Olgita`s modest notes

ух ты нифига рожа!
Большая и желтая! А где российский вариант?

Тебя кто то отшил из Оперы в Фэйсбуке?? Ну бывает чего ты? Я вот тоже стараюсь не путать списки. Фэйсбук у меня только для работы или для связи с реальными людьми для работы опять же. А Опера только для души. Т.е. так как я постоянно пишу что то личное то я бы не хотела переплетать эти миры ни в коем случае. бывают ситуации... А что там даже не обёяснили что к чему?

хм... да не в тебе же дело то очевидно же. Он там сам с собой разобраться не может. Может быть там что то личое. Интрига какая любовная. Может тот кого ты знаешь или друг друга вюбился в кого то и что бы пока не этом этапе не встрял кто то ещё от хочет пока ограничить доступ или другая запутанная хрень! У людей же обычно всякое бывает в голове.


Ну или ты его раздражаешь ем, что никогда ничего плохого не делаешь )))) Эдакая леди совершенство )))) но это вряд ли конечно.

Может просто подождёшь? О! Я чихнула!!!

а почему мой коммент выглядт так буд то позже написан???

Olga ... you should not not be so het up. You have had it so very good. Until now no one has shunned you. I don't think you have anything to complain about if only one person has refused your request for friendship and it so happens they also have an Opera blog. From what I hear about FB, people unfriend others there or refuse friendships all the time. Count yourself fortunate that you already have so many friends. From my own viewpoint I know who my true and sincere and consistent and supportive friends are and that makes the word "friendship" really mean what it says.

Best wishes...

John.

да, это очень неприятно... просто неприятно, когда игнорят те, с кем вроде хорошо общалась. А когда еще такое отрисывают.. сволочь!

Да не парь ты её! Я уже её рассмешила! Расслабьтесь все в бёдрах!

Ну, Ольгита, не растраивайся. Опять таки мы стобой здесь, стоит тебе подумать об том, а стоит ли дружить с ним здесь? Я бы задумался. Но, т.к. он тебе объяснительную написал, то реши, как с ним поступить.
"казнить нельзя помиловать" и поставь запятую, там где хочет твое сердце. В конце концов, не ФБ и Оперой мир живет. Много другого хорошего происходит. Т.ч. давай не вешай нос и радуй нас большим присутствием здесь . А не где-то там в ФБ.
Я вот держу во врендах, тех кто закрыл от меня доступ к своим страничкам, незнаю зачем, все никак не решу, как поступить с ними. И так немного... :/

Olga! Thank you!

Originally posted by Olgita:

Видимо я лицом не вышла!

да, видимо

Just edit that person from your "Friends" list, here. Obviously they no linger wish to continue the relationship.
Then block them.

Originally posted by Olgita:

great news John... why I cannot accept your blog?....

Thanks Olga, Try it again please..You should be able to get in now Olga.

Originally posted by Olgita:

Видимо я лицом не вышла

ага, слишком популярная http://files.myopera.com/Tamil/Smilies/LOL2.gif -
тебе пора оскара вручить, за вклад в продвижение Оперы

лично я ничего не поняла
но мне ясно одно -теперь я ревную Олю к какому-то ФБ

Originally posted by Olgita:

но я же видела в друзьях моих же хороших подруг здесь!

Originally posted by Angolier:

тех кто закрыл от меня доступ к своим страничкам,

пойду гляну на список своих друзей!

Yes, thank you, Olga ... or at least it seems to have been better than yours. I'd gladly give you some of mine ... you've always been a ray of sunshine, in my eyes, anyway.

Hi Olga, I agree with

Originally posted by derWandersmann:

Just edit that person from your "Friends" list, here. Obviously they no longer wish to continue the relationship.Then block them.

. You and your family are wonderful friends, and it is not you, it is the other person's problem. Please do not take their problem on yourself. Often, it takes time for people to reveal their true selves, as initially everyone is on their best behavior, but in time, invariably the true self comes through and can be an unpleasant surprise. Many of us that have been on the social network circuit have experienced these unpleasant surprises occasionally. I had such an experience earlier this year and I did what der Wandersmann recommended, deleted them and blocked them. Actually, several of us came to the same conclusion and did it collectively. The individual's behavior became overbearing and they lied to those attempting to help them, so it was better to just end it.

Yes I've experienced de-friending people online and offline. Sometimes you can only get burned so many times. If the person doesn't want to then there is something wrong with them, you are wonderful

Not everyone is compatible with everyone else, but the nice thing, there are plenty of people in the world that are

Someone does not seem to appreciate that you choose your friends carefully and they should be very pleased that you asked them to be your friend on another site. I certainly was happy when you accepted my Friend request.

I understand you feelings Olga, I've been de-friend from people on here with out knowing why. Sometimes there is a glitch but these were not the glitches. I was really sad because I didn't get no reason as to why. sighs.
I hope you realize how special and wonderful you are and try not to let it upset you so. You have a lot of friends that love and care about you.
Hugs

I'm not able to get to John's blog either.

Maybe they just haven't been to their facebook page for a while and haven't yet seen your friend request yet? If they have said no then it is them who is missing out on sharing all your happy posts and statuses. Their loss not yours!

Кстати загляни ко мне на страничку, может немного развеселишься )) Последний пост

You've always been a wonderful friend. It's not good for you to value someone who doesn't value you. Just ignore such people and get on with your life. Always best wishes from me to you.

Вот мне странно почему все говорят "игнорируй, игнорируй". Разве это подобает друзьям так скоро отказываться друг от друга по непонятным причинам?? Тогда разве друзья для того и существуют что бы понимать человека с которым дружишь?? Тогда действительно не будет никаких причин дружить если из-за такой мелочи всё пойдёт на смарку!! Ну не добавил, но объяснил же? У всех кто в сети есть всё же и другая жизнь и в ней могут быть разные обстоятельства, которые сразу то и не объяснишь!

