Saturday, July 24, 2010 1:36:10 PM
How to fast healthily during Ramadan
With the month of Ramadan upon us it is useful to look at ways of trying to maintain a healthy diet whilst fasting. Fasting for 12 to 24 hours or more can lead to dizziness and fatigue and a lowering of metabolic rate as a means of conserving calories or energy. Here are some simple guidelines to make sure that your diet remains balanced and healthy during this fasting period:
Don't skip breakfast (Suhoor)
Even though sleep may seem far more appealing than waking up to force down some food, don't skip breakfast. Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Research has shown that breakfast provides the essential energy and nutrients needed for concentration, while keeping hunger symptoms like headaches, fatigue, drowsiness and restlessness at bay. In addition, it speeds our metabolic rates. It is therefore vital to ensure an adequate intake at breakfast time.
Eat a wide variety of foods
When your daily intake is limited to two meals per day, you need to put extra effort into including foods from all the food groups. Our bodies need at least 40 different nutrients daily, to ensure that we grow properly and maintain good health. Although most foods contain more than one nutrient, no single food provides all the necessary nutrients. Moreover, foods have benefits that can't be replicated by a pill. So it is important to eat a wide variety of foods every day, to ensure that we get all of these nutrients. Select foods each day from each of the five food groups:
· Breads, cereals and other grain products
· Fruit and vegetables
· Meat, fish and poultry
· Milk, cheese and yoghurt
· Fats and sugars (these are low in nutrients & high in calories, so limit intake!)
Eat low glycaemic (GI) foods at breakfast to help control blood sugar levels
Carbohydrates are classified according to their glucose response or glyceamic index (GI). The GI measures how fast the carbohydrate of a particular food is converted to glucose and enters the bloodstream.
The lower the GI, the slower the food is converted to sugar and the longer it satisfies your hunger. Selecting low GI foods helps maintain normal blood sugar, minimises hunger pangs & satisfies appetite without providing excess calories.
Also, by controlling blood sugar levels, you prevent excessive eating binges as a result of low blood sugar levels. Remember to include low GI foods at each meal, and to avoid eating high GI foods on their own, but rather to mix them with low GI foods, which will give an intermediate GI overall.
Be aware of your cooking methods
By making small changes in your cooking habits, you can create great-tasting foods that are also healthy for you. Many of those treasured family-favourite recipes have a very high fat content for today's health-conscious living. Don't give up on your favourites – just convert them! Here's how:
· Always trim off excess fat from before cooking, or use venison, chicken and soya as lower fat options. Remove poultry skin & choose light meat (eg. breast).
· Cut down on fat intake during cooking:
- cook onions in a little water or vegetable stock rather than oil or butter
- use non-stick frying pans & non-stick sprays rather than oil or margarine
- bake, grill or roast foods rather than frying
- cook roasted meat or poultry on a wire rack so that the fat can drip off
- Steam or boil vegetables
- when preparing rice, noodles & other grains, season with herbs, spices & broths rather than added fat
- prepare soups, gravies & sauces in advance, so that they can be refrigerated, allowing you to remove the layer of fat that forms on top.
- Use herbs and spices to add flavour & zest to low-fat cooking. Basil, bay leaf, oregano, & rosemary add distinctive flavours & colours to meat & vegetables. Spices, like cinnamon, ginger & nutmeg enhance the sweet taste of foods, & seasoning blends, such as chilli powder, curry powder provide a complex array of flavours
· Avoid taking in too much salt
- Use garlic, dry mustard, pepper, onions, mushrooms & tomatoes to add flavour to meat and vegetables
- Add sliced lemon or lemon juice to white meats & fish
· Make healthy changes to recipes
Cut the fat in half - if a recipe requires cream or whole milk, use evaporated or fresh skim milk. If a recipe requires a whole egg, use two egg whites, etc.
Eat enough carbohydrate foods - especially those rich in fibre
These foods provide the body with energy. They are rich in B vitamins, and are an excellent source of fibre.
Hi-fibre foods also fill you up more than low-fibre counterparts. Foods high in fibre include brown rice, wholegrains, fresh fruit and raw veggies.
Remember your fruits and vegetables
Fruit and vegetables add colour and variety to the menu. They are "protective" foods as they help the body fight off sickness and disease. They are also rich sources of a variety of vitamins, minerals, and fibre, and are low in calories.
Drink sufficient fluid
Always include water in your diet, and cut down on caffeine-containing beverages. Caffeine is a diuretic and will not provide adequate hydration.
