 3
Wait for the girl to be by herself. Approach her with confidence and smile when she looks around. Break the ice with a simple, "Hi, how are you tonight?"
4. 4
Watch for clues that she is interested. She may smile each time eye contact is made, laugh at jokes that aren't that funny or ask questions about the current discussion. Another sign she is interested is if she wants to introduce her friends to her new acquaintance.
5. 5
Ask for her contact information before ending the conversation.
Tips
• Hygiene: Wash, brush your teeth, clean your ears, cut your nails, pluck those hairs out of your nose. Women notice every flaw so hide them well.
Dress well: ask your sister or mother for advice, wear nice shoes, smell nice but don't overdo the aftershave and smell.
• Don't be cheap: pay for her drinks, dinner, her taxi ride home. If she insists on paying her own way, try, "I will get this one, you pay next time." However, if she seems truly intent on paying, don't push it! Let her, but insist you pay the next time. (Note the hint of there being a future between the two of you. Many women will pick up on this subtle comment, but not all; you may be able to ascertain if she's interested by her reaction to this.)
• If a girl is on her own, don't point that fact out, and beware if they are in a group of friends as you will end up having to impress more than one girl.
• For guys, remember that girls naturally have a wider range of vision than men. When a girl glances to her side she could be trying to get a view of you. Conversely, be careful if you're looking at a girl more than is normal and you can see the sides of her eyes: she can probably see you just as well as you can see her!
edit Warnings
• Be yourself.
• Be hygienic.
• Approach her only when you are happy.If you are angry,there are chances that you might end up shouting at her.
• Always have manners, open doors for her, chew food with your mouth shut, and be polite to staff.
• Do not act perverted around her. It is extremely unlikely that she will think it is funny. (While there may be some girls who will be amused by this, there is always the possibility that she is only pretending to laugh to be polite.)
Don't rush to tell her that you love her, take things slowly.
WAIT FOR THE PART 2