Мне кажется надо подождать, всё наладится и станет яснее...

Originally posted by Dacotah:

I'm not able to get to John's blog either.

Hi! ...Haven't seen ya for ages, Carol... Please try again.. ... nice to see ya here.

Originally posted by spiritcrow:

Not everyone is compatible with everyone else, but the nice thing, there are plenty of people in the world that are

Spot on!

..perhaps there's a simpler explanation about this Opera friend who seemingly has refused to be a friend on FB?... the problem with all of these situations, it sometimes seems, is that in the absence of an explanation they escalate and become very complex, or at the least very attenuated. And then the whole thing develops into a scenario of dismay and confusion... that sounds the 'norm' for some aspects of FB (so I've heard) ..anyways, let's all keep an open mind on this as best as we can.
Olga, I hope your unhappiness will be dispelled. You clearly have lots of friends in Opera and all of the collective happiness, by definition, outweighs the single instance of unhappiness. Best wishes always!!

Hi John, I'm sorry you haven't seen me in ages, I haven't seen you in ages either. Sorry I haven't been around much to all my friends, my watch list is long and I just haven't been able to be on here much for ages. Trying though.

Hi Carol, me too. We were good friends for many years and I remember all our mutual visists in much happier days. You have gone through very difficult times. I hope things are getting better for you.

A long watch list is usually a sign of many friendships. .. and that's a blessing.

Originally posted by Felin:

станет яснее...

уже так всё ясно ...он знает,что ты знаешь его слишком хорошо,и не хочет,чтоб ты его "разоблачила"
короче,Оля,дыши глубже! весна за окном! ...давненько не видели мы Савушку

Originally posted by RedFreya:

Someone does not seem to appreciate that you choose your friends carefully and they should be very pleased that you asked them to be your friend on another site. I certainly was happy when you accepted my Friend request.

Exactly, and I was happy when Red Freya accepted my Friend Request.

Hi John, I still consider you a friend even though we haven't been to each others blog for awhile.

Sorry Olga, I would of sent John a message but I wasn't able to, no "message" on his about page unless your on his friends list.

I seem to be able to get on his blog ... if you folk would like, I can ask him what is wrong.

Originally posted by Dacotah:

Hi John, I still consider you a friend even though we haven't been to each others blog for awhile

Hi Carol, and I still consider you a friend. The actual definition of friendship has never changed. I always hoped we would never lose our friendship... there have been difficult times and the world moves on... but having and retaining a valued friendship is great gift in itself.

Originally posted by Dacotah:

Sorry Olga, I would of sent John a message but I wasn't able to, no "message" on his about page unless your on his friends list.

Carol, you and Olga should not have any problem in accessing my blog anytime you wish. Historically we all used to visit each other many many times (my archives show this) and we were all part of a very happy circle of extended friendships. There were many laughs and fun and jokes, as I recall. I hadn't heard from either of you for a very long time (for which I share responsibility) and I had to assume I had been dropped from the circle. I'm glad to see you and glad to see Olga again.

The activity on Opera Community, among this group of friends has been very little; until lately, the comments and postings are beginning to pick up again in the past few weeks. Facebook is partly responsible for that I believe, as many of my 50 some friends are there as well. There were weeks that only Tyler Parker Young, Jean Dony and I were the only ones of this circle of friends out here. Glad to see my friends coming back, because I like Opera, the Community and I have used their browser from the beginning - Internet Navigation and services (Email etc..) all in one place, rather than unbundled into many applications.

I think that people on FB share more personal informations than people here on MyO. Maybe that person doesn't feel ready yet to share more with you especially if you don't know each other personal. This is my opinion, I wouldn't feel angry or something.

Thank you John. I sent you a message.

Thank you Carol
I'll message reply you tomorrow...
...it's late on this side of the pond now and I must get some sleep

Olga you should better get used to two truths:
- people pretend and lie all the time in "real life".
- people pretend and lie even more on the Internet.
People who are trustworthy and consistent are so rare that I am thinking they must be abnormal. The Internet does not make people better than what they are, the contrary, at best they stay the same, sometimes they get even worse due to the relatively anonymity.

Speaking of being "fair", it is a vague and relative concept. You see since most people pretend and lie all the time and they are not consistent and not trustworthy, being "fair" means only "when something pleases me, it is fair, when something does not please me, it is not fair".

Speaking of "friends", the more "friends" you have the less the word "friend" has a meaning. It is just a matter of numbers, real friends are like diamonds hidden in a mountain of crap. Without inspecting the crap you can only collect an huge list of "fake friends". On Facebook you can even buy friends, go figure. On Myopera you seem to have 116 "friends". This is obviously a nonsense, there is no way all those 116 people are your "friends".

I have cleared my "friend list". It is completely useless because everybody can access my blog and comment over there, everybody can "subscribe" the blog and being updated about it. I had a few "friends", some are not active on MyOpera any more, some don't seem interested in what I write, some are people I don't want to be associated with. Elsewhere I just have a "blogroll" where I list blogs that I follow because they are somehow interesting. It doesn't mean I am one of the blog owner's friends.

Of course it depends on the meaning you give to the word "friends". If every human being is your "friend", than you can have 6 billion "friends".

I suspect ur a bit like me Olga . You know what's great about the internet and what it is for (not only communicating with those you know "in the flesh" but broadening your horizons). You tend to accept friend requests on trust and make them readily. Some peeps are very private though and may have reason. Again some are just a bit cynical.. you just have to get used to it gorgeous. Anyway.. it's more their loss for refusing someone as fabulous, amazing and sweet as you.