I LOVE YOU NOW WHAT?

I Love You. Now What?: Falling in Love is a Mystery, Keeping It Isn't

No other human activity is initiated with such powerful hopes and expectations as an amorous relationship. This is true even for those who have failed or encountered obstacles in the past with other relationships. At the start of a new relationship, the enthusiasm of gambling on love is renewed always. And, unlike most of life’s activities, falling in love is not something we can plan ahead of time. It just happens.
It also happens, sometimes, without us realizing it. For example, we may find ourselves involved in a relationship and ask ourselves, “How did I get to this point?” Then we realize that the words “I love you” have escaped our hearts, our lips. It is at this point that our mind asks, “What now?”
As long as we are willing to admit it, every human being in some way goes through this at some point in life. It’s that marvelous aspect of love and relationships that cannot be controlled like other activities that develop normally in our lives. And this is how all of these questions arise after we hear ourselves affirm “I love you.”
Mabel Iam
"Among the many answers I have found, I believe love is the most beautiful and simple art that reflects the beauty of life." Mabel Iam

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by Mabel Iam
Often we enter into a relationship and say “I love you,” and then we ask ourselves, “Now what?” Feeling love for someone is not enough.

We have to construct the relationship and this is the most difficult and complicated thing to do in life. There are no schools that teach this. Nobody has ever taught us how to relate to ourselves or to other people.

A romantic relationship is a continuous exchange of emotions, ideas, opinions, wills, beliefs, actions, reactions, vibrations, thoughts and objectives between two people.

The foundation for happiness is set when this exchange is positive and balanced. Through it, love can be rediscovered and shared by way of trust, understanding, gentleness, union and acceptance. But before we can enjoy its benefits, we must learn how this process is carried out, after we say the words “I love you.”


This process is learned, like any art. In fact, it is an act or maturity if you desire to learn to efficiently and consciously solidify a relationship. This process, when carried out by the couple, is marvelous and very gratifying on the material, emotional, mental and spiritual levels, and benefits all human beings.
Mabel Iam

"Love is the sweetest nectar that nourishes the gods, humans, plants, animals and even rocks. The entire Universe
was created by LOVE."

Mabel Iam

Someone loves you for what you are, adores the way you make them feel, and is affected by everything you do, think or feel.
Someone is pleased to have you as a friend, lover and partner.
Someone has stayed up all night…thinking about you and hoping that you’ll understand him or her.
Someone misses your help and wants to find you so as to get to know you better.
Someone has confidence in you, knows what you’re worth, needs your love and your support. THAT SOMEONE IS YOU.
by Mabel Iam
I LOVE YOU. NOW WHAT?

Introduction: I love you: Now what?

Love is beyond reason. Love is not measurable in words.
Love cannot be partial; it cannot have owners. Love is essentially beyond definition or concept.
We have spent days, years and centuries seeking the keys to open our own locks, the doors that we have used to shut out our own happiness. And we don’t realize that the only thing we have to do is open our hearts to LOVE.
by Mabel Iam

One day we meet. Both of us feel an attraction, we kiss, we love each other. In due time a more committed relationship emerges, we “fall in love,” but… What happens after that?
At the beginning of the relationship we are infatuated, fascinated, and it is often difficult for us to keep our attention focused on our work or any other pastime; we think about him or her all day long. Although infatuation occurs in each of us for very different and specific reasons, all human beings vibrate similarly with similar feelings, or when we approach that one person, that fascinating being that captivates us thanks to a list of characteristics that we like and are attracted to: their mannerisms or behavior, the way they move, their beauty, intelligence, or whatever it is. In fact, sometimes we cannot even find a single objective reason to justify our feelings.

True sexual power lies in the mind; so if someone eats something believed to possess aphrodisiacal qualities with the conviction that it will improve their sexual functioning, they will get the desired results.
Love, the imagination, and desire can be more highly stimulating than any food. Still, there are some foods that do have aphrodisiacal properties, because they stimulate the body and mind.