Email Update from Suzy
Monday, 15. June 2009, 16:37:09
Just received this email from her this morning:
Hello! I just wanted to send a quick email and let everyone know that my trip to Mombasa was amazing. I am so glad I was able to extend my trip to see another part of Kenya. I just took a bus there and back which took about 8 hours (ugh!) compared to the 45min flight, but was only about 13USD vs 160USD each way! So, I managed just fine and made it back {****} early this morning. While in Mombasa, I met some great new people and now have friends to visit in Scotland, Canada, and Australia!! I also got to volunteer at a medical camp which was pretty interesting and extremely rewarding... and I have to admit relaxing on the beaches was a perfect ending. I needed it! ...minus the abundance of mosquito's! However I also have to confess that I did witness old white men and women promoting prostitution with the locals out at the bars and clubs. I have never seen anything so disgusting in my life. I had read about it, but it's different when you see it. It is sad how people will take advantage of another culture just because they have money [to do so]. But despite all the negative things I have witnessed or experienced here (or anywhere), the positive experiences always outweigh the bad! And I really have met more amazing people and learned more about different cultures in the last five weeks than I ever could've imagined. It is refreshing to know that there are far more good people in the world than there are bad!!!
Anywho, in case you didn't know, I am flying home tonight! I depart ******* just after 10pm, have a 5 hour layover in Amsterdam, and then will land in Chicago just before noon on Tuesday! I can't believe my time here is already over. It really has gone by so fast. I feel like I could've stayed even longer! It was especially hard to leave the special needs school in Nyeri. They were all praying for me and telling me not to go. Several of the children were crying and throwing themselves to the ground! A little dramatic, but I was so touched and so sad to see how they all were aware that I was leaving, especially those with very limited cognitive ability and/or verbal capacity. The children and the teachers also had a little ceremony for me. I was shocked when they presented me with gifts considering the little money they have and I was so touched when they gave me the Kikuyu name, Nyakio, which means hardworking or dedicated lady. I can't wait to show everyone the hand made jewerly, purse, shoes, and certificate they made for me!! They are beautiful. It was also pretty amazing to see the look on their faces when the boxes Kathy sent arrived. As complicated and expensive as it was, there's no price tag large enough to to see the look on their faces. They were so grateful for all of the materials and school supplies. I can't tell you how much it will help. So, thank you Kathy, and a big thank you to everyone who donated supplies and/or money. I will be sending pictures and developing the website soon so you can see where your money went. You definitely won't regret it!!!
Ah, but as much as I could stay here for the rest of the summer, I miss everyone so much and I am running out of money!! Plus, I do miss the luxury of living in America. I think I am most looking forward hot showers with water pressure, high speed internet, my own bed, using a washer and dryer, always having running water, and Chicago style pizza!! I swear I may never be able to eat rice and beans again! Or beef!! Haha! But most importantly, I can't wait to see everyone and be able to communicate on a more regular basis for those of you are further away. I can't thank everyone enough for the phone calls, emails, texts, etc. It really meant a lot to me to hear from you and to have all of your support. I would recommend volunteering through this program to anyone. I have a feeling it will be the most amazing traveling experience of my life.
Love you all so much! Will let you know when I arrive into Chicago safely.
Much love,
Suzy
Suzy and I on the beach in San Diego when she was three. 1985 perhaps.
I know I changed the photo because she and I were almost in silhouette.
Would not be able to duplicate it because I've forgotten how I did it!
I may very well do a painting of this.
Hello! I just wanted to send a quick email and let everyone know that my trip to Mombasa was amazing. I am so glad I was able to extend my trip to see another part of Kenya. I just took a bus there and back which took about 8 hours (ugh!) compared to the 45min flight, but was only about 13USD vs 160USD each way! So, I managed just fine and made it back {****} early this morning. While in Mombasa, I met some great new people and now have friends to visit in Scotland, Canada, and Australia!! I also got to volunteer at a medical camp which was pretty interesting and extremely rewarding... and I have to admit relaxing on the beaches was a perfect ending. I needed it! ...minus the abundance of mosquito's! However I also have to confess that I did witness old white men and women promoting prostitution with the locals out at the bars and clubs. I have never seen anything so disgusting in my life. I had read about it, but it's different when you see it. It is sad how people will take advantage of another culture just because they have money [to do so]. But despite all the negative things I have witnessed or experienced here (or anywhere), the positive experiences always outweigh the bad! And I really have met more amazing people and learned more about different cultures in the last five weeks than I ever could've imagined. It is refreshing to know that there are far more good people in the world than there are bad!!!
