My Opera【Emotion】★ A Mistake?
Friday, July 14, 2006 4:56:36 AM
The following is from an on-line love expert who says that it is a giant mistake to allow yourself to become OVERLY EMOTIONAL around the person you're dating in a negative and self-destructive way.
What do women mostly think?
When most women start dating a great guy, they have a whole slew of POSITIVE FEELINGS, IDEAS and
BELIEFS about where things are going and how they might work out.
Then such thought triggers their excitment--fears of losing---freaking out---screw up!
So is it wrong for women to behave passionate towards their lovers? How shall women react in a "proper" way as we ourselves are indeed emotion-oriented?
Emotion has its own power: are we emotionally attracted to the other party? do we have many imaginations out of such emotion? Can we really control our emotion?
This one can fully answers this quesion :"You have to stop thinking about what you've
learned about being "in touch" with ALL of your emotions and realize that a man's ATTRACTION isn't triggered by you being EVERYTHING that you feel."
Remeber: The more control a man has over you, the less ATTRACTION he feels for you.
Is this quite true? or is this control and attaction mutually functioning ?
In addtion, why should womem always make efforts to please the men, to guess what they are thinking, to miss them while they do not care a shit about ourselves?
Therefore, I am thinking that maybe it is high time to be emotionally dependent from men! Life holds so many attactiveness and wonders, why should be solely limit ourselves to the binding realions!
For those still interested in this topic,you could log on http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e//eBook to issue the on-line free lessons from this expert, Or
you could just discuss with me here.
What do women mostly think?
When most women start dating a great guy, they have a whole slew of POSITIVE FEELINGS, IDEAS and
BELIEFS about where things are going and how they might work out.
Then such thought triggers their excitment--fears of losing---freaking out---screw up!
So is it wrong for women to behave passionate towards their lovers? How shall women react in a "proper" way as we ourselves are indeed emotion-oriented?
Emotion has its own power: are we emotionally attracted to the other party? do we have many imaginations out of such emotion? Can we really control our emotion?
This one can fully answers this quesion :"You have to stop thinking about what you've
learned about being "in touch" with ALL of your emotions and realize that a man's ATTRACTION isn't triggered by you being EVERYTHING that you feel."
Remeber: The more control a man has over you, the less ATTRACTION he feels for you.
Is this quite true? or is this control and attaction mutually functioning ?
In addtion, why should womem always make efforts to please the men, to guess what they are thinking, to miss them while they do not care a shit about ourselves?
Therefore, I am thinking that maybe it is high time to be emotionally dependent from men! Life holds so many attactiveness and wonders, why should be solely limit ourselves to the binding realions!
For those still interested in this topic,you could log on http://www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com/e//eBook to issue the on-line free lessons from this expert, Or
you could just discuss with me here.
