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Baby growing up

I have read, but not understood, what most of the experts say about raising children. I do admit that when you have a child, it is a lot of work. A lot of responsibility has to go into raising one. There are a lot of instruction manuals out there, and yet, you hear things like, "Why don't these things come with a manual?" But if you look at it, they do. Just ask any health care professional. I have been breast feeding my baby since last April. That's over a year, imagine the surprise she got when her daddy said "no more" and the surprise she got when mommy says that her comfort food "done did, dried up" I feel sorry for the poor babe, but i think enough is enough. I had a doctor tell me that as soon as she was 11 months (or a year) that she was to stop, cold turkey, without a sippy. well, she's on a sippy, and it frees me up. Anyhow, this little baby of mine has grown up so fast. she points to her nose and says "nose" (this is how she wakes me up), she points to her seat and says, "sit" while patting the seat next to her, she says "what's this?" to a simple button. And she tells me how upset she is when she's mad. (don't look at her cross eyed, or she'll start spittin loogies!!!)

I can't believe how big she's gotten. I know the bible says that we're not suppose to be proud, but i'm a mom, and i'm proud of all my children...God Bless them all.

The Beatles; Yellow Submarinewhen we all get to heaven

Comments

Dennis 8. November 2008, 18:49

:up: :wink:

ELIJAH B. 13. November 2008, 04:07

This was an amazing read. Beautiful just beautiful. Bravo!!! :congrats:

DeeDee 13. November 2008, 04:15

where have you been?

ELIJAH B. 13. November 2008, 04:25

Off the net briefly How've you and your family been?

DeeDee 13. November 2008, 21:08

:rolleyes: i was depressed for like...the longest time! then we all got to NY and my troubles got worse....neighbors thought we were bad parents (long story) but it made us get the flock outta there! now my in-laws have a two-family house and this is the first time in a long time that i have been happy (and my husband says that it has been a long time since he's heard me say that) sorry for rambling. :D

ELIJAH B. 14. November 2008, 07:12

I'm very sorry to hear that you had some problems in new york and also with your neighbors. I'm glad to hear you're happy though! Oh and you're not rambling. But I'm having a hard time understanding a few things (probably from too much chocolate); Did you move? And the house situation?

DeeDee 14. November 2008, 19:14

lol yea, we moved. we now are living upstairs (my own space) i get to use my own stove, my own waher/dryer, my own bathroom...and my girls aren't fighting with their uncle! HAPPY!!!

ELIJAH B. 17. November 2008, 16:29

Praise god they're happy and so are you! No dog amirite? How's the little ones dreams?

DeeDee 17. November 2008, 17:06

she still has the night terrors, i'm going to go get her checked to see if there's something burried. i'm worried you know!

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 19. November 2008, 22:09

i think by being proud the bible means being so proud as to gloat.

lol she says so much better than i was. My first word was no. My second was black.

What colour crayon do you want? Black

Do you want orange juice or apple juice? Black

Do you want some sweets? No.

I hated that.. saying no and then theyd take it away :cry:

DeeDee 19. November 2008, 23:09

oh, well, then it's not that kind of proud though, it's more of an "aww...these are my girls and i love them very much..." kind of a thing.

do you still like black? i like to wear black, it seems to look better on me, but my favorite color is blue.

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 20. November 2008, 22:22

i love black to be honest. Always have. favourite colour, (i used to wear jeans and white t-shirts) all i wear now is black, things that are black are awesome ( night sky, midnight, my phone..... ) and its probably the best colour to describe me. Dark and mysterious 0.o.

Seriously though I am most of the time, for some reason i just put a face on for other people... no idea why...

DeeDee 20. November 2008, 22:26

sounds a lot like me. nobody really knows who i am or how i am. i can't even talk to my husband the way i should. idk, but i can't seem to trust him.

everything in my kitchen is black. fridge, stove, microwave...except for my table and chairs. most of my pans (i want black pans)are black on the inside. even my teapot is black. i do have some black and white dresses, but i like black.

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 20. November 2008, 22:29

black kitchen :headbang: awesome

Its weird.... i dont care what people think of me... so i dont bother saying anything... its like a mix between caring and not caring..... :confused:

Then again nothing in this world is straight forward, and everything is confusing :up: thats what makes life so fun.

DeeDee 20. November 2008, 22:42

that's what i keep saying...but everyone else wants to chisel their way in.

