LIFE TRACK

"One thing I have just learned is that we must believe in ourselves.We believe we can do it and then win others to help us do it."

Today R took me to the social security office and Bk of America to open an account with an SSN.
This does not usually happen.
As an international teacher, i could not wait SSN for 2 weeks before I get other things started. Thanks to R, he did quite an adventure for me.
He let me prepare all the files i have got: passport with the visa, J1 form and the receipt from the SSO. More importantly, he believed we could do this.
Instead of walking and wondering the possbility or feasability of doing it,which i would do as a greenhand, he talked with the bank staff politely and firmly about doing this.
And finally we got to that point: i got my saving account and a debit card coming in 10 days and a follow-up of my SSN when i get it.

It reaaly saves my time and troubles.

I could not help telling myself that: hey do not have doubts in yourself,just do it with your passion and ask whenever and wherever you do not understand.

One of the posts i put up for my days in shanghai concerning YOU DON'T ASK,YOU DON'T GET. i really learn from this lesson.
Because, it will be my fault do fail something had I not asked before; It will not be all my fault had I asked,or at least i would know the possibilities of the matter.

Just like what I encourged Y who is a Chinese highschool girl recovering from a surgery and is now suffering malfunction of her fingers,I shall just believe in myself.
Yes, it takes time to do things while.
But if i do not think i could do it, i fail at the starting line.

Or just like the Panda in Kongfu Panda who could bearly see his feet due to the big belly,he managed to do it finally.

I own much thanks to R as Panda does to Master Shifu and Master Wugui.

So with R good luck with his health condition and I am really sorry that I have bothered him so much for taking me everywhere.
And good luck with Y for her soon recovery.[/FONT]