My OperaAN OPEN LETTER TO MISS SINGLE AND SEARCHING
Sunday, July 28, 2013 6:15:34 AM
AN OPEN LETTER TO MISS AND SEARCHING.
Dear Lady...
How have you been selling yourself?
What is your marketing strategy?
Do you think you are going to be picked off the shelve and placed in the basket of matrimony.. If you are always hanging out with that coven of witches you call your friend,the ones, who intimidates any man, who even approach your table.
She want you to get married! But the man isn't going to walk the whole lot of you down the aisle.
Finding a husband isn't a team work,
Drop the habit of being too pompous of yourself.
There are more million of you around somewhere, if you didn't meet the target.
But mind you , you might be loosing your best feast to the cat.
Its down to you and just you. Trust me even if she is your twin sister and loves you like crazy;
if another woman decides that the perfect man for you is also the perfect man for her, she will either snatch him up faster than you can say or she make sure your relationship bomb so that you can remain as miserable as her...
Drinking yourself to stupor every friday and saturday night doesn't exactly make you look like a wife material neither will any product do well in the market.if the sales team reeks of desperation...
When a man comes over to you, Smile and be polite, even if he doesn't fit the (criteria ) mental image of your mind,
woman comes to the table of (dating,courtship,relationship) with so many preconception.
By the time a woman is 18 years of age, she already has an image of her perfect man, that includes height, body type, voice , complexion, e.t.c
As the time goes by, the woman adds more and more things to her list such that by the time she is dating for Marriage, not a single man alive can meet her exact standard.
Getting a husband is like buying a house, you must settle for what you can afford-
Look at your list ,
You have specifications on height, tribe, income, occupation. What he drives , where he lives, where he schooled, his social circle. Really how much of that actually matters?
Look at how men do it!
when a man is 18, the only thing in his head is that all he want is a woman,
men marry anywhere, from a housemaid to a professor.
A guy can have a taste of chubby ladies , but marry a skinny lady-
men dont come to the table of relationship, with a list set in stone
If the deal is right, they dump their criteria and marry someone so unexpected, even their closest friends are left stunned.. (and sometimes the incumbent wife is elect)
ladies !
stop coming to a relationship with a chip on your shoulder.
If you believe all men are bad, men are dogs. Then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy.
No man is perfect; if you want to find a perfect man, you will have to do a genesis chapter one... And you make him out of clay and breathe life into him,
Even then, they are chances that he will still disappoint . Just ask the big guy..
You say you cant date an accountant, because they are stingy with money, but what if the perfect man for you is someone, who can inject the much needed financial discipline into yous champagne lifestyle on a beer budget existence?
You say you can't marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic, carpenter and even job seeker, but imagine if a carpenter was good enough for MARY the mother of Jesus, why isn't one good for you.
The guy is little short, a little shy, he doesn't drive and he lives in a suburb. No big deal.
Dont focus on where he is today, look and see where he has the potential to be;
dont focus on some petty physical features that aren't up to the mexican soap opera standard. Dont even look into materials because its fades.
Just concentrate on yous happiness-
will he be faithful?
Will he be a good father?
Will he cherish and respect you?
What is the point of beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking womanizing jerk?
why did you not marry the nice carpenter, accountant, even job seeker?
Those people that takes you for their moon and stars?
Oh! I see, you want your friends to see you in the arms of the successful plastic surgeon, who now beats and cheats on you so much that you are now a laughing stock..
The world is full of good men.
You are just so caught up daydreaming about your fantasy man that are passing unnoticed before your very eyes.
Dont be cynical, fussy and uptight , improve the product and how it is marketed.
Remember you are competing in a modern market. Learn to be good at all cost, no good husband picks a good wife in the night club, even though if you are picked, his conscience might disturbs, that he tried unintended things to get you off his diary.
Your perfect man is out here or there.:
he may not look like what you expected but if you give him a chance, the two of you will find joy , companionship and completion like you never thought possible..... .....
