My OperaHow to Love Somebody
Sunday, June 28, 2009 8:48:34 PM
Steps
1. Love is a feeling. It takes time to develop and when you love someone, you'll know it. The moment that you realize you love someone may be at a party, during a fight, or during a kiss you are having with them. Don't force yourself to think that you're in love with someone. You'll know it when it hits you. Be patient and enjoy the moments that you have now without the "I love yous."
2. Listen. Take time to understand their thoughts, their worries, their concerns, their opinions. What's a real relationship without the effort of understanding each other? And when listening, don't interrupt.
3. Be kind and light-hearted. Don't be a drama king/queen by saying things like "If I didn't have you, I'd kill myself" or anything like that. Use common sense; don't scare the heck out of your lover.
1. Love is a feeling. It takes time to develop and when you love someone, you'll know it. The moment that you realize you love someone may be at a party, during a fight, or during a kiss you are having with them. Don't force yourself to think that you're in love with someone. You'll know it when it hits you. Be patient and enjoy the moments that you have now without the "I love yous."
2. Listen. Take time to understand their thoughts, their worries, their concerns, their opinions. What's a real relationship without the effort of understanding each other? And when listening, don't interrupt.
3. Be kind and light-hearted. Don't be a drama king/queen by saying things like "If I didn't have you, I'd kill myself" or anything like that. Use common sense; don't scare the heck out of your lover.
