Monday, 28. December 2009, 07:21:17
Family and Love, Spiritual and Noble Soul
这是在网上电邮上传遍了的好劝告……
父母把我们培养成人同意吗？
我们绝对不应该对他们说出以下的十句话
如果以前经常说 —— 那么请改正
从现在开始好好的爱你的父母
因为当他们不在的时候
你后悔也来不及了
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好了，好了，知道，真罗嗦！
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有事吗，没事？那挂了啊！
（父母打电话，也许只想说说话，我们能否理解他们的用意，不要匆忙挂了电话！）
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说了你也不懂，别问了！
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跟你们说了多少次不要你们做，做又做不好。
（一些他们已经力不能及的事，我们因为关心而制止，但这样让他们觉得自己很无用）
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你们那一套，早就过时了。
（父母的建议，也许不能起到作用，可我们是否能换一种回应的方式？！）
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叫你别收拾我的房间，你看，东西找都找不到！
（自己的房间还是自己收拾好，不收拾，也不要拂了父母的好意）
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我要吃什么我知道，别夹了！
（盼着我们回家的父母总想把所有关心融在特意做的菜里，我们默默领情就好）
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说了别吃这些剩菜，怎么老不听啊！
（他们一辈子的节约习惯，很难改，让他们每次尽量少做点菜就好）
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我自己有分寸，不要老说了，烦不烦？！
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这些东西说了不要了，堆在这里做什么啊！
（他们总想把跟我们成长有关的东西都收藏起来，也许占满房间，多年后，看到自己还是婴儿时的小棉袄，难道不是很惊喜吗？）
相信很多人都或多或少的说了以上10句中的一句或几句
请体谅我们的爸爸妈妈
作为子女，我们都不要再说这样的话
人生很短，一定要珍惜你身边的亲人
爱人，朋友。不要等到一切都无法挽回了
你才知道这些人对你 是多么的重要，善待生命
孝敬爸爸妈妈，要知道不管你做错了什么
爸爸妈妈都会原谅你的 —— 家，才是你永久的港湾！
十个人有一个人能做到很不容易了
这十句话真的很熟悉
如果你曾经说过 —— 那请以后不要轻易说出口
你一人在外漂泊时，当你伤心难过时，当你被同学排挤时，当你…你第一时间会想起谁呢？
也许你会说是朋友，没错他们会帮我们，可他们也有自己的事啊！
永远在你身边关心，陪伴你的人是父母啊，请不要到“树欲静而风不止，子欲养而亲不待”时后悔啊。
请多关心我们的父母吧。
Also see earlier entries:
1.
Caring.com: Helping You Help Your Parents
2.
致敬爱的父母亲 - Tribute to Parents
Sunday, 27. December 2009, 07:46:30
Spiritual and Noble Soul, Family and Love
The Art of Receiving
from Ode Magazine
A long article
, but worth reading and pondering about.
Wednesday, 23. December 2009, 12:56:40
Humour and Entertainment, Special Events
Sunday, 20. December 2009, 02:24:18
Health and Wellness
Help, I Can’t Stop Overeating! 
4 Reasons Why You Do and How To Stop
By Delia Quigley | Care2.com
Friday, 18. December 2009, 07:29:06
Humour and Entertainment
Thursday, 17. December 2009, 05:46:26
Family and Love, Wisdom and Intelligence
Controlling a Classroom isn't as easy as ABC
by Seema Mehta | L.A. Times, 14 December 2009
Tuesday, 15. December 2009, 05:15:31
Inspiration and Motivation, Wisdom and Intelligence
Difference Between Gold and Copper
A wise short story that teaches and reminds us about our true value and worth!
Long time ago, in Egypt lived a famous mystical person name Zun-Nun. A young man came to visit him and asked "Teacher, I do not understand why people like you dress in such a way and very simple, isn't in this era was necessary to dress neatly, not only for performance but also for other reasons?"
The mystical one only smiled and took his ring from one of his fingers, and said "Young friend, I will answer your question, but first do one thing for me, take this ring and go to the market across this street, can you sell this for one chip of gold?"
Having looked at Zun-Nun's dirty ring, the young man became doubtful. "One chip of gold, I am not sure this ring could be sold at that price."
"Try first, young man, who knows you did it." The Young man went to the market quickly. He offered the ring to the textile, vegetable, meat, fish traders, and the others. The fact was that nobody was willing to pay for a chip of Gold.
He went back to Zun-Nun residence and reported "Teacher, nobody is brave to offer more than one chip of silver."
With a wise smile Zun-Nun said, "Now go to the Gold Shop at the back of this street. Show this to the owner or to the gold trader. Don't give your price just listen how much he will pay for this ring."
The Young man went to the shop mentioned and returned with a different expression from his face. He then reported "Teacher, the traders in the market really do not know the value of this ring, the gold trader offers this ring for one thousand of gold, And the value of this ring is one thousand times from what the traders in the market offer!"
Zun-Nun just smiled subtly and spoke softly, "That is the answer of your question my friend." Someone cannot be valued only from his dress "The traders in the market" give value like that. But not for "The gold trader".
Moral of the story: all criticisms, snide remarks which we get sometimes, are from the traders, they do not recognize the gold and put value to it. So do not lose heart and search for the goldsmiths which will recognize your value.
Similarly do not get fooled by the outer appearances, a brass may look like gold but is not gold.
Dig deep before forming an opinion or judging others.
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