Good night Karen.

Night K ,

I love this post
Me too , I don't have any idea for those request . .

That's why I put some words on my page about , so they don't feel bad about me , if I'm not confirm them . . Gud idea K . .


Hi carol ,
How are you , hope doing fine . .
I'm not here for quite long . . My news couldn't open , so some friends helps me . . and they made it . .
Have a nice night carol

Where is about page?

http://my.opera.com/theclique/blog/2007/12/05/standard-reply

I've got something about friend requests on my Sticky Post, but people who add me never seem to go there (they must find me through the Community blog listings, member lists, or maybe places I've left a comment (be it blog or forum). Maybe I should post the Sticky Post message in a few more places ...

Either way, if they suddenly add me out of the blue, I wait and see if they're at least going to make a comment or two - join in, y'know?

If - after a couple of weeks - they haven't, then I assume they haven't even bothered to read my Sticky Post, let alone the others, and that they're just adding me for the sake of 'increasing their numbers', or something.

Point is, you shouldn't feel guilty. If they haven't contributed to your blog (via comments, chat box, etc), then they're not making the effort to be friends; they're more than likely simply trying to 'pump up their stats' ("Look at me, I have 8,356 friends on My.Opera - I've never spoken to any of 'em, but, by God, they're on my Friend List. I'm important!")

Thing is, if they did contribute, they'd see what makes Opera one of the friendliest communities on the Web.

But they don't, so it's their loss.

I get to the friend thing ever so often 121 right now

3538 at least thats what a birdy told me

Hope you were able to sleep Karen.

Awww, sorry. Hope you get lots then after Sunny goes to school.

I know how that is Special K.
Yep, still have insomnia.
Still in a lot of pain.

Go see the surgeon today and get my staples out.

Good idea about disclaimer, perhaps I should add one like that, too - way too many friend requests...

Thank you Special K.
for you to feel better.

Hey you, get some sleep.

Really, they just admire anyone who has Mario humping the Princess. I think that's your whole popularity foundation.

1Up that.

BTW, Karen, how did you add that header to the blog? It does not look like a sticky post. Is it one of your CSS wizardry tricks?

I currently have only one pending request. .

Originally posted by Nerak:

If you want it, let me know.

In that case, may I please have the code?

Originally posted by Nerak:

But, of course!

thankyouthankyouthankyou!

May I have the code also Special K?

Thank you.

Perhaps you should do a post for it. .

It can be quite annoying when there are so many new memebers that just go around and click on people to be their friends with no reason at all. At least now you have to confirm, earlier they could keep anyone on their friend list.

The standard reply on "The Clique" page that Tamil linked is very good indeed.

I also wanted to add a post about adding friends, but it really doesn't seem to help much, since people don't read these And the sensible ones won't be adding you out of the blue anyway...