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Been a long time i visited my opera community... It's good to be back. Expect more exciting articles from my blog. *winks*

SEX/VIRGINITY: (dignity or lack of opportunity)?

Dear friends, i have heared alot of things being said about SEX & VIRGINITY. Buh i feel i should air my views on dis critical issue.

SEX: what is sex? Well, der are many definitions of sex. But literally speaking, it is the coupling of a male and female (or female/female: LESBIAN, or male/male: HOMOSEXUALS).
When 'coupling' or 'coitus' takes place, d individuals involved experience a certain degree of satisfaction especially when they get 2 d peak/climax.
Other mini forms of sexual satisfaction include blowjobs, 'cunnilingus', oral sex, stroking/caressing d intimate area etc.

VIRGINITY: Now, on this issue i'd like 2go a bit spiritual.
Originally, God created men and women and added certain hormones and sexual organs for our pleasure and 4 d purpose of procreation. But God also enabled us 2have self control. For these reasons, he created the institution of marriage which binds the man and the woman together 4life 2 enjoy sexual pleasure, procreate and of course live in love and harmony. The institution of marriage was made so that men and women who cannot maintain celibacy (abstinence 4rm sex) will not defile their bodies outside the marriage institution.
I hear some of my agemates saying dat God should not hav given us hormones which tempt us 2 have sex at an early age, especially d age of puberty.
In my opinion, i think it is necessary 2 activate ur self-control mechanism in order not 2be labelled a sexually loose person. Let d person whom u'll marry be the first and only one 2have ur precious 'gift'.

Dont get things twisted, am not saying am too holy. Infact, there are times when i get those naughty feelings and feel like doing and saying some naughty things. And sometimes i even try 2 explore my body. But i tell u, once u ve mastered d art of self control till marriage, it becomes a part of you.

This is my opinion, yours could be different. Feel free bcos no one is perfect. Live ur life in a way that pleases u and ur God. I love you all my friends.

love Lot's of Love, JHC love

I Love You (a short piece)

I wish i could show u how much i care. I wish i could always be there with u to share

Your joy and pain, your loss and gain.

I may not always reply ur inbox/message, that does not imply dat i do not appreciate

Your love which makes me strong, your prayers which guide me all day long.

Life is a struggle, this I know. But my love is with u wherever you go.

heart Composed by Jamin's Heart Candy, for all my lovely friends heart

A LETTER TO CHELSEA MY BELOVED FOOTBALL CLUB

Dear Chelsea,

If you were a guy, i would ve STRUGGLED 2 make you my husband.

If you were the tears in my eyes, i'd never cry so as not to lose you.

If you were a house, i'd 4ever live in you.

OH CHELSEA my beloved club, you make me scream in excitement and shed tears of joy.

You give ur fans every reason to love and support you.

Parading beautifully in their shiny BLUE jerseys, the ever determined players adorn the field of play.

Little wonder that my best colour is BLUE???! Yes, the reason is not far fetched.

OH CHELSEA, MY BELOVED FOOTBALL CLUB, I REMAIN A LOYAL FAN TILL INFINITY.

heart Yours Sincerely, JAMIN'S-HEART-CANDY heart

Tribute to Yar'Adua My Love

heart If money could buy life, i'd give all i had to see u live again.

Oh Yar Love, how could u live me alone to face this pain?

You told me u'd get up 4rm ur sick bed and i believed you.

But you betrayed me, now what am i gonna do?

Well, I am com4ted b'cos u are resting in peace, away from the pains of this world.

Please accept Yar's soul. This i pray to thee, oh Lord. heart

dear friends, pls drop ur tributes here 4 the repose of LATE PRESIDENT UMARU MUSA '"MY LOVE'" YAR'ADUA....

The Good, The Bad, and The Terrible

Hello my lovely friends. Ever since i joined this wonderful community about a week ago, ve experienced alot which i'd like 2share with y'all.
THE GOOD: i love the way y'all received me warmly in2 dis community by sending me welcome msgs, guidelines on how 2get d best out of opera and funny comments on my blog post and photos. To these genuine people i say thank you and i love you so much. smile
THE BAD: okay so i updated my home page and HATERZ started sending me "bad bele" msgs like one sista who said i'm a loose gal jst bcos i said d weda was cold and meant 4 two pple. Na bad tin i talk? Anoda even said i'm lying abt being a med student. Una see me see Trouble o. Well, To such people, i say "una weldone oh, u can never stop my shine"
THE TERRIBLE: So i uploaded my pictures and some JHC wonna-be's said am indecent in my dressing. Na wa o, na una i dress 4? As 4 some randy males, they said they wonna 'eff' me. My advice? Go 'eff' yo momma first!

GENERALLY: I'm having so much fun like neva b4. OPERA COMMUNITY ROCKS. *muaaaaaaahhh*

Primary Love Language (PLL)

Holla my pretty damsels and handsome dudes. Uhmmn, sm1 once told me that everyone has a PLL. A PLL is somethn or a number of things that draws u closer 2your spouse and makes u love him/her much more than usual. It could be
1) Undivided attention.
2) Cash/Money
3) Great sex
4) Material Gifts e.g jewelries, perfumes, clothes etc.
5) Pleasant Surprises e.g A long lasting kiss in public when u least expect it.
The list goes on and on. So i wonna know, what's ur PLL? Mine is/are..... Lol