We all know that maintaining a balanced diet by eating healthily has a vital influence on your well being. Try following the above principles so that this fast period does not sway too much from the principles of good nutrition.
Source: www.themodernreligion.com
This article provides useful advice on how to avoid some common problems encountered in Ramadhan. The advice should enable one to fast comfortably and enjoy fully the spiritual benefits of Ramadhan.
During Ramadhan, our diet should not differ greatly from normal and should be as simple as possible. We should be able to maintain our normal weight, neither losing nor gaining. However, if one is over-weight, Ramadhan is an ideal time to lose weight.
We should aim to consume slow digesting foods including fiber-containing foods. Slow-digesting foods last up to 8 hours, while fast-digesting foods last only 3 to 4 hours.
Slow-digesting foods are foods that contain grains and seeds like barley, wheat, oats, semolina, beans, lentils, whole meal flour, etc. (complex carbohydrates).
Fast-burning foods are foods that contain sugar, white flour, etc. (refined carbohydrates).
Fibre-containing foods are bran-containing foods, whole wheat, grains, seeds, vegetables like green beans, peas, sem (papry), marrow, mealies, spinach, methie, fruit with skin, dried fruit especially dried apricots, figs and prunes, almonds, etc.
Meals should be well-balanced, containing foods from each food group, i.e. fruits, vegetables, meat/chicken/fish, bread/cereals and dairy products. Fried foods should be limited. They cause indigestion, heart-burn, and weight problems.
AVOID
Fried and fatty foods.
Foods containing too much sugar.
Over-eating especially at sehri.
Too much tea at sehri. Tea makes you pass more urine taking with it valuable mineral salts that your body would need during the day.
Smoking cigarettes. If you cannot give up, cut down gradually starting a few weeks before Ramadhan.
EAT
Complex carbohydrates at sehri so that the food lasts longer.
Haleem is an excellent source of protein and is a slow-burning food.
Dates are excellent source of sugar, fibre, carbohydrates, potassium & magnesium.
Almonds are rich in protein and fibre with less fat.
Bananas are a good source of potassium, magnesium and carbohydrates.
DRINK
As much water or fruit juices as possible between iftar and bedtime so that your body may adjust fluid levels in time.
Problems to Avoid
CONSTIPATION - Constipation can cause piles (haemorroids), fissures (cracks in anal canal) and indigestion, with a bloated feeling.
Causes: Too much refined foods, too little water and not enough fibre in the diet.
Remedy: Avoid refined foods, increase water intake, use bran in baking, brown flour when making roti.
INDIGESTION AND WIND
Causes: Over-eating. Excessive fried and fatty foods, spicy foods, and foods that produce wind e.g. eggs, cabbage, lentils, fizzy drinks like Cola also produce gas.
Remedy: Do not over-eat, drink fruit juices or water. Avoid fried foods, add ajmor to wind-producing foods.
LETHARGY ('low blood pressure')
Excessive sweating, weakness, tiredness, lack of energy, dizziness, especially on getting up from sitting, paleness and feeling faint are symptoms associated with "low blood pressure". This tends to occur towards the afternoon.
Causes: Too little fluid intake, decreased salt intake.
Remedy: Keep cool, increase fluid and salt intake.
Caution: Low blood pressure should be confirmed by taking a blood pressure reading when symptoms are present. Persons with high blood pressure may need their medication adjusted during Ramadhan. They should consult their doctor.
HEADACHE
Causes: Caffeine and tobacco-withdrawal, too much exercise, lack of sleep, hunger usually occur during the day and worsen towards the evening. When associated with "low blood pressure", the headache can be quite severe and can also cause nausea before Iftar.
Remedy: Cut down caffeine and tobacco slowly starting a week or two before Ramadhan. Herbal and caffeine-free teas may be substituted. Reorganise your schedule during the Ramadan so as to have adequate sleep.
LOW BLOOD SUGAR
Weakness, dizziness, tiredness, poor concentration, perspiring easily, feeling shaky (tremor), headache, and palpitations are symptoms of low blood sugar.
Causes in non-diabetics: Excessive sugar consumption i.e. refined carbohydrates especially at suhur (sehri). The body produces too much insulin causing the blood glucose to drop.
Remedy: Eat something at sehri, and limit sugar-containing foods and drinks.
Caution: Diabetics may need to adjust their medication in Ramadan, consult your doctor.
MUSCLE CRAMPS
Causes: Inadequate intake of calcium, magnesium and potassium foods.
