Andrij van der Merwe

Can This Be The Truth?

Monday, April 7, 2008 2:18:23 PM

Experts say that we (guys) normally scare off woman, instead of drawing them in. They say that there are ten things that we as guys do wrong ... can this be true?

MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You"

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

Could these be the mistakes we make ladies?

EVER WONDERED WHERE WE ARE HEADED?

Comments

Razzyindigolove # Monday, April 7, 2008 7:30:16 PM

lol ja i cn c plenty mistakes. if thats wat u guys realy thnk ur all realy quite dumb.

Andrij van der MerweGreatMaruti # Tuesday, April 8, 2008 6:44:34 AM

Hey, I didn't say thats what we think, I said that's what experts (prob girls) said

Liiiiiis Lee # Tuesday, April 8, 2008 8:21:46 AM

MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
i think is this one...lol.....im not sure i always make my boy suffer

Andrij van der MerweGreatMaruti # Tuesday, April 8, 2008 8:23:00 AM

Oh shame, the poor guy ... maybe we could reverse these mistakes? hehe

Liiiiiis Lee # Tuesday, April 8, 2008 11:59:01 AM

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG TO TRY

Andrij van der MerweGreatMaruti # Tuesday, April 8, 2008 1:17:33 PM

You're really bad, you know that?

DeeDeeTogaOga # Tuesday, April 8, 2008 9:11:42 PM

i think (some ladies like me) don't like it when guys try too hard. i hate it when they try. i just want them to be themselves you know. i'm not much into flowers and candy or any other type of food. it's ok to be a romantic type every now and then, but sometimes i think you just have to give it a rest and be yourself. i like the door opened for me, but i got arms that work. i like a sweetheart sometimes, but i also like the guy talk too.

Andrij van der MerweGreatMaruti # Wednesday, April 9, 2008 7:32:09 AM

Thanx for that piece of advice, I really appreciate that!! It's so nice to find out that girls just wants guys to be themselves,that takes a whole lot of pressure off of a guy ... but the other side is also true, we as guys just wants girls to be the happiest of what they can be, but don't know that by just being ourselves, it'll make girls happy ...

Liiiiiis Lee # Wednesday, April 9, 2008 4:14:34 PM

hmm i agree with you toga, im not much into flowers and candy either

DeeDeeTogaOga # Wednesday, April 9, 2008 6:01:07 PM

i like jewlery, but can't wear them. i'm allergic to them. my husband likes to buy me necklaces even though i can't wear them, i display them and that makes him happy, because i admire them and he knows what i like. i'm a dolphin here (i have a huge collection still in storage).

Razzyindigolove # Thursday, April 10, 2008 8:56:18 PM

i agree bt a guy dnt knw hw 2 just b hmself their egos always seem get in da way or their friends. bt there nt enuf of da guys we do want left i mean da sweetys. it a pity thoug

Razzyindigolove # Thursday, April 10, 2008 8:56:37 PM

i agree bt a guy dnt knw hw 2 just b hmself their egos always seem get in da way or their friends. bt there nt enuf of da guys we do want left i mean da sweetys. it a pity thoug

DeeDeeTogaOga # Thursday, April 10, 2008 9:03:12 PM

not all guys are like that. some guys don't have friends or won't allow friends to influence them.

Razzyindigolove # Monday, April 14, 2008 11:23:23 AM

in da highscool friends influence ur guys opinion of u especialy if ur guys afrikaans. lukily im stil wit dat guy nw afta all that kak yip guys we getin maried sep

Andrij van der MerweGreatMaruti # Monday, April 14, 2008 12:20:08 PM

That's GREAT news indigo, but just to let you know, friends NEVER influenced me, I'm a strong personality person, I've NEVER let friends influence me ... I'm like God, yesterday, today, and till the end of time, always the same ... Other people don't live my life, so why should they make decisions concerning it ... ?

Razzyindigolove # Monday, April 14, 2008 9:37:30 PM

Thats gud an thanx. sounds lyk ul make sum1 hapy. bt u sound a litl egotistical lol