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 20. November 2008, 22:45

its so annoying... if they left you alone for a while youd actualy tell them but they just keep annoying you :down:

DeeDee 20. November 2008, 23:42

oh well, that's life :rolleyes:
but i'm happy :happy:

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 21. November 2008, 19:48

happiness is awesome :headbang: ( and happyness aint bad either :D )

DeeDee 21. November 2008, 20:08

can you be depressed and be happy at the same time?

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 21. November 2008, 22:35

Pretty much yeah. Emotions are freaky like that, and when your deep theyre even freakier.

DeeDee 21. November 2008, 23:39

i have many people tell me that i have bipolar. but i don't think i am. and i definately don't need the drugs.

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 22. November 2008, 00:01

you might have cyclothymia but i doubt you are bipolar. Most who are bipolar would have hanged themselves by now, and if not youd be swearing ( a lot )

DeeDee 22. November 2008, 00:10

well i'm not that bad. i do curse, but not a lot. my cousin says the *F* word in every sentence (poor girl) i view as not very ladylike. guys are different, but i don't like hearing them curse either.

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 22. November 2008, 00:28

yeah, i try not to curse, when i do i try to use the smaller stuff, although my mam has come down pretty hard on it lately. Shes started to give out to me for saying "Jesus". I knwo were not supposed to take the lords name in vain, but what am i supposed to say if i cant say f***

DeeDee 22. November 2008, 00:51

my grams use to make me give her a dollar (i was on survival's benefits after mom passed away) every time i said a bad word. i can't make my girls do that though.

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 22. November 2008, 00:54

why not? Coz you dont give them money :lol:

DeeDee 22. November 2008, 00:55

they only get a dollar! besides...:right: they don't cuss :whistle: :sst: according to daddy

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 22. November 2008, 00:56

yeah well if i know my dad well enough, the trick is as long as muumy doesnt hear, daddy doesnt care :D

DeeDee 22. November 2008, 01:01

:lol: my trick! :right: shhh i didn't say it :whistle: :jester:

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 22. November 2008, 01:07

lol, your write you just posted it on the internet for everyone in the entire world to see.

DeeDee 22. November 2008, 01:09

yea, but my husband don't usually come over to my page, so i think i'm safe :angel:

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 22. November 2008, 01:12

just to be sure block him for a couple of years, move out, divorce and then remarry in about 10 years. What better safe than sorry

DeeDee 22. November 2008, 01:16

:yikes: like that'll ever work! :rolleyes:
in about 10 years, you do it, and then tell me if it works...:right:

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 22. November 2008, 01:34

ive already done it.... still working on the remarrying part tho..... :whistle: not sure i want too..... :D

Cσησя Mμяρнỵ 22. November 2008, 22:32

:lol:

DeeDee 22. November 2008, 22:43

AFV

Fallin Nightbow 15. September 2009, 06:01

I do visit and you do not trust me yet you have been unfaithful you lie you wave a banner of rightousness yet I have been ever faithful to you and I know it seems harsh. Please consider this though you are the one who said you do not trust and untill you sleeped with tarfiles I trusted you!

Dennis 15. September 2009, 07:22

*ahem* One shouldn't air dirt in public. Sir.

Fallin Nightbow 16. September 2009, 00:34

the truth is not dirt. Besides she said something and I am showing her the differance between true faithfulness and honsety. She aired something and did not think I would respond. How little do you idealistic bloggers know

Dennis 16. September 2009, 00:51

I'm neither idealistic or a blogger, per se.
This is something that should be discussed in person, not the net. I'm not taking sides, here, I'm sure there's wrong things done and said on both sides. I just think this should be hashed out in private.

Fallin Nightbow 16. September 2009, 00:57

Per se. In other words you denie what you do. She has to want to, but that means she has to want to listen wich she has not done in over three months when she ran out on me and our children.

Dennis 16. September 2009, 01:10

I'm sorry, man. I have no answers for you. :frown: Agreed that the lines of communication need to be open, though.

Fallin Nightbow 16. September 2009, 01:17

This is just one way for me to try to open it. She hides from the world and tries to denie her actions. It is just one way to get her to come out. The problem is yes it is hurtful to all. But it also can get her true friends involved. She meet someone online who just used her.

Dennis 16. September 2009, 11:50

Now, that's not right! :mad: I hate being used.

Fallin Nightbow 17. September 2009, 09:45

:confused:

Dennis 17. September 2009, 11:47

what you said: she met somebody online that just used her. I hate that someone did that!

Fallin Nightbow 18. September 2009, 02:33

So do I. She is my world and I just want her back with the kids and I.

Dennis 19. September 2009, 07:17

:frown:

Fallin Nightbow 20. September 2009, 17:41

Thanks man.

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