My OperaMEN VS WOMEN,role of men in making family
Friday, December 12, 2008 10:33:37 AM
Behaviour of men towards their own families is like a parasite for the next generation which leads nowhere except disaster.
Men and women have equal rights and i myself have debated over discrimination which still exists in America,though heading towards the highest peak of success but discrimnation they failed to eradicate it.Men donot have superiority over women,this is mentioned in several places in Quran that men and women have equal rights and prophet Muhammed pbuh have said that men and women have equal rights,but men are only leaders to their women so as could protect her from evil or from evil people.But they are not superior than women in any respect though women have given much respect in islam.
History itself is evident that many battle had been fought whose cause were women honour in arabia in the time of prophet.Men are strong by physique as compare to women,Allah says in Quran in chapter two verse 150 onwards that I HAVE MADE WOMAN from the very rigid rib of man,so donot be harsh with her but treat her with kindness,love and respect.They are your tilt.so these verses conveys message that Allah has given women more respect and have revealed complete chapter in Quran by name NISA which means women.And keep on repeating women issues in several places in Quran which no other religious book contains.
yeah parents in America are after making much money and have forgotten that they do have families and yes when they get home they are so much tired to give time to their kids and thats why their kids falls in bad habits,this is one of the psychological depreesion among youths and kids which leads them to bad deeds and activities.
Especially men in america ain't fully understands their responsibility towards their wives and their kids.they fails to give them good time and keep vigil their kids what they are heading towards,whom they are friends with and so on.Thats why most of the young girls boy friends do visit their homes for having sex.And their parents cannot say anything.
I do remember the great pragmatist,naturalist and idealogist who is familiar among all youths of civilized world and whole civilized world knows him by the name of Mr.Gandhi,who conquered India by his words and power of pen.He has said that there should be segregation of sexes when they reach at the age of 14 years,as we also are familiar that American statistics say that at the age of 14 years most of the girls of America loses their virginity.
Thats why islam prefer segregation of sexes and hijab is for the protection of women so that she could guard her virginity and could hide her adorement.As many non-muslims have raised issues and still raising issues that womens are compelled to wear hijab,means veil,which is untrue,Any non muslim person can ask any muslim lady in America that whether they are compelled to wear veil that would give a better answer why they wear veil.And it is also mentioned in Quran,Allah commands womens to wear veil in order to hide their adorement which could attract uninvited persons.And this thing which almost every non muslim in this era agrees that this hinders criminal from doing rape to that particular lady who would have wore hijab and they are being more respected.This admits almost every person in America especially psychologists who have better knowledge of human psychology.
Mens have more responsiilty as head of home,and he has to play vital role in its smooth running and functioning,no doubt womens makes home but pivotal role plays men,coz they are those persons who plays role head of family,leader,director,organiser,maintainer,role of lover in family whether in character father or husband and sometimes son.
Their time to family is needed and precious and every lady wants that their men could stay longer with them,if they fails their family feels insecure and those mens lose their family and love of their family indeed.
Although are mens are not alike,many of them are aware and do recognise their role and responsibilitites as head of family or as fathers or husbands.
And men sometimes needs to show love,compassion,respect and many others things accord when situation arises,but it could be seen america men fails to understand their responsibilities towards their families.which is good example for the next generation to respect women,but it is only possible when their parents would respect each other especially men in america who only see women just sex object,though sex is not everything in life.There should be more respect for women and women should be seen more than just sex object coz she also plays vital role in making home and in the life of man whether her husband,son orher father,she is best to play her character with each relation.Allah praises her,she has very nice and kind heart which could be seen when she gives bith or when she carry fetus in her womb,that how compassionate and kind she is for that child she carrys or she gives birth to and it is she who upraises this child and bears all the pains.I salute womanhood as whole.And prays to Almighty that increase the honour of womens whether in America or any other part of world and protect them from all evil.Ameen
Men and women have equal rights and i myself have debated over discrimination which still exists in America,though heading towards the highest peak of success but discrimnation they failed to eradicate it.Men donot have superiority over women,this is mentioned in several places in Quran that men and women have equal rights and prophet Muhammed pbuh have said that men and women have equal rights,but men are only leaders to their women so as could protect her from evil or from evil people.But they are not superior than women in any respect though women have given much respect in islam.
History itself is evident that many battle had been fought whose cause were women honour in arabia in the time of prophet.Men are strong by physique as compare to women,Allah says in Quran in chapter two verse 150 onwards that I HAVE MADE WOMAN from the very rigid rib of man,so donot be harsh with her but treat her with kindness,love and respect.They are your tilt.so these verses conveys message that Allah has given women more respect and have revealed complete chapter in Quran by name NISA which means women.And keep on repeating women issues in several places in Quran which no other religious book contains.
yeah parents in America are after making much money and have forgotten that they do have families and yes when they get home they are so much tired to give time to their kids and thats why their kids falls in bad habits,this is one of the psychological depreesion among youths and kids which leads them to bad deeds and activities.
Especially men in america ain't fully understands their responsibility towards their wives and their kids.they fails to give them good time and keep vigil their kids what they are heading towards,whom they are friends with and so on.Thats why most of the young girls boy friends do visit their homes for having sex.And their parents cannot say anything.
I do remember the great pragmatist,naturalist and idealogist who is familiar among all youths of civilized world and whole civilized world knows him by the name of Mr.Gandhi,who conquered India by his words and power of pen.He has said that there should be segregation of sexes when they reach at the age of 14 years,as we also are familiar that American statistics say that at the age of 14 years most of the girls of America loses their virginity.