Anywho, in case you didn't know, I am flying home tonight! I depart ******* just after 10pm, have a 5 hour layover in Amsterdam, and then will land in Chicago just before noon on Tuesday! I can't believe my time here is already over. It really has gone by so fast. I feel like I could've stayed even longer! It was especially hard to leave the special needs school in Nyeri. They were all praying for me and telling me not to go. Several of the children were crying and throwing themselves to the ground! A little dramatic, but I was so touched and so sad to see how they all were aware that I was leaving, especially those with very limited cognitive ability and/or verbal capacity. The children and the teachers also had a little ceremony for me. I was shocked when they presented me with gifts considering the little money they have and I was so touched when they gave me the Kikuyu name, Nyakio, which means hardworking or dedicated lady. I can't wait to show everyone the hand made jewerly, purse, shoes, and certificate they made for me!! They are beautiful.
It was also pretty amazing to see the look on their faces when the boxes Kathy sent arrived. As complicated and expensive as it was, there's no price tag large enough to to see the look on their faces. They were so grateful for all of the materials and school supplies. I can't tell you how much it will help. So, thank you Kathy, and a big thank you to everyone who donated supplies and/or money. I will be sending pictures and developing the website soon so you can see where your money went. You definitely won't regret it!!!Ah, but as much as I could stay here for the rest of the summer, I miss everyone so much and I am running out of money!! Plus, I do miss the luxury of living in America. I think I am most looking forward hot showers with water pressure, high speed internet, my own bed, using a washer and dryer, always having running water, and Chicago style pizza!! I swear I may never be able to eat rice and beans again! Or beef!! Haha! But most importantly, I can't wait to see everyone and be able to communicate on a more regular basis for those of you are further away. I can't thank everyone enough for the phone calls, emails, texts, etc. It really meant a lot to me to hear from you and to have all of your support. I would recommend volunteering through this program to anyone. I have a feeling it will be the most amazing traveling experience of my life.
Love you all so much! Will let you know when I arrive into Chicago safely.
Much love,
Suzy
Suzy and I on the beach in San Diego when she was three. 1985 perhaps.
I know I changed the photo because she and I were almost in silhouette.
Would not be able to duplicate it because I've forgotten how I did it!
I may very well do a painting of this.
WIDGETIZE
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Darko # 15. June 2009, 17:23
PainterWoman # 15. June 2009, 17:41
Linda # 15. June 2009, 17:59
When I came home from France, the first thing I had my sister and brother-in-law do after leaving the airport was to stop at a fast food place and get me the first American hamburger I had eaten in a year. Boy, did it taste good!
Clance # 15. June 2009, 18:05
We often dont get to see the "worst" but when we do, we tend to find good more often.
Felix Pleşoianu # 15. June 2009, 18:17
And yes, Nyakio is a beautiful, beautiful name.
PainterWoman # 15. June 2009, 18:50
Clance: I think you may be right. I wouldn't have thought it when she was around 5 or 6. She was a bit like me, shy, timid and didn't talk alot.
Claude: Nyakio really is a beautiful name. She is brave too, much more so than I was at her age.
There are so many negative things we hear on the news about different countries and we wonder if it all is true. And we wonder why anyone would go to certain places. The news only seems to focus on the bad which scares us, especially when our children are heading to these places....alone.
I think I'll cut back on my news watching a bit more.
SummerAngel # 15. June 2009, 21:10
Angeliki # 15. June 2009, 21:13
Pam is getting the news and doesn't worry
and
I say ,
From mom to mom ,"Pam you did a great job with your kid! "
I wish her a safe trip back home.....