Remedy: Eat foods rich in these minerals e.g. vegetables, fruit, dairy products, meat and dates.
Caution: Those on high blood pressure medication and with kidney stone problems should consult their doctor.
PEPTIC ULCERS, HEART BURN, AND GASTRITIS
Increased acid levels in an empty stomach aggravate the above conditions. It causes a burning feeling in the stomach area and can extend up to the throat. Spicy foods, coffee, and Cola drinks worsen these conditions.
Medications are available to control acid levels in the stomach. People with proven peptic ulcers and hiatus hernia should consult their doctor well before Ramadhan.
KIDNEY STONES
Kidney stones may occur in people who have less liquids to drink. Therefore, it is essential to drink extra liquids so as to prevent stone formation.
JOINT PAINS
Causes: Extra salah during Ramadhan increases pressure on the knee joints. In the elderly and those with arthritis this may cause pain, stiffness, swelling and discomfort.
Remedy: Lose weight so that the knees do not have to carry any extra load. Exercise the lower limbs before Ramadhan so that they can be prepared for the additional strain. Being physically fit allows greater fulfilment, thus enabling one to be able to perform salah with ease.
Source: Dr. Farouk Haffejee
Islamic Medical Association of South Africa - Durban
Saturday, July 24, 2010 1:33:00 PM
Fadhilat Ramadhan
Fadhilat Ramadhan ;Ibadah Puasa ; Solat Tarawih
A. Fadhilat Ramadhan
Hadith 1
Abu Hurairah ra. meriwayatkan bahawa Rasulullah SAW bersabda: "Umatku telah dikurniakan dengan lima perkara yang istimewa yang belum pernah diberikan kepada sesiapa pun sebelum mereka. Bau mulut daripada seorang Islam yang berpuasa adalah terlebih harum di sisi Allah daripada bau haruman kasturi. Ikan-ikan di lautan memohon istighfar (keampunan) ke atas mereka sehinggalah mereka berbuka puasa".
Allah mempersiapkan serta menghiasi jannah yang khas setiap hari dan kemudian berfirman kepadanya: "Masanya telah hampir tiba bilamana hamba-hambaKu yang taat akan meninggalkan segala halangan-halangan yang besar (di dunia) dan akan mendatangimu."
Pada bulan ini syaitan-syaitan yang durjana dirantaikan supaya tidak menggoda mereka ke arah maksiat-maksiat yang biasa mereka lakukan pada bulan-bulan selain Ramadhan. Pada malam terakhir Ramadhan (orang-orang yang berpuasa ini) akan diampunkan." Maka sahabat-sahabat Rasulullah SAW pun bertanya: "Wahai Pesuruh Allah, adakah itu malam lailatul Qadar?" Dijawab oleh Rasulullah SAW: "Tidak, tetapi selayaknya seorang yang beramal itu diberi balasan setelah menyempurnakan tugasnya."
Hadith 2
Ubadah Bin Somit ra. meriwayatkan bahawa Rasulullah SAW bersabda pada suatu hari ketika Ramadhan hampir menjelang: "Telah datang kepadamu bulan Ramadhan, di mana Allah melimpah ruahkan di dalamnya dengan keberkatan, menurunkan rahmat, mengampuni dosa-dosa kamu, memakbulkan doa-doa kamu, melihat di atas perlumbaan kamu untuk memperolehi kebaikan yang besar dan berbangga mengenaimu di hadapan malaikat-malaikat. Maka tunjukkanlah kepada Allah Taala kebaikan dari kamu. Sesungguhnya orang yang bernasib malang ialah dia yang dinafikan daripada rahmat Allah pada bulan ini."
Hadith 3
Abu Sa'id Al Khudri ra. meriwayatkan bahawa Rasulullah SAW bersabda: "Setiap hari siang dan malam pada bulan Ramadhan, Allah Tabaraka wa Taala membebaskan begitu banyak sekali roh daripada api neraka. Dan pada setiap orang Islam pada setiap hari siang dan malam doanya pasti akan diterima."
Hadith 4
Abu Hurairah ra. meriwayatkan bahawa Rasulullah SAW bersabda: "Terdapat tiga jenis orang yang doa mereka tidak ditolak; doa daripada orang yang berpuasa sehinggalah dia berbuka puasa; imam (penguasa) yang adil, dan orang yang dizalimi yang kerana doanya itu Allah mengangkatnya melepasi awan dan membuka untuknya pintu-pintu langit dan Allah berfirman: "Daku bersumpah demi kemuliaanKu, sesungguhnya Daku pasti menolongmu walaupun pada suatu masa nanti."
