എന്നിടം

kadal kunna
(sea cock)

A Touching Story For Married
People:
My husband is an Engineer by
profession, I love him for his
steady nature, and I love the
warm feeling when I lean
against his broad shoulders.
Three years of courtship and
now, two years into marriage,
I would have to admit, that I
am getting tired of it. The
reasons of me loving him
before, has now transformed
into the cause of all my
restlessness. I am a
sentimental woman and
extremely sensitive when it
comes to a relationship and
my feelings, I yearn for the
romantic moments, like a little
girl yearning for candy. My
husband, is my complete
opposite, his lack of
sensitivity, and the inability of
bringing romantic moments
into our marriage has
disheartened me about love.
One day, I finally decided to
tell him my decision, that I
wanted a divorce.
“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I
am tired, there are no reasons
for everything in the world!” I
answered. He kept silent the
whole night, seems to be in
deep thought with a lighted
cigarette at all times.
My feeling of disappointment
only increased, here was a
man who can’t even express
his predicament, what else can
I hope from him? And finally
he asked me:” What can I do
to change your mind?”
Somebody said it right, it’s
hard to change a person’s
personality, and I guess, I have
started losing faith in him.
Looking deep into his eyes I
slowly answered : “Here is the
question, if you can answer
and convince my heart, I will
change my mind, Let’s say, I
want a flower located on the
face of a mountain cliff, and
we both are sure that picking
the flower will cause your
death, will you do it for me?”
He said :” I will give you your
answer tomorrow….” My
hopes just sank by listening to
his response.
I woke up the next morning to
find him gone, and saw a piece
of paper with his scratchy
handwriting, underneath a milk
glass, on the dining table near
the front door, that goes….
My dear, “I would not pick
that flower for you, but please
allow me to explain the
reasons further..” This first line
was already breaking my
heart. I continued reading.
“When you use the computer
you always mess up the
Software programs, and you
cry in front of the screen, I
have to save my fingers so
that I can help to restore the
programs.
You always leave the house
keys behind, thus I have to
save my legs to rush home to
open the door for you. You
love traveling but always lose
your way in a new city, I have
to save my eyes to show you
the way.
You always have the cramps
whenever your “good friend”
approaches every month, I
have to save my palms so that
I can calm the cramps in your
tummy. You like to stay
indoors, and I worry that you
will be infected by infantile
autism. I have to save my
mouth to tell you jokes and
stories to cure your boredom.
You always stare at the
computer, and that will do
nothing good for your eyes, I
have to save my eyes so that
when we grow old, I can help
to clip your nails,and help to
remove those annoying white
hairs. So I can also hold your
hand while strolling down the
beach, as you enjoy the
sunshine and the beautiful
sand… and tell you the color
of flowers, just like the color
of the glow on your young
face…
Thus, my dear, unless I am
sure that there is someone
who loves you more than I
do… I could not pick that
flower yet, and die.. ” My tears
fell on the letter, and blurred
the ink of his handwriting…
and as I continue on reading…
“Now, that you have finished
reading my answer, if you are
satisfied, please open the
front door for I am standing
outside bringing your favorite
bread and fresh milk…
I rush to pull open the door,
and saw his anxious face,
clutching tightly with his hands,
the milk bottle and loaf of
bread…. Now I am very sure
that no one will ever love me
as much as he does, and I
have decided to leave the
flower alone…
That’s life, and love. When one
is surrounded by love, the
feeling of excitement fades
away, and one tends to ignore
the true love that lies in
between the peace and
dullness.
Love shows up in all forms,
even very small and cheeky
forms, it has never been a
model, it could be the most
dull and boring form.. .
flowers, and romantic
moments are only used and
appear on the surface of the
relationship. Under all this, the
pillar of true love stands… and
that’s our life… Love, not
words win
arguments…

Two of the hardest tests in
life: The patience to wait for
the right moment and the
courage to accept that you've
waited for nothing...

Never try to hide who you are.
The only shame is to have
shame. Always stand up for
what you believe in. Always
question what people tell you.
Never regret the past....its a
waste of time. There's a
reason for everything; every
mistake, every moment of
weakness, every terrible thing
that has happened to you,
grow from it. The only way
you can ever get the respect
of others is when you show
them that you respect yourself
and most importantly, do your
thing and never apologize for
being you.