Loss

From young I have been taught to be a good girl, always be obedient, always how to serve but I was also taught to be independent, to have goals and to work hard to achieve them. In part it is this education that had raised great conflict in what I consider to be one of the social standards that women can't seem to by pass without the lose of some thing!?1? It's a scale that is in constant flux, you either give too little or take away to much. Will we ever achieve a state of balance or will it always be in a constant shifting motion, ever swaying....