Purple Realm

Friend Removals (again)

I'm removing people I don't know all that well from my list. It's making me uncomfortable, and while some may feel shunned or hurt, this is nothing to do with anyone but me. It's up to you how you react. The rules for myself are there for a reason, they apply only to me. I've tried to relax a little bit, but it's just not working. I'm very, very uncomfortable.

So, if you find yourself removed, know it's just me being, well... Me. I don't like mere aquaintances and I don't like letting people in, especially those I feel I don't know. I don't add everyone who talks to me, nor do I wish to force a friendship or a trust that does not yet exist. That's just the way it is. If you take offence and/or don't wanna stick around to get to know each other, that's your choice. I won't take it personally if you choose that.

I do apologise if anyone feels hurt, however. Be assured you've done nothing wrong. I'm just... Difficult, if you will.
smile

YAAAAAAY!Jack Shops At ASDA

Comments

Dark FurieFurie Wednesday, April 29, 2009 11:59:18 PM

This is familiar. I sent a message something close to this recently.

Spaggyj Thursday, April 30, 2009 12:02:07 AM

Really? Fucked up lol . Guess we kinda got the same rules, baby love .

Dacotah Thursday, April 30, 2009 12:05:15 AM

x

Dark FurieFurie Thursday, April 30, 2009 12:06:53 AM

The truth is out there. alien

JenJavaen Thursday, April 30, 2009 12:36:38 AM

up

Mad Scientistqlue Thursday, April 30, 2009 2:54:06 AM

I'm kinda always on shaky ground there. left. It's kinda hard to know me well when I don't even know myself all that well. lol.
If it feels like the right thing for you to do, it probably is. up.

Darkogdare Thursday, April 30, 2009 4:31:04 AM

I am always checking to see if I survived for the next mandate bigsmile

KittyliciousZaphira Thursday, April 30, 2009 5:30:09 AM

It's only fair to tidy up the friends list once in a while. I do that too - people are disappearing for one reason or another, you stop talking with people, stuff like that - I like to keep my friends list nice and clean, and with friends only on it.

Spaggyj Thursday, April 30, 2009 10:30:35 AM

Oh I hate making people paranoid sad . I figure I have to notify though... I like things tidy and efficient too.

Dark FurieFurie Thursday, April 30, 2009 10:35:03 AM

I just like to cut people when they haven't been performing the sacrifices. whistle

H82typ Thursday, April 30, 2009 11:50:15 AM

rolleyes

Cleanclean Friday, May 1, 2009 3:10:17 AM

Still there (yay)! heart

Bad WolfCois Friday, May 1, 2009 8:15:13 AM

I got removed sad

KittyliciousZaphira Friday, May 1, 2009 8:22:58 AM

You know why she ads you back on her list every time, wolfieboy?
I bet it's because it feels good to remove you again! devil

lol

Oops... o

Spaggyj Friday, May 1, 2009 9:53:28 AM

Of course, David heart !

Actually Kitty, he did. I hit the wrong option by accident lol . But I added you straight back, Clint! cry

KittyliciousZaphira Friday, May 1, 2009 10:00:58 AM

You did??? bigeyes

Bummer! lol

Dark FurieFurie Friday, May 1, 2009 10:04:26 AM

You should've heard the new word she invented when she did it. lol

KittyliciousZaphira Friday, May 1, 2009 10:17:46 AM

You know I would love to hear newly invented swear words! yes yes yes

Spaggyj Friday, May 1, 2009 10:18:31 AM

I went all pale and everything sad

KittyliciousZaphira Friday, May 1, 2009 10:19:25 AM

C'mon... Pleeeeeeeease tell me the word! awww

Spaggyj Friday, May 1, 2009 10:20:38 AM

Funt

KittyliciousZaphira Friday, May 1, 2009 10:21:03 AM

*scribbles*

Noted, thank you. up

Spaggyj Friday, May 1, 2009 10:35:25 AM

Sorry, I was distracted bigsmile

Cleanclean Friday, May 1, 2009 12:04:45 PM

Next time I cull my friend list, I'm gonna do it on a quarantine basis - everyone who's got Bacon Lung is outta there! lol

