My OperaDOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Friday, October 23, 2009 12:53:50 AM
Pleasing Other People
Sometimes a situation arises whereby one finds that one is not oneself and circumstances present themselves and one is forced to act in a way that is suitable to a situation but the situation is not pleasing to oneself in a way that one has to act in a way that pleases someone else in favor of the situation cause one is trying to protect the ones he/she cares for or for instance one has to succumb to certain things cause one has a consideration for peace.
For instance one might have a sibling who fights with the whole family when he/she is stressed but when the person is happy all is good. So one is forced to succumb for the sake of keeping the family in order and one knows that that is wrong. When the person is with neighbors all is good and the neighbors think that that family is doing well in terms of progressing with life but they wouldn’t know exactly what is going on in ones family. You see pretence is the mother of all demise. Cause one has to show this face to this person and another to that one. When one has to project a picture that all is well at home while one is being abused to the core and lives life in agony. Exactly why should one have a home? Shouldn’t it be where one feels safe after work and after the difficulties of the world?
This is exactly why I hate people who undermine other people because they were born earlier than you. Cause they think that they are better than you or because they are married to you and they know that you have nowhere else to go then it gives them the right to beat you up or abuse you in one way or another and you go on pretending that all is well to other people for the sake of peace and safekeeping of family. I say expose them and they should be dealt with accordingly. Nobody owns the right to beat you up whether married or not. Truth is if somebody lays a hand on you that person does not deserve you period or he wouldn’t beat a person he loves period. It should only take once, if somebody beats you once what makes you think he wont do it again. This is such a sad topic maybe I should just leave it . I AM A MAN MYSELF AND I HATE MEN WHO ABUSE WOMEN.
Anyway Lets meet on the next BLOG
Sello P Tsotetsi
Sometimes a situation arises whereby one finds that one is not oneself and circumstances present themselves and one is forced to act in a way that is suitable to a situation but the situation is not pleasing to oneself in a way that one has to act in a way that pleases someone else in favor of the situation cause one is trying to protect the ones he/she cares for or for instance one has to succumb to certain things cause one has a consideration for peace.
For instance one might have a sibling who fights with the whole family when he/she is stressed but when the person is happy all is good. So one is forced to succumb for the sake of keeping the family in order and one knows that that is wrong. When the person is with neighbors all is good and the neighbors think that that family is doing well in terms of progressing with life but they wouldn’t know exactly what is going on in ones family. You see pretence is the mother of all demise. Cause one has to show this face to this person and another to that one. When one has to project a picture that all is well at home while one is being abused to the core and lives life in agony. Exactly why should one have a home? Shouldn’t it be where one feels safe after work and after the difficulties of the world?
This is exactly why I hate people who undermine other people because they were born earlier than you. Cause they think that they are better than you or because they are married to you and they know that you have nowhere else to go then it gives them the right to beat you up or abuse you in one way or another and you go on pretending that all is well to other people for the sake of peace and safekeeping of family. I say expose them and they should be dealt with accordingly. Nobody owns the right to beat you up whether married or not. Truth is if somebody lays a hand on you that person does not deserve you period or he wouldn’t beat a person he loves period. It should only take once, if somebody beats you once what makes you think he wont do it again. This is such a sad topic maybe I should just leave it . I AM A MAN MYSELF AND I HATE MEN WHO ABUSE WOMEN.
Anyway Lets meet on the next BLOG
Sello P Tsotetsi
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