My OperaFor it's own sake
Sunday, February 5, 2006 11:47:09 AM
Another one of my former classmates in college got married. There was a nice wedding picture on Chinaren. We all see the beautiful smile in it.
On the very day i created such a blog i had been thinking of the possibility that i might write the blog for its own sake. That means i should write sth in it every day so that it does have sth in it.
Sometimes we do things for its own sake. We socialize with each other, not necessarily for friendship, but simply for being with someone. We even get married for its own sake. We might not be in love with anyone, but for the sake that we can no longer be single, we find some 'suitable' person and get married. They do it for 'marriage's sake.
Unfortunately, i fall into the group in which people get married at a very late age. Like many others, i am being talked about by my parents, sisters, friends and maybe by someone who is unrelated to me at all. I was said to be particular about others and too critical. Maybe some would say that i just think too highly of myself. All this comes from the thought that at the age of 26, i should get married, or at least I should have got a BF. It made me think that i am a member of the somewhat 'marginalized' group. Unlike many of my friends, i failed to escape the embarrassment created by the fact that i remain single at the age of 26.
But in any sense, i should face the reality. I told myself that I should not get married for its own sake. I was very hesitating to engage myself in a relationship. Such a relationship looks too mysterious and incredibly complicated to me, at least for the time being.
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On the very day i created such a blog i had been thinking of the possibility that i might write the blog for its own sake. That means i should write sth in it every day so that it does have sth in it.
Sometimes we do things for its own sake. We socialize with each other, not necessarily for friendship, but simply for being with someone. We even get married for its own sake. We might not be in love with anyone, but for the sake that we can no longer be single, we find some 'suitable' person and get married. They do it for 'marriage's sake.
Unfortunately, i fall into the group in which people get married at a very late age. Like many others, i am being talked about by my parents, sisters, friends and maybe by someone who is unrelated to me at all. I was said to be particular about others and too critical. Maybe some would say that i just think too highly of myself. All this comes from the thought that at the age of 26, i should get married, or at least I should have got a BF. It made me think that i am a member of the somewhat 'marginalized' group. Unlike many of my friends, i failed to escape the embarrassment created by the fact that i remain single at the age of 26.
But in any sense, i should face the reality. I told myself that I should not get married for its own sake. I was very hesitating to engage myself in a relationship. Such a relationship looks too mysterious and incredibly complicated to me, at least for the time being.
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