May He Rest In Peace...Finally.

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It was seven years ago today that I learned of the death of Layne Staley. Layne was the singer for the band Alice In Chains. His voice was like no other voice I'd heard prior or since. We're all one of a kind, but he was truly unique.

Here is the television announcement of Layne's death.
I uploaded it to YouTube:

Phonies: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bM6dJicSIK0

For those of you who never really got into Alice in Chains or knew much of anything about Layne Staley, here's some info…
Layne Thomas Staley was born on August 22, 1967 in Kirkland, Washington. His parents divorced when he was seven years old. Shortly before his death in 2002, he described the divorce of his parents in this way:
"My world became a nightmare, there were just shadows around me. I got a call saying that my dad had died, but my family always knew he was around doing all kind of drugs. Since that call I always was wondering, 'Where is my dad?' I felt so sad for him and I missed him. He dropped out of my life for 15 years."

In that same interview he also said that he was convinced that if he became a celebrity his dad would return. So, so sad. sad

Well, Layne started playing drums around the age of 12…and believe it or not, he actually played in a couple of Glam bands. lol I can't even imagine that, but okay. Everyone has flaws! Anyway, what Layne really wanted was to become a singer. His band mates would poke fun of him and whatnot about it, but that didn’t stop him from chasing his dream. He got pissed off, traded in his drum set for a microphone, and started the band Alice In Chains with co-founder Jerry Cantrell.

That's how Alice In Chains started. I'm sure his ex-band mates were kicking themselves in the ass when they saw how successful Layne was getting. Good! Those bastards made fun of him, so they had it coming.

Alice in Chains made many albums…all of which completely rule. I loved their style…and mostly I adored Layne's voice. He had one Hell of a voice…nobody could ever even come close to his talent in my opinion. o

Okay, well….now to the depressing and downright heart wrenching part. Layne's death. sad I will quote Wikipedia for this part.
On April 19, 2002, an unidentified person placed a call with 911 to say "She hadn't heard from…Staley in about two weeks." Staley was found dead in his home after, "his mother and stepfather went to his condo with the police." As reported by Rick Anderson of the Seattle Weekly, his body was surrounded by various drug possessions and paraphernalia: "When police kicked in the door to Layne Staley's University District apartment on April 20, there, on a couch, lit by a flickering TV, next to several spray-paint cans on the floor, not far from a small stash of cocaine, near two crack pipes on the coffee table, reposed the remains of the rock musician." The article also stated that the 6'1" Staley weighed just 86 pounds when his body was discovered. The autopsy report later concluded that Staley died after injecting a mixture of heroin and cocaine known as a "speedball". The King County Coroner's Office estimated Staley to have died on April 5, 2002, exactly 8 years after fellow grunge musician Kurt Cobain also died (Cobain was found three days later, on April 8). Staley's body was not discovered until two weeks later.

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As it states, the estimated day of death is April 5th…today, seven years ago. The fact that two whole weeks had gone by without anyone really noticing that he wasn't around absolutely breaks my heart. cry He was so deep into his disease of drug addiction, that he'd no doubt pushed everyone who cared about him away. I HATE drugs! They completely rip a person's soul right out of 'em. sad

Something good has come from Layne's death. In 2002, Staley's mother, Nancy McCallum, and Jamie Richards, a drug and alcohol counselor, formed the Layne Staley Fund, a non-profit organization that raises money for drug treatment and works with the Seattle music community. It holds a yearly tribute in August, on or around Staley's birthday. up

Here is a video which is dedicated to Layne Staley.
For those of you who don't know, yes…that is him singing….

Phonies: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gbWoiDhxJsk

This is what the poem says at the end of the video:
Our angry little angel has said good-bye,
He wanted so badly to fly,
Did what he needed just to get by...
So much pain held inside,
All his fears made him hide,
No longer have his wings been denied...
His sweet and haunted voice touched us all,
Yet through this sad time we must stand tall,
Finally his mind is at ease,
We love you, Layne; rest in peace. rip


There are very few of you who understand why the anniversary of Layne Staley's death means as much to me as it does. Conor, I can't thank you enough for continuing to ask me if I'm okay as this day came closer and closer. Now that it's here, I can say that I'm doing alright. Not great, but could be worse. There will be much crying and sadness today…but I have tomorrow to look forward to. smile

