"The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have."

“Friendship isn't a BIG thing

Its a million LITTLE things.”

Three women were sitting around throwing back a few drinks and talking about their love lives. One woman said, "I call my husband the dentist. Nobody can drill like he does."

The second woman giggled and confessed, "I call my husband the miner because of his incredible shaft."

The third woman quietly sipped her whiskey until her friend asked, "Say, what do you call your husband?"

She frowned and said, "The postman."

"Why the postman?"

"Because he always delivers late, and half the time it's in the wrong box."

I got my heart broken a little while ago and all of us know what that feels like. Not the best feeling, but there's no denying that more than often it's the best thing for us even if we don't realize it at the time.

So on New Years Eve I met a guy who I didn't give a second thought to, because I was involved with the 'heartbreaker' right.

Well to my amazement this guy went to great lengths to get my number and email address from a mutual friend once he heard about the break up. He politely waited and gave me as much time as I needed to get over things and sort of deal with it first. All the while as he said, I was on his mind since the moment he had laid eyes on me. And here I was pining over a guy who didn't realize my worth to begin with.

Then about three weeks ago he asked me out to a Natural and Organic Food Expo, having done his homework and now knowing what I'm passionate about, he just confidantly took the first step.
That first step turned out to be a big leap and swept me off my feet.

We've been seeing each other almost every day since and he's turned my heart to clay, molding it into the most beautifully sculpted master piece with each moment I am in his presence.

I've met the most amazing man who has waited for me to realize that everything I want in a man was right there in this total stranger who took the time to see ME. Through my joy, my hurt and my sadness, to my joy once again in finding somebody like him.

This is a testimony that not all break-ups necessarily leave you broken, albeit you have to be broken first in order to heal....and I've healed.

Love is a never ending circle. It continues regardless of whether you're with the same person. It's the one thing inside of all of us that never truly dies.

Love is emotionally the equivalent of a breath of fresh air.

Love is Life and Life is to Love.

Why is it that when a womans had a tough life and starts believing she deserves better, she's called a b*tch for wanting to be respected, told to shut up when she defends herself as if her gender automatically makes her less of a human being? Why is it that some men believe that they have the power to be push overs simply because their voices broke when they were teens,grew some hair on their chests and grew more towards the floor in certain parts of their anatomy. Being a man means more than hearing ur own voice saying the last word in order to feel that you shut the little woman up and gained some power in the process.It means listening not only to her words,but reading her emotions behind it when you're tearing into her confidence,undermining her intelligence or right to have a mind of her own. Guys start being men and knowing YOUR place. Start respecting your mothers,sisters,girlfriends,wives. A man who doesn't always shove his woman around is generally a much happier man. Women love you to be gentle, non aggressive and treat them like they MATTER. Like you're actually interested in what they have to say. Who they are. What makes them happy, sad,mad and what makes them love you more. Don't be so selfish as to always want to be the one who has to have his ego stroked, his every word hung onto or his word be the end all and be all of Every Single Thing. BE THE MAN. Let your woman be A WOMAN. A LADY. We're really not that complicated.