Hadith 5
Ibn Umar ra. meriwayatkan bahawa Rasulullah SAW bersabda: "Sesungguhnya Allah dan para malaikatNya mengirim rahmat ke atas mereka yang memakan sahur."
Hadith 6
Abu Hurairah ra. meriwayatkan bahawa Rasulullah SAW bersabda: "Barangsiapa berbuka satu hari di siang hari bulan Ramadhan tanpa alasan yang wajar (disegi syariah) atau sakit yang kuat, tidak akan dapat menampung atau mengganti hari tersebut walaupun akan berpuasa sehingga ke akhir hayatnya."
B. Ibadah Puasa
" Wahai orang-orang yang beriman, telah wajib ke atas kamu berpuasa sebagaimana telah diwajibkan ke atas umat-umat yang sebelum kamu, semuga kamu menjadi orang yang bertakwa."
Surah Al Baqarah, ayat 183
Ditegaskan oleh Rasulullah SAW melalui sabdanya yang diriwayatkan oleh Ahmad, An- Nasa'i dan Al Baihaqi dari Abu Hurairah, yang bermaksud:
"Sesungguhnya telah datang kepada kamu bulan Ramadhan bulan yang penuh berkat. Allah telah fardhukan ke atas kamu berpuasa padanya. Sepanjang bulan Ramadhan itu dibuka segala pintu Syurga dan ditutup segala pintu neraka serta dibelenggu segala syaitan......."
PENGERTIAN PUASA
# Puasa ertinya menahan diri dari makan dan minum dan dari segala perbuatan yang boleh membatalkan puasa, mulai terbit fajar hinggalah terbenam matahari.
PUASA WAJIB
# Puasa bulan Ramadan, puasa kifarat dan puasa nazar.
PUASA SUNAT
# Puasa enam hari pada bulan Syawal
# Puasa hari Arafah
# Puasa Hari Asyura pada 10 Muharam
# Puasa bulan Syaaban
# Puasa Isnin dan Khamis
# Puasa tengah bulan iaitu 13,14,15 pada tiap-tiap bulan qamaria (tahun Hijrah)
PUASA MAKRUH
# Puasa yang terus menerus sepanjang masa
# Tidak termasuk dua hari raya dan hari tasyriq
PUASA HARAM
# Puasa pada hari raya pertama Idil Fitri
# Puasa pada hari raya pertama Haji
# Puasa tiga hari sesudah hari raya haji atau hari tasyriq iaitu pada 11,12, dan 13 Zulhijjah.
SYARAT WAJIB PUASA
# Berakal
# Akhir Baligh (Cukup umur)
# Kuat atau mampu mengerjakan puasa
SYARAT SAH PUASA
# Islam
# Mumayyiz (dapat membezakan yang baik dan buruk)
# Suci daripada haid dan nifas
# Dalam waktu yang dibolehkan berpuasa.
RUKUN PUASA
# Berniat - Pada malam selama bulan Ramadhan hendaklah berniat di dalam hati bahawa kita akan mengerjakan puasa pada hari esok.
# Menahan diri daripada segala yang membatalkan semenjak terbit fajar sampai terbenam matahari.
PERKARA YANG MEMBATALKAN PUASA
# Makan dan minum dengan sengaja
# Muntah dengan sengaja
# Bersetubuh tanpa keluar mani pada siang hari bulan Ramadhan
# Keluar darah haid atau nifas
# Gila
# Keluar mani akibat bersetubuh dengan perempuan. Tetapi keluar mani kerana bermimpi tidak membatalkan puasa.
ORANG YANG DIIZINKAN BERBUKA ATAU TIDAK BERPUASA
# Orang yang sakit
# Orang yang dalam perjalanan jarak jauh melebihi 52 batu atau 80.64 km.
# Orang tua yang sudah lemah
# Orang yang hamil dan orang yang menyusukan anak.
C. Solat Tarawih
1. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Pertama
Diampuni dosa orang-orang yang beriman sebagaimana keadaannya baru dilahirkan.
2. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Kedua
Diampunkan dosa orang-orang yang beriman yang mengerjakan solat Tarawih, serta dosa-dosa kedua ibubapanya.
3. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Ketiga
Para malaikat di bawah 'Arasy menyeru kepada manusia yang mengerjakan solat Tarawih itu agar meneruskan solatnya pada malam-malam yang lain, semoga Allah akan mengampunkan dosa-dosa mereka.
4. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keempat
Orang-orang yang mengerjakan solat Tarawih akan memperolehi pahala sebagaimana pahala yang diperolehi oleh orang-orang yang membaca kitab-kitab Taurat, Zabur, Injil dan Al-Quran.
5. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Kelima
Allah SWT akan mengurniakan pahala seumpama pahala orang-orang yang mengerjakan sembahyang di Masjidil Haram, Masjidil Madinah dan Masjidil Aqsa.
6. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keenam
Allah S.W.T akan mengurniakan kepadanya pahala seumpama pahala malaikat-malaikat yang bertawaf di Baitul Makmur serta setiap batu dan tanah berdoa untuk keampunan orang-orang yang mengerjakan tarawih malam itu.
7. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Ketujuh
Seolah-olah ia dapat bertemu dengan Nabi Musa a.s serta menolong Nabi itu menentang musuhnya Fir’aun dan Hamman.
8. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Kelapan
Allah S.W.T mengurniakan pahala orang yang bersolat tarawih sebagaimana pahala yang dikurniakan kepada Nabi Ibrahim a.s.
9. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Kesembilan
Allah S.W.T akan mengurniakan pahala dan dinaikkan mutu ibadat hamba-Nya seperti Nabi Muhammad s.a.w.
10. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Kesepuluh
Allah SWT mengurniakan kepadanya kebaikan dunia dan akhirat.
11. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Kesebelas
Ia meninggal dunia di dalam keadaan bersih dari dosa seperti baru dilahirkan.
12. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduabelas
Ia akan dibangkitkan pada hari kiamat dengan muka yang bercahaya-cahaya.
13. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Ketigabelas
Ia akan datang pada hari kiamat di dalam keadaan aman sentosa dari sebarang kejahatan dan keburukan.
14. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keempatbelas
Malaikat-malaikat akan datang menyaksikan mereka bersolat Tarawih serta Allah S.W.T. tidak akan menyesatkan mereka.
15. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Kelimabelas
Semua malaikat yang memikul ‘Arasy dan Kursi akan berselawat dan mendoakannya supaya Allah mengampunkannya.
16. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keenambelas
Allah S.W.T. menuliskan baginya dari kalangan mereka yang terlepas dari api neraka dan dimasukkan ke dalam syurga.
17. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Ketujuhbelas
Allah S.W.T menuliskan baginya pahala pada malam ini sebanyak pahala Nabi-Nabi.
18. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Kelapanbelas
Malaikat akan menyeru: Wahai hamba Allah sesungguhnya Allah telah redha denganmu dan dengan kedua ibu bapamu (yang masih hidup atau yang sudah mati).
19. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Kesembilanbelas
Allah S.W.T akan meninggikan darjatnya di dalam Syurga Firdaus.
20. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduapuluh
Allah S.W.T mengurniakan kepadanya pahala sekelian orang yang mati syahid dan orang-orang soleh.
21. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduapuluh satu
Allah S.W.T akan membina untuknya sebuah mahligai di dalam syurga yang diperbuat dari cahaya.
22. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduapuluh dua
Ia akan datang pada hari kiamat di dalam keadaan aman dari sebarang huru-hara pada hari tersebut.
23. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduapuluh tiga
Allah S.W.T akan membina untuknya sebuah bandar di dalam syurga daripada cahaya.
24. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduapuluh empat
Allah S.W.T akan membuka peluang untuk dua puluh tahun ibadat bagi orang-orang yang mengerjakan solat Tarawih pada malam tersebut.
25. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduapuluh lima
Allah S.W.T akan mengangkat seksa kubur darinya.
26. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduapuluh enam
Allah S.W.T akan mengurniakan pahala empat puluh tahun ibadat bagi orang-orang yang mengerjakan solat Tarawih pada malam tersebut.
27. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduapuluh tujuh
Allah S.W.T akan mengurniakan kepadanya kemudahan untuk melintasi titian sirat sepantas kilat.
28. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduapuluh lapan
Allah S.W.T akan menaikkan kedudukannya seribu darjat di akhirat.
29. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Keduapuluh sembilan
Allah S.W.T akan mengurniakan kepadanya pahala seribu haji yang mabrur.
