Dancing in the rain
Thursday, 25. September 2008, 12:21:31
I got this e-mail earlier today, and I liked it!
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?". He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is...".
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life". True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
With all the jokes and fun that is in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought I could share with you.
The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
I hope you share this with someone you care about.
"Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!"
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Thanks to the person who sent it to me. You know who you are, but you probably don't read my blog...
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?". He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is...".
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life". True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
With all the jokes and fun that is in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought I could share with you.
The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
I hope you share this with someone you care about.
"Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!"
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Thanks to the person who sent it to me. You know who you are, but you probably don't read my blog...
WIDGETIZE
yehezkelshb # 25. September 2008, 14:37
If you like this type of stories, maybe you will want to read (if you didn't read it always) a book that is full of stories like that one. In Hebrew it's called "Chicken soup for the soul" (but you can read it safetly even if you are a vegetarian), I'm not sure if this is the original English book.
ManneS # 25. September 2008, 14:40
hallvors # 31. October 2008, 09:04
Very nice story and quote though. Alzheimer is a frightening disease and the patients need a lot of support - so do the poor people supporting them. Thank you for posting!
53north # 18. December 2008, 16:59
"Don't you know who I am?" he asked, trying to put her at ease.
"No. But matron will tell you if you ask her nicely.." came the reply.