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Women Beater pt 1

Saturday, November 21, 2009 9:54:35 AM

He beat her to submissin. Bruises, swollen eyes and lips. Fusing all over her, hugging and kissing her tears..."....oh honey, you know i love you so much. I will never do anything to hurt you....."
That wasnt her first time to be through that. And she is so convinced thats not going to be the last either.
Why cant the woman fight back if she is so convinced she has so much to loose, quitting? I was so impressed by a clip i watched in NatGeo......
Here was this Lion feeling Kingly and generally selective on its prey for lunch. Finally decided to feed on wild swine....and wham...goes after the fearful creature.
But after running, i believe the swine said to self.,,"if i must die, better to die fighting..." and turned around, rushing after the lion. That stopped the beast on its track, and that spared the life of the swine.."
What level of provocation, that you take it out on the woman?
When you shut you mind, from, and decide that you are not living that disgraceful life of fighting, you can...
....ty be concl..

Why...,Musing....

Comments

Esom Jenipher ChiomaPriceykrystal Saturday, November 21, 2009 10:13:05 AM

Hey,where do u get dis ideas or write-ups

Jon SilasJonsyn Saturday, November 21, 2009 10:24:37 AM

Original. My stuff and creation.

Jon SilasJonsyn Saturday, November 21, 2009 10:28:03 AM

The response and comments determine if i am going to post concluding parts

NorahhhhAnorah25 Monday, November 23, 2009 11:37:56 PM

nice one,bravoo.....

Zanele makhayeMazaza Friday, November 27, 2009 10:37:50 AM

Talk to them women beaters bro. Maybe they will listen to you. It is no cool at all. Thanx bro for reminding them.

Jon SilasJonsyn Friday, November 27, 2009 10:40:19 AM

Thanks, can you expain more on that?
I am about to post the part 2.
Thanks

Jon SilasJonsyn Friday, November 27, 2009 10:43:49 AM

Thanks, can you expain more on that?
I am about to post the part 2.
Thanks

Nora Marie QudusSayward Friday, November 27, 2009 6:07:19 PM

Very good. My own husband's mother was beaten right after she gave birth to another daughter. He will never forgive or forget his father's violence and abuse. Wife beaters are to lowest form of life.

Jon SilasJonsyn Friday, November 27, 2009 6:47:22 PM

Thanks Say...
Thats nice tonic...energized for the next part

Jon SilasJonsyn Friday, November 27, 2009 6:49:43 PM

Thanks Say...
Thats nice tonic...energized for the next part

Jeaninethesugaplum Friday, November 27, 2009 7:24:32 PM

Women dont fight back because they are sadly stuck in the vicious cycle. The men manipulate and belittle them, literally brainwashing them into thinking that they cant survive without the man.

The psyche of a woman beater is one of very low self esteem and a feeling of inadequacy. They feed off the vulnerability of the woman to make them feel powerful and in control. Look at Tina Turner, a seemingly strong woman that endured lots of violence. But her husband made her believe she would not survive without him...

Its so complex and each case is slightly different. But dont look down on the woman who stays, rather pray that God would grant her the strength and wisdom to deal with the situation before its too late!

Jon SilasJonsyn Saturday, November 28, 2009 12:30:26 AM

Very insightful Jean. Thank you

Jeaninethesugaplum Saturday, November 28, 2009 8:28:48 AM

Ok, Jon, Keep on blogging about woman beaters, i will surely tell you if you are offensive. So far you havent been. PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW THAT ITS NOT OKAY TO BEAT UP ON ANYONE, BE IT MEN WOMEN OR CHILDREN! Here in SA we just had our 16 days of activism against violence against women and children. Lookin forward to part 2.

Jon SilasJonsyn Saturday, November 28, 2009 8:34:58 AM

Thanks Jean for that...EncoreRaging response....lol

Jeaninethesugaplum Saturday, November 28, 2009 8:43:07 AM

Pleasure! (taking a curtsy) up

Jeaninethesugaplum Saturday, November 28, 2009 1:25:23 PM

I hear you Jon. You have a noble kingly spirit! up

Jon SilasJonsyn Saturday, November 28, 2009 1:47:19 PM

Thats maturity girly

Jon SilasJonsyn Thursday, December 3, 2009 3:18:10 PM

Sorry Mazaza, i got a guy who started by being insultive, to the point thesugaplum couldnt stand his writings. I have deleted and blocked his mails.
Guess i got to delete every ref to him.
Error regreted.

Zanele makhayeMazaza Thursday, December 3, 2009 6:23:25 PM

Ok, i was a bit confused. I wonder why a person wuld do such a thing.

Jon SilasJonsyn Thursday, December 3, 2009 6:48:27 PM

My, the guy is an indian, name is aesapallava.
Things he wrote...even claims there is no God, abusive of God.He said things that insults and provokes even the simplest of minds.
So how are you today?

Jeaninethesugaplum Thursday, December 3, 2009 8:47:21 PM

See Jon i told you they would get confused! I appologise to all those that are confused. :-)

Jon SilasJonsyn Thursday, December 3, 2009 9:25:16 PM

I had deleted all. My oversight Jean.
Thanks for you concern

Zanele makhayeMazaza Friday, December 4, 2009 2:54:56 AM

I am fine Jon thank you. Hope u doing good.

