poSITIVELy ImPACTing mY NuCLEaR aNd EXtENdED nEIGHBORhood

....Yes, you can stop that disgraceful life, beating up your wife, you girl friend, or any lady for that matter.
This goes to say much about our homes, our values for life.
I choosed to write about this because, i took a study of homes where the father beats up the wife for any little excuse, or in the habit of employing abusive and foul language when provoked, that the children grow up being agressive. The trend go with them.
Anyone who refuses to employ dialogue has no value for life. Like a friend rightly said, you dont destroy what you love.
You dont destroy to express your love for what you are distroying.
Most men who beat up wife or girlfriends are living in the shadow of who they really are...beasts in human skin.
They should enrol as WWE cadets and get paid to entertain.
Why do you think and believe that he will stop beating you someday?
To compound issues, you lie to protect him. When you dont tell on enquiry the cause of that swollen lips, you just gave your consent for the next round.
I once adviced a constantly fighting couple to separate for a while. Very hard, but it solved that for them.
Why are you so afraid that he will harm you more? If you can start to deal with Fear, just like the wild swine.
Why do we have kid bullies? Fear.
Because the kids are used to daddy taking it out at mummy that they now seek ways to be vengeful, or a medium of expressing the anger in them.
What is the atmosphere when you walk into your home? You cant be a boss at work and at your home man.
Here she is having a peaceful time and, he walks in and that atmosphere of peace turns to fear.
I think that the very mistake our women allow is accepting not to continue or pick up any employment, just because the man thinks that will be an insult to his ego of fulfilling his obligation as The Man.
The moment you acquiesce to that, you have motgaged your right to freedom as a woman, you.........to continued in part 2

He beat her to submissin. Bruises, swollen eyes and lips. Fusing all over her, hugging and kissing her tears..."....oh honey, you know i love you so much. I will never do anything to hurt you....."
That wasnt her first time to be through that. And she is so convinced thats not going to be the last either.
Why cant the woman fight back if she is so convinced she has so much to loose, quitting? I was so impressed by a clip i watched in NatGeo......
Here was this Lion feeling Kingly and generally selective on its prey for lunch. Finally decided to feed on wild swine....and wham...goes after the fearful creature.
But after running, i believe the swine said to self.,,"if i must die, better to die fighting..." and turned around, rushing after the lion. That stopped the beast on its track, and that spared the life of the swine.."
What level of provocation, that you take it out on the woman?
When you shut you mind, from, and decide that you are not living that disgraceful life of fighting, you can...
....ty be concl..