About patient undivided individual attention
Tuesday, July 29, 2008 9:27:07 PM
Your will to listen, is the subtle testimony that you leave in the subconscious layers of her mind.
You don’t have to say much – you just have to ask questions that she’d love to answer.
You’re not a listening rock – you’re a listening lake: your whole body is responding, by syncing your nonverbal reactions, to the statements of your counterpart.
You’re saying everything, without saying things vocally.
She can feel that you love to listen - that’s why you'd always get your point across when your time has come.
You’d never give unwanted advice/indirect criticism or direct criticism.
Instead: would you leave ideas in the mind of your counterpart by phrasing them as indirect questions?
Incomparable – you don't seem interested in yourself, your ideas and your interests.
Are you interested in people?
You don’t have to say much – you just have to ask questions that she’d love to answer.
You’re not a listening rock – you’re a listening lake: your whole body is responding, by syncing your nonverbal reactions, to the statements of your counterpart.
You’re saying everything, without saying things vocally.
She can feel that you love to listen - that’s why you'd always get your point across when your time has come.
You’d never give unwanted advice/indirect criticism or direct criticism.
Instead: would you leave ideas in the mind of your counterpart by phrasing them as indirect questions?
Incomparable – you don't seem interested in yourself, your ideas and your interests.
Are you interested in people?