For those of you who don't know why this day is so important to me, I'm sorry. I'm not purposely excluding you…it's just a very personal matter. Either way, Layne Staley is gone and the world is missing out on one of the most talented and heartfelt artists to step foot on the planet. May he rest in peace…finally. love

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Comments

H82typ Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:06:21 PM

*hug* Yeah, most of my icons are gone... *sigh* *hug*

KarenNerak Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:07:30 PM

:hug back at'cha: Death blows ass. down

MConor Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:19:27 PM

smile It's good to hear there your not so bad smile All the greats go.... sad

KarenNerak Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:25:02 PM

We all go. wink

Thanks, Conor. :hugs from your Mommy: hehe

MConor Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:27:15 PM

:hugs: Right back at ya bigsmile

KarenNerak Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:29:08 PM

w00t! Sunday hugs pwn! yes

MConor Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:36:40 PM

They do? lol I neevr noticed the difference lol

KarenNerak Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:37:49 PM

I haven't, either. left I just had to think of something moronic to say...it's my thing. It's what I do. right

MConor Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:40:36 PM

Oh yeah yes

H82typ Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:41:04 PM

bomb I ain't goin' no-muthaphucinwhere,goddammit! *hmmph!*
*hug*

KarenNerak Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:42:38 PM

Yay! :hugs: I have you in a bear hug, Dennis. Even if you wanted to leave, you couldn't. I'll get you one of those beer dispensing hats, but fill it with coffee instead.

If you pee on my foot, I will knee you in the nads, so don't get any wise ideas.

MConor Sunday, April 5, 2009 12:43:46 PM

lol

H82typ Sunday, April 5, 2009 1:36:54 PM

happy bigsmile

EDIT: You get me that hat, I'll have a catheter installed! That way, the worst that can happen is I pee on my own leg. lol

KarenNerak Sunday, April 5, 2009 2:15:47 PM

lol

Charles SchlossChas4 Sunday, April 5, 2009 2:54:19 PM

I think I rember hearing about this in the news

KarenNerak Sunday, April 5, 2009 3:13:42 PM

Well, it was 7 years ago, so there's no tellin'. Do you like Alice In Chains' music at all?

Charles SchlossChas4 Sunday, April 5, 2009 3:19:45 PM

I think so, I play different genre of music every few days

KarenNerak Sunday, April 5, 2009 3:30:05 PM

Well, today should be an Alice In Chains day just because of what day it is. smile Just a suggestion, of course.


I loves me some Radiohead. I cannot get enough of those guys. They're not even Metal, either! "Paranoid Android" is my favorite song of ALL time. o

MConor Sunday, April 5, 2009 5:16:24 PM

I likes me some unorthodox music bigsmile My Chemical Romance, Panic at the Disco... etc. bigsmile Sounds like wailing to everybody else, but not to me yes

Magnus ThanatosErbsdaword Sunday, April 5, 2009 5:47:33 PM

Yes...this is the day I am bring out the Music Bank....I have been playing it all day. cry rip

L2D2 Sunday, April 5, 2009 7:29:45 PM

Dacotah Sunday, April 5, 2009 8:05:24 PM

rip

Magnus ThanatosErbsdaword Sunday, April 5, 2009 11:48:28 PM

Karen, check this out. He did say he felt like it would Rain When He Died....it did.

http://www.wunderground.com/history/airport/KBFI/2002/4/5/DailyHistory.html?req_city=NA&req_state=NA&req_statename=NA

KarenNerak Monday, April 6, 2009 10:00:24 PM

cry It sure did....I know my face rained when he died...and continued to rain for about a week. And now it rains every year on the same day! cry

JunkheadMan Tuesday, April 14, 2009 8:19:57 PM

I dont understand how 7 years ago on april 5 you heard of Layne's death when his body wasnt found until the 19th. riddle me that batman

H82typ Tuesday, April 14, 2009 9:01:38 PM

Authors licence. whistle

KarenNerak Wednesday, April 15, 2009 9:50:00 PM

Oh, gawd. Gimme a fuckin' break, dude. You knew what I meant. Now be gone.

KarenNerak Wednesday, April 15, 2009 9:51:31 PM

Dennis, I was very emotionally fucked in the head when I wrote this, anyway, so I'm entitled to Author's License on this one. p

As I said - it wasn't just the death of some singer to me...LONG story having to do with my dead ex. The end. bigsmile

H82typ Thursday, April 16, 2009 8:07:01 PM

*hug* smile

KarenNerak Sunday, April 19, 2009 1:07:07 PM

*back at'cha* happy

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