Written by
HABEEB OSENI (2013)
www.gentlesoul.8m.net
Dear Lady...
How have you been selling yourself?
What is your marketing strategy?
Do you think you are going to be picked off the shelve and placed in the basket of matrimony.. If you are always hanging out with that coven of witches you call your friend,the ones, who intimidates any man, who even approach your table.
She want you to get married! But the man isn't going to walk the whole lot of you down the aisle.
Finding a husband isn't a team work,
Drop the habit of being too pompous of yourself.
There are more million of you around somewhere, if you didn't meet the target.
But mind you , you might be loosing your best feast to the cat.
Its down to you and just you. Trust me even if she is your twin sister and loves you like crazy;
if another woman decides that the perfect man for you is also the perfect man for her, she will either snatch him up faster than you can say or she make sure your relationship bomb so that you can remain as miserable as her...
Drinking yourself to stupor every friday and saturday night doesn't exactly make you look like a wife material neither will any product do well in the market.if the sales team reeks of desperation...
When a man comes over to you, Smile and be polite, even if he doesn't fit the (criteria ) mental image of your mind,
woman comes to the table of (dating,courtship,relationship) with so many preconception.
By the time a woman is 18 years of age, she already has an image of her perfect man, that includes height, body type, voice , complexion, e.t.c
As the time goes by, the woman adds more and more things to her list such that by the time she is dating for Marriage, not a single man alive can meet her exact standard.
Getting a husband is like buying a house, you must settle for what you can afford-
Look at your list ,
You have specifications on height, tribe, income, occupation. What he drives , where he lives, where he schooled, his social circle. Really how much of that actually matters?
Look at how men do it!
when a man is 18, the only thing in his head is that all he want is a woman,
men marry anywhere, from a housemaid to a professor.
A guy can have a taste of chubby ladies , but marry a skinny lady-
men dont come to the table of relationship, with a list set in stone
If the deal is right, they dump their criteria and marry someone so unexpected, even their closest friends are left stunned.. (and sometimes the incumbent wife is elect)
ladies !
stop coming to a relationship with a chip on your shoulder.
If you believe all men are bad, men are dogs. Then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy.
No man is perfect; if you want to find a perfect man, you will have to do a genesis chapter one... And you make him out of clay and breathe life into him,
Even then, they are chances that he will still disappoint . Just ask the big guy..
You say you cant date an accountant, because they are stingy with money, but what if the perfect man for you is someone, who can inject the much needed financial discipline into yous champagne lifestyle on a beer budget existence?
You say you can't marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic, carpenter and even job seeker, but imagine if a carpenter was good enough for MARY the mother of Jesus, why isn't one good for you.
The guy is little short, a little shy, he doesn't drive and he lives in a suburb. No big deal.
Dont focus on where he is today, look and see where he has the potential to be;
dont focus on some petty physical features that aren't up to the mexican soap opera standard. Dont even look into materials because its fades.
Just concentrate on yous happiness-
will he be faithful?
Will he be a good father?
Will he cherish and respect you?
What is the point of beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking womanizing jerk?
why did you not marry the nice carpenter, accountant, even job seeker?
Those people that takes you for their moon and stars?
Oh! I see, you want your friends to see you in the arms of the successful plastic surgeon, who now beats and cheats on you so much that you are now a laughing stock..
The world is full of good men.
You are just so caught up daydreaming about your fantasy man that are passing unnoticed before your very eyes.
Dont be cynical, fussy and uptight , improve the product and how it is marketed.
Remember you are competing in a modern market. Learn to be good at all cost, no good husband picks a good wife in the night club, even though if you are picked, his conscience might disturbs, that he tried unintended things to get you off his diary.
Your perfect man is out here or there.:
he may not look like what you expected but if you give him a chance, the two of you will find joy , companionship and completion like you never thought possible..... .....
Written by
HABEEB OSENI (2013)
www.gentlesoul.8m.net
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