Jon SilasJonsyn Friday, December 4, 2009 8:41:08 AM

Cant be happier than i am, Mazaza.
You know good and constructive comments are soothing.
Keep bloggn n hv a 1daful day

Jeaninethesugaplum Friday, December 4, 2009 10:42:41 AM

have an awsome weekend people!

;-)

Jon SilasJonsyn Friday, December 4, 2009 12:33:11 PM

Jean i wish you all a safe trip, and do come online if you can.
Will miss you while it lasts...:-(

Jeaninethesugaplum Friday, December 4, 2009 5:08:40 PM

I'll be at the beach for the day tomorrow, but i use my phone so i'll check in from time to time! Lol

Jon SilasJonsyn Friday, December 4, 2009 5:12:45 PM

Good news Jean. Have fun

Jeaninethesugaplum Friday, December 4, 2009 5:21:20 PM

up thank you! happy

Jon SilasJonsyn Friday, December 4, 2009 5:42:52 PM

Just take care of the family and self, and check in when you can

Frizo Sunday, December 6, 2009 9:07:04 PM

Nice writup..

I strongle condem beating women. It is babaric..stif punishment shd await offender..

Sm women say whn their men don't beat them when they go wrong _they think him weak or say he don't luv them.....

Why did u delete dt guys comment..this is a topical issue guess everi bdys coment is important..perhaps hearing frm both sides creats a dialouge which u intend to promote and also makes u objective moderator.
Anytin outside dialouge leads to violence..

Jon SilasJonsyn Sunday, December 6, 2009 9:29:46 PM

Frizo thanks. I had to delete his writeup because he didnt employ decent language, in his criticisms, rather, was critical of personalities instead of the topic.
Your comments are educative. He was abusive and very angry not on the subject, but on the commentators. I had to delete both his response, and some from the commentators.
To have a fair opinion, you can read some of his mails in my shout box.
As much as f.o.e. is the norm, decent language should be the essence in communications.
Thank you.

Frizo Monday, December 7, 2009 12:53:12 AM

Too bad i neva got to read his coment most esp on the the Topic...
Hw to u explain to a woman dt bein beat up by her husband whn she goes wrong or ova an argumnt/qurel is not a sign of love or strenght in d man as she thinks..

Jeaninethesugaplum Monday, December 7, 2009 6:20:20 AM

Hi guys, trust ya'll are well? So good to see the conversation continuing. What i think governments need to focus on is funding more awareness campaigns and victim empowerment programmes.

Jon SilasJonsyn Monday, December 7, 2009 7:06:33 AM

Gdmorning Jean.
So nice you checked in. Velkom!

Frizo Monday, December 7, 2009 9:08:28 AM

I suscrip to ur ideal abt awarens n empowerin d victms thesugaplum...
jst imagine wht d fight against AIDS wud achieve witout awarens
when it comes to empowerin women the questiont dt comes to mind wht right aproach wil an abused woman take...?

Jeaninethesugaplum Monday, December 7, 2009 9:51:11 PM

Mmm...i think what empowerment programmes should first focus on is the womans self image-to restore what was destroyed. Once a woman has regained her self confidence she could take control of her situation becoming less dependant on the abusive man. For me the most important place to start is one's perception of one's self.

Hey Jon, hope you are well? I see you practising your afrikaans? Lol! up

Jon SilasJonsyn Tuesday, December 8, 2009 7:11:28 AM

Jean...Jean, thanks for that. Been trying to learn all i can thro Wiki.
Checked out the blog yet?.
Jean thanks...bigsmile

Frizo Tuesday, December 8, 2009 8:18:04 AM

To buttres dis msg am am goin to update ma status wit dis topic...

Jon SilasJonsyn Tuesday, December 8, 2009 8:29:25 AM

Thanks Frizo. Lets spread. You will be first to know about pt 3. Soon.,lol

Frizo Tuesday, December 8, 2009 3:15:23 PM

Luv ur pt 3 to throw more light on d way forward. I believe there is HOPE up

Jon SilasJonsyn Friday, December 11, 2009 3:37:38 PM

Hie Frizo, read Women Beater pt 3 yet?
Boy...awaiting your comments.

Dark FurieFurie Monday, December 28, 2009 3:56:57 AM

You can't currently block someone from your shoutbox. The best solution is to turn it off, and rely on your comments for people to communicate with you.

Interesting posts by the way. I've dealt with more than a few victims and propagators of abuse so I'd like to add my own point of view here but my mind is already half in dreamland. I'll be sure to come back and comment when I'm not on the way to bed.

Jon SilasJonsyn Monday, December 28, 2009 6:56:38 AM

Thanks Darkfury. You might help with how to turn off the shoutbox.
Have a wonderful day

Dark FurieFurie Monday, December 28, 2009 11:36:44 AM

No problem, though it depends if you're a mobile user or PC user?

PC - At the bottom of your sidebar is a button marked Edit Sidebar. Click that and you'll be taken to a new screen full of lists. From that screen you can change which menu items are available and which sidebar items are shown. Tick the ones you want, untick the ones you don't, and save the changes. You may need to reload your page before you see the changes.

Mobile - This is pretty much the same as the PC way to do it, except you have to click Account followed by Page Configuration to be able to set it up.

Jon SilasJonsyn Monday, December 28, 2009 12:02:14 PM

Thanks

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