Thats why islam prefer segregation of sexes and hijab is for the protection of women so that she could guard her virginity and could hide her adorement.As many non-muslims have raised issues and still raising issues that womens are compelled to wear hijab,means veil,which is untrue,Any non muslim person can ask any muslim lady in America that whether they are compelled to wear veil that would give a better answer why they wear veil.And it is also mentioned in Quran,Allah commands womens to wear veil in order to hide their adorement which could attract uninvited persons.And this thing which almost every non muslim in this era agrees that this hinders criminal from doing rape to that particular lady who would have wore hijab and they are being more respected.This admits almost every person in America especially psychologists who have better knowledge of human psychology.
Mens have more responsiilty as head of home,and he has to play vital role in its smooth running and functioning,no doubt womens makes home but pivotal role plays men,coz they are those persons who plays role head of family,leader,director,organiser,maintainer,role of lover in family whether in character father or husband and sometimes son.
Their time to family is needed and precious and every lady wants that their men could stay longer with them,if they fails their family feels insecure and those mens lose their family and love of their family indeed.
Although are mens are not alike,many of them are aware and do recognise their role and responsibilitites as head of family or as fathers or husbands.
And men sometimes needs to show love,compassion,respect and many others things accord when situation arises,but it could be seen america men fails to understand their responsibilities towards their families.which is good example for the next generation to respect women,but it is only possible when their parents would respect each other especially men in america who only see women just sex object,though sex is not everything in life.There should be more respect for women and women should be seen more than just sex object coz she also plays vital role in making home and in the life of man whether her husband,son orher father,she is best to play her character with each relation.Allah praises her,she has very nice and kind heart which could be seen when she gives bith or when she carry fetus in her womb,that how compassionate and kind she is for that child she carrys or she gives birth to and it is she who upraises this child and bears all the pains.I salute womanhood as whole.And prays to Almighty that increase the honour of womens whether in America or any other part of world and protect them from all evil.Ameen
StaceyGrandmomster # Saturday, December 13, 2008 5:39:09 AM
I don't feel that as women we have to hide our selves any way to prevent unwanted advancements. I do believe that each human is responsible for their body. So if a women wears something that she KNOWS will cause a man to become sexually excited then that is her sin. If the man allows him self to continue that thought or advances in an unwelcome way toward the women, then that sin is his. Its both of their responsibility to do what is correct.
Eve persuaded Adam to eat the apple thus teaching women through out all generations that we have this power. So what did Adam teach man? Unfortunately that they are weak when it comes to the lure of a women. Adam was not helpless under her spell. He was attracted to what she had to offer and how she presented it. It was his responsibility to do what was correct according to what God had told him. Neither Adam nor Eve are with out sin. She should not have tempted him and he should not have fell for it. I feel that this moment of weakness by man has caused a lot of undo blame towards women. Man can not say he would not have sinned if were not for women. That is something that can never be truly known. Women can not claim that they are unaware of their power over man when it comes to persuasion. A man can stop any thought, or action as soon as he claims his own self control. Just because a man finds a women sexually attractive does not mean he has to have sex with her.
Just because a women presents her self in a sexually attractive way does not mean she wants to have sex with all men that see her.
Both will be held responsible.
Jibral_aliRumaan # Saturday, December 13, 2008 1:46:51 PM
And what you have said about Adam and Eve,our forefathers,They didn't commit any sin deliberately but satan drived them to do that,neither Adam nor Eve was responsible but satan who drived them both and whispered in their ears.yes women are emotionally weak compare to men but that doesnot mean they are weak by will.If they would determine they can do anything,
and what you have tried to say that sexual part where man gets allure towards woman otherwise a man is leader to his wife,he take suggestions but he always should work like leader does.That was satan who compelled them and befooled both Adam and Eve.Otherwise men cannot get prey of any allure,though greed is in the veins of mankind but as compare to men women are more jealous and so on.i was able to answer very well but i hestited coz i donot want to hurt anyone.
StaceyGrandmomster # Saturday, December 13, 2008 5:38:39 PM
Jibral_aliRumaan # Sunday, December 14, 2008 5:17:13 AM
As compare rapest are given just 7 years rigorous imprisonmant and american statistics says that most of them means 90% who serves 7 years in jails for raping a lady they do same after get released from jails.
Every religion says same but this religion says how to achieve that,means if it says somethings it also shows way how to achieve that goal,e.g if someone is nabbed while robbing,there is punishment for robber to chop his/her hand,if nabbed red handed.This law is applicable only in arabia and thats why the crime rate is very low there.we democratic world's are like puppets in the hands of politicians they only think about their pockets,they have nothing to do with people whether they starving,dying, or traped in epidemic.I wonder most of the times that America the great country in world couldnot do anything for the whores who has very miserable condition living in mystery and pain.DOES THEY NOT HUMANS?dDonot they have right to live with Honour,But they too have space in this religion of peace,salute to them too,coz it is politics which compels them to do that.Its indeed matter of shame for America that they couldnot do till yet anything for that class.
Debate is common in white house over this issue but no one takes initiative,women never would love to accept such profeesion in which where they earn only dishonour every day.Pure exploitation,sorry to say if am wrong but these purely are my views and i strongly condemn and objects on the behalf of those womens who are being exploited by politicians and other elite class in all over world.Coz it is politicians who gives shape to country but they failed to do anything for sluts women class,actually they want them to be sluts for their pleasure.