Perception and Deception

Its very frustrating when a girl or women what ever the case may be says that she likes you a lot and does not know you at all other than the fact that i laugh and can make others laugh. So i end up deciding that i should get to know that girl or Women but they change there mind because maybe i don't feel like getting waisted or want to go clubbing every week. I'm just a mellow person that likes to hang out and drink at a bar that has bands and watch the bands play plus have a conversation but i don't have to get waisted. i just think that it is stupid now to put myself that low every week. maybe everyone in a while for a occasion but not to just do. so I'm single again and it's bac k to the same old same old.