;
scott cumming # 16. June 2009, 00:24
she tells it well. "the children throwing themselves down on the ground...." wow
PainterWoman # 16. June 2009, 00:34
Angeliki, thanks. I think I did ok with my kids in spite of a divorce.
Scott, I know it broke her heart to leave. I have a feeling that she will go back....maybe with recruitments.
Carol # 16. June 2009, 01:39
What is the address to the website she is talking about?
PainterWoman # 16. June 2009, 02:10
Linda # 16. June 2009, 03:18
Carol # 16. June 2009, 03:31
PainterWoman # 16. June 2009, 04:17
Carol, her sister Kathy in Fargo got either money or supplies from the people she works for and she bought some herself and sent three boxes full of stuff. It was very expensive to mail it because school supplies, especially paper, is heavy. She never said how much the postage was, but her dad sent her some money to cover some of the mailing costs.
I have an address for a Sister Mary at the school where I plan to mail a few things. I can't afford much but I'm going to do some drawings of animals, make a poster, have 8 copies made (there's 8 school rooms) and have them laminated.
Linda # 16. June 2009, 04:32
Carol # 16. June 2009, 04:35
They will love the drawings.
Darko # 16. June 2009, 05:24
Originally posted by PainterWoman:
Next year? I bet it will be later this year
Felix Pleşoianu # 16. June 2009, 05:31
Originally posted by PainterWoman:
Even if it was all true, reporters are prone to exaggerations. Plus, by failing to mention the good things, they make it seem like those places are all bad. Which is, of course, absurd. The world is more complex than that.
E.g. with all the reports I hear about TSA abuses, I might be afraid to fly into the U.S. Would that fear be warranted? Also, there were some recents cases of abuse by the Phoenix police. Does that mean Phoenix is a bad place to be in? Probably not, and of course not.
But I have a better example closer to home. Maybe you've heard the scandals last year, when a few Romanian criminals did some nasty stuff in Italy (rapes, robberies). It was bad, of course, and it shamed us all, but the Italian public's reaction was totally overblown. There were cases of persecution against Romanians who lived there peacefully, voices asking to expel them all and close the Italian borders, etc. As if Italy didn't have its own criminals (including several mobsters who were caught in Romania). Naturally, throughout all this, Italy was mostly a safe place for Romanian tourists, not to mention vice-versa.
Yes, if you come to Bucharest, there are certain neighborhoods you'll want to avoid, the traffic is downright scary, etc. But someone who knows the city can show you all kinds of interesting places, and most people are civil and nice. Why would I think things are all that different elsewhere?
Darko # 16. June 2009, 08:56
This is the same for most of the places I have been. There are positive and negative sides, but people are mostly friendly. I hope I will visit Timisoara, Bucharest and Constanca one day
Felix Pleşoianu # 16. June 2009, 09:23
Darko # 16. June 2009, 10:56
Lois # 16. June 2009, 12:20
PainterWoman # 16. June 2009, 12:36
PainterWoman # 16. June 2009, 12:40
PainterWoman # 16. June 2009, 12:56
I met my daughter-in-law's family and all her friends and it was a very enjoyable visit. They were all warm and friendly.
If I had been alone, I would have been very fearful because there were more poor people in the streets who approached you very closely asking for money. This happened to Suzy every day she was in Kenya. I don't even like strangers approaching me here in my own city! The same happened to me and a friend when we went to Europe ten years ago.
As to the Phoenix Police, I have great respect for them. The few times I've had to call them, they were at my house within minutes. All were very respectful to me. I am not afraid of them at all. To me, it's all about attitude. If a person is approached by a policeman and they get all defensive, their voice raises, they get angry, etc., it is an alert to the policeman. He has to be on guard. We've had quite a few policeman shot to death just for a routine traffic stop.
I think everywhere it is the same.
PainterWoman # 16. June 2009, 12:59
Carol # 16. June 2009, 16:21
This is totally new, her and her friend will love it.
