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In the name of love...

Thursday, October 27, 2005 9:59:40 AM

... a lot can happen. For exsample, people "in love" easily forget, where is the border of someone's freedom. Out of jealousy people blame each other for their own low self - confidence; they project their own fears and frustrations on beloved person. Even hate or too strong attachment (possession...) can be products of so called love. To love often means to suffer... in case when one is not able to accept the other as he (she) really is. Love is blind. But at the same time love can be a really deep and beautiful feeling: with some respect, compassion, loving kindness, and unselfish attitude...; unfortunately this is often not a case. Many people are just prisoners in what they call paradise. What a pity...
Is this really so?

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Kay FourKayFour # Saturday, October 29, 2005 2:23:58 PM

To be in love is extremely painful when the one you love doesn't love you the same way or as intently. The one I love is somewhere else, doing something else. He is always doing something else. It is one of his endearing qualities.

But, I love him, nonetheless. We will never be a couple again and I will love others (in fact, I do), but real love doesn't go away. It becomes a glowing part inside you that is special. When I think of him now, it always brings a smile to my face and I fervently hope he has found the happiness he is seeking. But he is such a passionate volitile person, that he may never find it... or perhaps he has, already.

K4