I LOVE YOU NOW WHAT?

by Mabel Iam
Often we enter into a relationship and say “I love you,” and then we ask ourselves, “Now what?” Feeling love for someone is not enough.

We have to construct the relationship and this is the most difficult and complicated thing to do in life. There are no schools that teach this. Nobody has ever taught us how to relate to ourselves or to other people.

A romantic relationship is a continuous exchange of emotions, ideas, opinions, wills, beliefs, actions, reactions, vibrations, thoughts and objectives between two people.

The foundation for happiness is set when this exchange is positive and balanced. Through it, love can be rediscovered and shared by way of trust, understanding, gentleness, union and acceptance. But before we can enjoy its benefits, we must learn how this process is carried out, after we say the words “I love you.”


This process is learned, like any art. In fact, it is an act or maturity if you desire to learn to efficiently and consciously solidify a relationship. This process, when carried out by the couple, is marvelous and very gratifying on the material, emotional, mental and spiritual levels, and benefits all human beings.
Mabel Iam

"Love is the sweetest nectar that nourishes the gods, humans, plants, animals and even rocks. The entire Universe
was created by LOVE."

Mabel Iam