Suntana # 16. June 2009, 23:40
I can just imagine the Good Byes scene there between Suzy and the kids and teachers. Good Byes are always tough.
By the same token though, I can certainly envision the joy, excitement and relief to finally be getting back to her environment with everything she's used to.
Did the supplies package include a computer?
Glad that now YOU, Pam can be wayyy much more at ease now that Suzy's back in Chicago. I of course, don't have any kids, but can imagine on some level the relief you now have.
PainterWoman # 16. June 2009, 23:57
Carlos: It was initially a month she was to be away but she extended it a week to visit another place for some R & R. I could almost feel the good byes. It must have broken her heart. There were probably tears all the way around.
No, there was no computer, just lots of paper, pencils, crayons, markers....things like that.
My other daughter Kathy called me around noon to tell me that Suzy had texted her that she was home in Chicago and on the train to her place. Then, just a bit ago, I talked to Suzy. She said she felt really good as soon as she got home, then about an hour or two later, after a hot shower, she suddenly felt totally out of it. I would imagine she's going to sleep 12 hours or more. Those long flights do a number on you and the jet lag lasts several days. For me anyway.
Edward Piercy # 18. June 2009, 03:07
Pam I am happy for you that she is coming home. I imagine that you must feel very relieved.
I imagine that 5 weeks will be among the most important of her life. Just a guess.
PainterWoman # 18. June 2009, 03:28
"I imagine that 5 weeks will be among the most important of her life."
I think you're right.
studio41 # 18. June 2009, 08:47
great picture, too, will make a wonderful painting, please post if you do it!
PainterWoman # 18. June 2009, 13:05
Now I can take the 'international plan' off my phone. When I signed up, I forgot to ask if I could take it off in a month. I don't think I'll be calling anyone else across the waters.
Tran Si # 19. June 2009, 02:43
Suntana # 19. June 2009, 04:10
Are you SERIOUS? Like on a Daily / Nightly basis she'd see these creatures? They weren't Tarantulas? I wouldn't be able to sleep if palm-sized spiders shared my living accomodations.
PainterWoman # 19. June 2009, 04:28
Carlos: Yes, they were that big.
Suntana # 19. June 2009, 05:38
PainterWoman # 19. June 2009, 05:43
Linda # 19. June 2009, 07:18
studio41 # 19. June 2009, 07:27
Tran Si # 19. June 2009, 09:35
Suntana # 19. June 2009, 15:17
PainterWoman # 19. June 2009, 15:43
One time I went for an interview and I was wearing a long, sort of flowy skirt. I had to walk through an atrium to get to the office. I paused for a couple of minutes to admire the plants. That was my mistake...pausing. I immediately noticed the mosquitoes and left. Little did I know that two of the culprits had flown up my skirt. During the interview, I kept feeling a stinging sensation on my legs. I didn't want to appear fidgety so I ignored it. Being fidgety apparently means you are unreliable according to these new types of interviews. Sometimes you are videotaped during these interviews and I suppose also scrutinized.
After I got home, I realized I'd been bitten about six or seven times. My legs had big reddish welts all over them.
Linda # 19. June 2009, 18:39
PainterWoman # 19. June 2009, 19:00
studio41 # 20. June 2009, 06:52
Suntana # 21. June 2009, 02:56
My ankles seem to be mosquitoes' favorite target.
Pam, maybe there's something different about elbows. I too have in the past gotten some pretty BIG bite swells when bitten in the elbow area. When they bite me in my ankles or elsewhere, they seem to be normal bites. But, those on my elbows, they can last big for days.
PainterWoman # 21. June 2009, 03:09
My ankles are favorite mosquito food too. Years ago, like in high school, my boyfriend and I went to an amusement park which had a lagoon. I was 15 and that was the year I found out the buggers liked me. The pants I was wearing were called 'pedal pushers', now called 'capris'. Anyway, they left my ankles a perfect target for sitting around on a park bench by the lagoon. There must have been 10 or 15 stings on EACH one of my ankles!
SummerAngel # 21. June 2009, 03:26