Purple Realm

HEY!

,

See that?
That's a screenshot of my "friendly people" page, taken a few minutes ago. Do you see how many pages of people that is? There are thirty on the first, ten on each after that.
Do you know how many of those people I have added back?

TWENTY-TWO!!

What, just because I'm female, it's a go for any guy to add me? To send me PMs asking if I'm interested? WELL?!

If you'd bothered to read my about page, you'd see that I'm engaged to be married. Even if I wasn't, it's no call for people to just add me to their little collection of Opera women, to send me stupid PMs, to even fucking assume that me or any of us want anything at all to do with you!

Fair enough, it's an open community, and, sure, you gotta put yourself out there, but COME ON FOR FUCK'S SAKE!! Do we gotta change our member photos to fat sweaty guys to get you to leave us alone? Huh? WE SHOULDN'T HAVE TO!

In the real world - and let's assume you're actually capable of fitting out your front door, or looking at another person without getting smacked in the mouth - would you just randomly walk up to a woman you've never seen before and suggest a hook-up? Would you take her photo and put it on your wall? Of course not - you don't even leave your bloody computers!

I am sick of messages, I am sick of my face being on 500 people's pages, of my friends being subject to it, of getting messages from my friends asking "do you know this person? Is he ok?" because they've assumed that because I'm on his list, I've added him back, I'm fucking sick of it all!

GET. A. LIFE.
SERIOUSLY!!

You really think that other people will look at your friends list and think, "Oh, man. Look at this guy. All these girls love him!"? They won't, unless they're as big a dumbass as you. No. They'll be thinking, "Oh, man. Look at this guy. What a fucking LOSER!".

I reiterate - I am NOT interested. I am in a RELATIONSHIP. Even if I wasn't, I don't want to have anything to do with a fucking moron who adds every random girl he sees or sends disgusting messages based on a female picture.

I thought guys using the internet for porn was sad.

You people take it to a whole new level. Congratulations.

NOW FUCK OFF!!!

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Comments

Dark FurieFurie Monday, December 8, 2008 7:27:42 PM

That's my lady. happy

Moesring Monday, December 8, 2008 7:39:12 PM

(I'm sick) of getting messages from my friends ... because they've assumed that because I'm on his list, I've added him back

I must admit, from what I know of your friends list (ie everything, since it is publicly accessible), I'd have thought most/all of your friends would know that the majority of those that would have added you are just random pervs - and thus you would neither have added them back nor would ever consider it.

I hope they get around to implementing that "Remove me from (other person)'s friends list" soon. I heard not long ago that it is in progress. up

Of course, the sad irony is that those this post is directed at will never read this post so they will continue to live in their perverted dream world, genuinely believing that you must be flattered at receiving their filth. yuck

KittyliciousZaphira Monday, December 8, 2008 7:39:47 PM

Isn't it just fantastic to be one of the chosen twenty two! happy


pssst Yes, I did check before writing it. bigsmile


r♡serose-marie Monday, December 8, 2008 7:55:11 PM

bigeyes Holy crap! That's a lot of "friendly" people knockout.

H82typ Monday, December 8, 2008 8:01:07 PM

Actually, it's just one "friendly person"... with no life! p

Spaggyj Monday, December 8, 2008 8:05:13 PM

Moe, I hope that they'll get around to it too. How are you seeing my friend list? I've turned it off in sidebar and blog menu...

Kitty - Glad to have ya x

Rose - yeah. What Dennis said is probably right, tho lol

Stomyr Monday, December 8, 2008 9:14:44 PM

I have the same thing - I just don't care - no reason to even getting mad about it if you ask me - just delete random ppl's pms - after reading 1-2 sentences - smile

theoddmissusfunz81 Monday, December 8, 2008 10:17:14 PM

Well said up

I'm waiting for the new adding friends system too... It's been too long it makes me think they're trying to change me into a :tamil: waitwaitwait

Spaggyj Monday, December 8, 2008 10:30:54 PM

Stomyr - Well, a lot of the time I just delete, block and ignore as necessary. But, then, I am woman, I am moody, and I've got the Jayes rage.

Fan - I know, they really need to implement something either mutual only, or something we can use to remove ourselves and then block - and blocking should make it so they can't add you.

theoddbod Monday, December 8, 2008 10:39:00 PM

Hopefully soon they'll finish 'friend approval' and then your list of 500+ will vanish bigsmile

theoddbod Monday, December 8, 2008 10:40:23 PM

Remove and block, as I've said in various places, should be trivial sherlock

Spaggyj Monday, December 8, 2008 10:42:02 PM

I await the day, but not with baited breath irked

Cleanclean Monday, December 8, 2008 11:41:36 PM

Well, based on Mik's experience, all you need to do is grow some stubble! Nobody adds you to their wank list if you have stubble! wink

Cleanclean Monday, December 8, 2008 11:44:26 PM

Oh, wait ...left right wink

Dacotah Tuesday, December 9, 2008 3:32:52 AM

xXx

Darkogdare Tuesday, December 9, 2008 6:04:26 AM

I am not as popular as you are bigsmile but here and there people add me without asking or even talking to me. Ever. But all of the "normal" persons usually ask before adding me so I think things are starting to change here. At least with a people who respect other`s privacy smile

Bad WolfCois Tuesday, December 9, 2008 6:36:54 AM

You say no to night of passion? awww you no add me? We be good friends doh

Cleanclean Tuesday, December 9, 2008 7:57:26 AM

If Cois' next comment is, "Me love you long time", I'm ... I'm ...

... I'm off to South Africa! bigeyes wink lol

(Don't mind me, Full Metal Jacket was on TV a couple of months ago). rolleyes

Spaggyj Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:36:41 AM

lol lol @ David

Hi Carol bigsmile .

Darko - yeah, there don't seem to be very many normal people lol . I agree, common courtesy is to get to know someone first.

Clint - *slap* now you're going to have to be victim of sodo-may-hee.

H82typ Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:45:47 AM

So, no chance for you,me and cyber? lol

Bad WolfCois Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:54:14 AM

You're so scary scared

Spaggyj Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:55:48 AM

Dennis - I'm sure that Clint will cyber you if you're polite enough awww

Bad WolfCois Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:58:32 AM

Hey! mad that's Furies job! scared

Spaggyj Tuesday, December 9, 2008 9:03:00 AM

In your mind it is... awww

Bad WolfCois Tuesday, December 9, 2008 9:25:52 AM

My mind rules all happy

H82typ Tuesday, December 9, 2008 11:47:08 AM

love rule THIS! bigsmile

Dacotah Tuesday, December 9, 2008 12:09:58 PM

Hi Kimmie smile

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