My OperaUnlucky for love in all the every places.
Saturday, June 9, 2007 12:25:28 PM
How is it that a young, well not exactly in my 20's any more, but still pretty good looking, quite intelligent, yet utterly stupid person like myself and I know there are more of me out there, come on, goes about finding the right person? Or better yet, how do we avoid finding the wrong people. I am completely beside myself. I find someone that I am extremely attracted to the idea of being attracted to and botta bing botta bang, yep, swinging on another vine. This is the story of my life. Unlucky in love. and even matters of the heart...
I must be the most nieve person there is to be as of this date. I seem to always and I mean always give people the benefit of the doubt, hell I never even stop to think about the doubt. I just live, day to day, making friends with really good people, but never finding that single, heterosexual couterpart. I just realized that today was two years and just two dates. I also realized that I never go anywhere to meet anyone that would actually ask me out. Instead, I work constantly on something and frequently talk to whomever will listen and to no surprise, the ones that actually are listening aren't the ones that would even fathom the thought of asking me out because they don't ask women out! Yeah, I am so utterly, completely blind, ie the Name of the blog, Elton is for Elton John and the Rose colored glasses or just incredibly deaf, dumb and blind. I seem to attract the gayest men alive or the most unavailable men, you know who you are. The guy in the forum that answers your questions with such thought and worthiness, yes the one that you (yeah, you, all you girls that are exactly like me) completely find yourself involved with right away; picture yourself actually seeing this "person" upclose and personal, only to find out that he is gay, bi and in denial, hey it aint't just a river in Egypt, or married. Wow, and you married guys, why are there so many of you that actually pretend that you aren't married and ask anyway, then break the news as though it where a mear detail of the bottomlessness of your lives? Now that is just rude. You pretty much tell a girl, "Hey you're hot, I wanna get laid.", when you ask her out then tell her you are married and then tell her, "and I am not leaving my wife". How is this supposed to be a good thing? Cause most of you act like you really would be a good thing???
Don't take this as a gay/straight thing please. My own brother is gay. Love him wouldn't know what to do without him. But I am not. This is about how does a girl like me find a decent guy, whom I have things in common, talks to me and listens to me, to actually go out with or maybe even date? Don't even talk about the sexual side of things? Hell, anyone can get laid, I'm talking about relationship material guy. The one you wouldn't actually have a problem getting out of bed to take a shower, or wash laundry or even cook, for God's sake. How do I find that guy?
I must be the most nieve person there is to be as of this date. I seem to always and I mean always give people the benefit of the doubt, hell I never even stop to think about the doubt. I just live, day to day, making friends with really good people, but never finding that single, heterosexual couterpart. I just realized that today was two years and just two dates. I also realized that I never go anywhere to meet anyone that would actually ask me out. Instead, I work constantly on something and frequently talk to whomever will listen and to no surprise, the ones that actually are listening aren't the ones that would even fathom the thought of asking me out because they don't ask women out! Yeah, I am so utterly, completely blind, ie the Name of the blog, Elton is for Elton John and the Rose colored glasses or just incredibly deaf, dumb and blind. I seem to attract the gayest men alive or the most unavailable men, you know who you are. The guy in the forum that answers your questions with such thought and worthiness, yes the one that you (yeah, you, all you girls that are exactly like me) completely find yourself involved with right away; picture yourself actually seeing this "person" upclose and personal, only to find out that he is gay, bi and in denial, hey it aint't just a river in Egypt, or married. Wow, and you married guys, why are there so many of you that actually pretend that you aren't married and ask anyway, then break the news as though it where a mear detail of the bottomlessness of your lives? Now that is just rude. You pretty much tell a girl, "Hey you're hot, I wanna get laid.", when you ask her out then tell her you are married and then tell her, "and I am not leaving my wife". How is this supposed to be a good thing? Cause most of you act like you really would be a good thing???
Don't take this as a gay/straight thing please. My own brother is gay. Love him wouldn't know what to do without him. But I am not. This is about how does a girl like me find a decent guy, whom I have things in common, talks to me and listens to me, to actually go out with or maybe even date? Don't even talk about the sexual side of things? Hell, anyone can get laid, I'm talking about relationship material guy. The one you wouldn't actually have a problem getting out of bed to take a shower, or wash laundry or even cook, for God's sake. How do I find that guy?
