The good lyf

.....as human beings we tend to build barriers around ourselves to protect us from the thngs we fear the most(or thnk we fear).Often ths kind of fear is nt the sme as bn scard of lightng,storms,or simply bng scard of dogs(jst lyk me).OHh! Ts much greater thn tht in a fact tht ts has a lot to do with a person's mentality ,their phychology,which often contributes to how they view life as.


Sme ppl see t as a fairytale, whr gal meets boy and ts lov at first sight.bt we al kno tht fairytales dnt exist in the real world.


To sme life's jst an uphill battle tht u cnt seem to get the climb off.whr al ur efforts turn to b in vain.


no matter hw ur perspective of life is,they's one thng tht evry1 hs in cmon wth evrybdy and tht is "LOVE"


As ppl we al wnt to love and be loved in return.so the question is....


"HOW DO YOU LOVE WTH ALL YOUR HEART?"


without the fear of wakin up in the mrning only to realise tht they r gone?


Hw do u love uncoditionally without any reservations and wthout the fear of thm nt lovin u the same way as u do?


Do u compromise,only to knw tht u'l always b the other gal or guy.or do u simply let go?


Hw do u love whn al u'v known is the pain and tears tht come along wth t?


Do u covince urself tht smehow ths time ts gona be different,coz u nw hve the experience,u more wiser and older thn the lst tym?


Hw do u lov whn al u'v knwn is tht u'l neva b "perfect" or good enough to deserve tht persn.unless u change certain thngs abt urself?


Do u live evry thng behind,jst fo the fear tht u might lose 'em,or u accept urself as u r coz GOD made u "Perfect" the way u r?


Lastly:


How do u love with all ur heart when u knw tht u'v built barriers around t.


Jst bcouse of the fear of bng alone,do u smehow destroy them and go on a limp by takin a chance at lov?


Or do u stay lonely tht way u cnt eva experience heart break,or hw ts like to b tld tht u'r nt good enough,or hw t feels to cry urself to sleep only to wake up alone coz u'v lost the one person u hve eva loved whole heartedly and unconditional ly without any resevations?


Do u let ur fears take ova ur life?or maybe u take tht chance.either way u choose there will always be there ts human nature.


So yeah! Ts up to u as an individual wht u wnt to be lyk


"Coz we all hve our fears tht is whn we come face to face wth thm so tht the'll no longer be our fear" smebody reminded me abt ths,thus i wrote ths piece or whteva t is.

x thank u x
<Nelly>

ths is jst crap