The Little Things In Life: Life is too short.

Forgive & Forget.

It's natural to hold onto anger when you feel an act has cost you a lot. But if you dwell on anger, you're operating from the position of a victim. Remind yourself of all you have -- you're not powerless and you can absorb an occasional bad turn.

We all have a need to forgive, just as we may need to feel hurt or angry at times. True forgiveness isn't easy, but it transforms us significantly. To forgive is to love and to feel worthy of love. It makes us a have in the realm of love. In that sense, it is always worthwhile.



I went to my friends house tonight at 7.30. To pick her up as arranged. We were going out. I tooted horn, no response. I went to her door and knocked it, still no response. My other friend who I was on the phone to at the time, prompted me to try the door, it was open. I went in and called her name. No response downstairs, so I went upstairs. I could hear water running. I checked both bedrooms, she was not there. I found my friend lying in her shower cubicle. I called an ambulance,and tried all the first aid I knew. My friend has had a brain haemorrhage, she is in hospital, and she has had the last rights. I am awake on opera because I am waiting on any news at all from her family. I feel so angry and sad, she is 56 years old, she is about to become a grandmother for the first time, she has so much much to live for and is such a happy person. I pray for Catherine.

We shall find peace. We shall hear angels,
we shall see the sky sparkling with diamonds

Memo - No Cursing At Work1970`s

Comments

Mrs. HermitessHermitess Thursday, October 29, 2009 5:39:20 AM

Oh Moira! I will pray for your friend and you as well. I cannot imagine how heart wrenching it would be to find a friend fallen to illness in such a way. Please update when you know something.

((( BIG BIG Hugs )))

The roses are really pretty.

moiraMoirahall Thursday, October 29, 2009 7:07:52 AM

RIP Catherine.

Catherine sadly passed away at 4.30am this morning. I just wish I could have done more to help her.
One special lady xxx

moiraMoirahall Thursday, October 29, 2009 7:09:56 AM

Thank you Linsay xxx

Mrs. HermitessHermitess Thursday, October 29, 2009 2:01:38 PM

I'm saddened to hear this Moira. sad

I will share my hugs with you (I've also had a death).
Plus add some more!
(((((( LOTS of BIG hugs )))))))))

moiraMoirahall Thursday, October 29, 2009 4:36:08 PM

I needed those big hugs, thank you Linsay. Sorry to hear you have had a death also. Life is cruel xxx

moiraMoirahall Thursday, October 29, 2009 4:59:58 PM



Catherine Hogan x rip gone but never forgotten

moiraMoirahall Thursday, October 29, 2009 6:32:06 PM

That is very true Lunta and thank you so much.

Colin KillpatrickColinKillpatrick Thursday, October 29, 2009 9:26:30 PM

I'm sorry for your loss, and the loss to those who your friend touched.

HenrySpicyFlier Thursday, October 29, 2009 9:39:28 PM

Hello Moira,
Like everyone else here, I'm also sorry you lost a good friend. You did what you could. The shock will be with you for a while. There could be more sleepless nights to come. Since we are in different time zones, that can be a blessing, so feel free to drop a line via the Inbox.
Hugs,
Henry

moiraMoirahall Thursday, October 29, 2009 11:00:29 PM

Thank you everyone. I have just spent the night with her son, he is 27 the same age as my own son. My heart goes out to him. He has a lot of arrangements to do and he is hurting so much.


Hugs back to all of you, and all your kind words help x

DHdarkesthour Sunday, November 1, 2009 3:33:15 AM

Sorry for your loss...

moiraMoirahall Sunday, November 1, 2009 12:50:00 PM

Thank you, the funeral is Wednesday at 10am - sad times.

DHdarkesthour Monday, November 2, 2009 3:05:22 AM

They always are... awww

Maduratna Monday, November 2, 2009 4:32:41 AM

Words, however kind,
can't mend your heartache: ,
but those who care and ,
share your loss wish you,
comfort and peace of mind.,
May you find strength,
in the love of family,
and in the warm embrace,
of friends.

Deepest Sympathy

moiraMoirahall Monday, November 2, 2009 9:25:07 AM

heart thank you

NEVER

Never take someone for granted. Hold every person close to your heart, because you may wake up one day and realize that you've lost a diamond, while you were too busy collecting stones....Never forget the ones that care for you and love you the most.heart

Maduratna Tuesday, November 3, 2009 1:25:26 AM

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thank you my dear...

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