(Not really, I just wanted to see how 'Bacon Lung' sounded in a sentence). p wink

Spaggyj Friday, May 1, 2009 12:39:37 PM

Bacon lung lol

Dark FurieFurie Friday, May 1, 2009 1:06:40 PM

My lungs are regularly filled with bacon. left

H82typ Saturday, May 2, 2009 8:43:04 AM

You snort bacon? confused

Dark FurieFurie Saturday, May 2, 2009 9:32:59 AM

Saves chewing. whistle

H82typ Saturday, May 2, 2009 12:22:50 PM

confused ...but ... but... faint

theoddbod Saturday, May 2, 2009 6:36:48 PM

Phew! Made the cut again bigsmile

Dark FurieFurie Saturday, May 2, 2009 7:48:41 PM

Yeah, but you'd best start taking steroids if you wanna score the winning touchdown in next season's big baseball match. up

H82typ Saturday, May 2, 2009 8:07:34 PM

It's called The World Series. lol You guys play baseball? I thought it was cricket and soccer.
 Next you'll be telling me you like NASCAR! yikes

Dark FurieFurie Saturday, May 2, 2009 8:21:03 PM

No-one likes NASCAR. The fans just need something to do in between getting pregnant by siblings and watching "Princess" Britney's latest scandals in their trailers.

Dark FurieFurie Saturday, May 2, 2009 8:22:18 PM

pssst How come he's more disbelieving that English people know about baseball than that you can score touchdowns in it?

theoddbod Saturday, May 2, 2009 11:39:21 PM

pssst maybe he's not really American...

scott cummingI_ArtMan Sunday, May 3, 2009 12:27:25 AM

o.k. whatever

Cleanclean Sunday, May 3, 2009 11:00:36 AM

It's too hard to score touchdowns in baseball - stick to scoring runs in soccer ...

Mad Scientistqlue Sunday, May 3, 2009 1:12:45 PM

I have a curry recipe that's perfect for scoring runs... In any sport. whistle.

H82typ Sunday, May 3, 2009 8:38:55 PM

lol

JenJavaen Sunday, May 3, 2009 10:16:46 PM

Eew Aadil.

yuck

H82typ Sunday, May 3, 2009 11:28:12 PM

There's Visine in that recipe, I bet! lol

H82typ Sunday, May 3, 2009 11:31:32 PM

@ Mik: Jes' wuz rong wi' mah dublewide, bo-oy?

Bad WolfCois Tuesday, May 5, 2009 7:25:31 PM

I got added back awww funt!!

Dacotah Tuesday, May 5, 2009 9:15:34 PM

This isn't a friends only post, is it?

Spaggyj Tuesday, May 5, 2009 9:28:53 PM

No. Why?

Dacotah Tuesday, May 5, 2009 9:53:55 PM

Because everyone is saying they made the cut.
We don't know since it isn't a friends only post.
smile

Bad WolfCois Tuesday, May 5, 2009 10:12:29 PM

You didn't make the cut Carol.. Sorry awww

Spaggyj Tuesday, May 5, 2009 10:37:29 PM

Well, there was a friends only one available up until a little while ago, which I posted after this.. Which you actually commented on. So, you know, don't you? I figure having a post up for those who "didn't make the cut" would kinda defeat the object if it were friends only. Besides.. If you look at the comments, they're not all saying they have. I'm not gonna publicly announce the people I've removed, and I'm not gonna PM each one in turn, either.
Sorry if my way doesn't make much sense to you. smile

Dacotah Tuesday, May 5, 2009 10:56:33 PM

Yes it makes sense to me Kimmie.
Just the comments of people saying they made the cut after reading it made me think they were thinking it's a friends only post.
See what I mean? smile

Spaggyj Tuesday, May 5, 2009 11:09:04 PM

Oh, right. No, this stuff just tends to make people check their friend lists, you see smile

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