Hanging by a moment

Hm... focus on what's positive in your situation right now. There must be something! If it doesn't help, try to spend as much time as you can activly (running, hiking, biking, swiming...) outside. Do it with your best friends and family. Or make a trip to galery, museums, parks... Reconnect with nature! Find something new in your town! Take your camera with you as well. Nothing relaxes more than taking photos of new stuff! You'll rediscover some joys of life, I'm sure about that.

I think I have an idea how you feel since my broke-up last month after quite long relationship. And it was hell, trust me on that one. But you should look over your pain and believe in better times. You should fill up your schedule with things that make you happy (and bussy). Don't sit arround and wait to pass, beacuse it won't. You must cover your pain with new happy memories.

Stress...we all go through it somepoint in are lives

Okay, they say, love starts with a wink or a smile and ends with a tear, Others tell me that your heart has to be broken at least once in your life time. Well, i guess it's true and just know this, You have been heart broken, that's a fact: But there is another fact about this also, that how you learn from this encounter is what matters and not how you survive it. I am talking from experience, am recovering form a messy hurt break where i even contemplated suicide. Well, after this, I have come to know that it was a big Mistake for me even to think of anything like that. You know, when you get through this, you will realize how lucky you are to have that person hurting you. you will remain stronger than you were when they left you. So babe, just hold on there, some of us had nobody to tell them to hold on. I spent sleepless nights and restless nights wishing I was dead. I regret having tortured myself over that unworthy person. You are brave abd strong and you can go through it, get a good friend and share this with them, may be a new friend will always do. Someone who rarely knows your past life. They tend to listen to your heart better. I am hear babe. frelovedan_2@yahoo.co.uk is my email

i sorry about that whole boyfriend thing and it's ok you can always talk to me when there's trouble because here on my opera we all help each other also since your on vaction try to have fun ok?

a boyfriend problem would be the last thing i'd think about if i was on vacation

quit riding my coat tails magnezone

I am so sorry you are hurt, but look at it this way... You have to meet a few wrong ones before you meet the right one. Take the lesson you have learned with this relationship, remember the good times, forget the bad times and move on with life.

As far as your Mother, I am glad to hear she is ok. Not that stress is ok but considering her health it could have been much worse.

Keep your chin up.. things do get better.

God, i know exactly how you feel right now! I'm going through the same damn thing since last wednesday and i still feel kinda horrible. I just want time and memories to pass away, but they won't. Right now i'm very busy and i spent a lot of time with my friends and try to focus on happier things... But i'm still afraid of the nights, of moments where i will be alone again... I think it has to hurt, and it will - but it will go away, too. At least some day...
Hugs!

It sounds like you got some great advice from what I've read above. You are a beautiful young lady with so much ahead of you. You seem to be strong and have a level head on your shoulders. Hang in there.

When I go through some rough times one of the things I like to do is to listen to music. Depending on the mood determines what I listen to.

One time I lost someone in a relationship and my heart felt awful. Here's one of the songs I found solace in. Below are the words:

You say your heart has been broken
And it's taking forever to mend
And it's left you even more certain
That you'll never love again

A long time ago someone told me
It's not love that causes the pain
Whenever a heart has been shattered
It's the losing of love that's to blame

Love never broke anyone's heart
It never left anyone scarred
It's not really love if it tears you apart
Love never broke anyone's heart

I know your feelings are tender
And you're so afraid they won't heal
I'll prove to you love doesn't hurt you
And I'll show you how true love should feel

Love never broke anyone's heart
It never left anyone scarred
It's not really love if it tears you apart
Love never broke anyone's heart
---Vince Gill

Thanks. I'll check back with you to see how you are doing.

bring your heart in cotton for few moments until he realize that's hurt you, give him some smile of children, some way to voice his hurt (paint ,design..)accept him and so go on and so your sadness dissepears slowly
ok a past sorrow ?ask everybody have past sorrow you have my support

So how are you doing, Karoline? Hangin' in there O.K.?

So sorry to hear that Karoline.

I hope you are getting better as the days goes by.

I am sure you will get over it and hopefully sooner than you expect.

Hey Girl

Hope you got enough comfort from the community. You'll be fine, dont worry,okay! Sorry to here about your mom, hope she's doing okay now. My mom's also quite ill, but she'll be fine

Have a good day
Cherio...