30. Kelebihan Solat Tarawih Malam Ketigapuluh
Allah S.W.T akan memberi penghormatan kepada orang yang bertarawih pada malam terakhir dengan firman-Nya (yang bermaksud): Wahai hambaku!, makanlah segala jenis buah-buahan yang Engkau ingini untuk dimakan di dalam syurga dan mandilah kamu di dalam sungai yang bernama salsabil serta minumlah air dari telaga yang dikurniakan kepada Nabi Muhammad s.a.w. yang bernama Al-Kautsar.
Saturday, July 24, 2010 1:14:38 PM
Introduction, Islam
Introduction to Islam
Islam is a Semitic religion, which has over one billion adherents all over the world.
Islam means "submission to the will of God".
Muslims accept the Qur’an, as the word of God revealed to His last and final prophet, Mohammed (peace be upon him).
Islam states that Allah sent messengers and prophets throughout the ages with the message of Unity of God, and accountability in the Hereafter.
Islam thus makes it an article of faith to believe in all the earlier prophets, starting with Adam, and continuing with Noah, Abraham, Ishmael, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, David, John and Jesus amongst many others (may peace be on them all).
Wednesday, July 7, 2010 3:17:16 PM
Salam alaikum...
Every women always wish for physical beauty but remember, inner beauty is more important than physical one because, it is useless for muslimah in having physical beauty, but neglecting the the improvement of character and it is useless to be beautiful if people around hate us because of our bad behaviour therefore, the beauty inside is more prioritize to defend muslimah dignity.
Keeping the beauty inside means giving an attention toward our own ethics and good character, beside, using body and sense for good deeds based on the rules of Islam for example, a beautiful of lip can not only be seen based on its phisically look, but the art of words and utterance that is said signifed its loveliness; the way of saying a word and good pronunciation gives deep impression for others.
Allah even also declare that one of of His servant good characteristic is based on their good utterance. Those who are humiliated by ignorant person, and they don't reply for it except using good and gentle words.
Allah The almighty said, “And the servants of the Beneficent Allah are they who walk on the earth in humbleness, and when the ignorant address them, they say: Peace.(al-furqan: 63)
A good muslimah won't say useless utterance…
Rasulullah said, “ one of the goodness of Islam in somebody is leaving anything insignificant for them”,dealing with the hadith,
Ibnu Rajab Al-Hambali said, “mostly, the interpretation of "leaves anything insignificant" are keep our lips and tongues for saying something useless ”
In Ad-daa` wa ad-Dawaa`,
Imam Ibnu Qayyim Al-Jauziyah explained further “keeping our tongues is avoiding our selves for saying something useless.
When someone say anything, they are supposed to found its kindness for them selves and islam. When we wanna speak something, we have to think first, whether it has benefit and kindness on it or not? ; when it contains no advantage, we better to keep quiet, and when it is useful we better think twice, is there any other useful words or not? so we dont have to waste our time for saying that first word”
Ghibah is also including to the case above. Once again, muslimah should pay attention for anything they want to say ; don't let your self doing ghibah; when every moslem woman watch over their tongues from disturbing or hurting others, insya Allah they will be the real one.
Rasulullah, may allah bless him and grant him peace, said, ”the real moslem is the one who could keep others from his own word and hand dangers (Moslem)
Beside, moslem should pay attention on their other part of bodies, such as their eyes ; to have a beautiful and awesome eyes, we have to look at people kindnesses, don't look thoroughly to their badness.
Allah the almighty, have said, “O you who believe! avoid most of suspicion, for surely suspicion in some cases is a sin, and do not spy nor let some of you backbite others. Does one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? But you abhor it; and be careful of (your duty to) Allah, surely Allah is Oft-returning (to mercy), Merciful. (Al-Hujurat: 12).
To have a beautiful and awesome eyes, we have to look at people kindnesses, don't look thoroughly to their badness…
Rasulullah, may Allah bless him and grant him in peace, had warned “ O all people who are believe only on their mouth but not in their heart, don't disturb moslem, do not disfigured them, don't you look thoroughly on their shame; whoever look thoroughly to the other moslem shame, undoubtedly Allah will look for their shame. If Allah has to look for their shames, undoubtedly Allah will open it although in their own houses. ” (At -Tirmidzi)
One more importing thing is using our eyes for anything that Allah The almighty and the Prophet really pleasure on it. In other words, we have to use it not for something bad. A good sight can be describe as magnificence spring, but also source of lust and desire.
Many humans are fall into sorrows and humilities, just because they can not controling their eyes. It happens because their eye can not make them to always thank to Allah, and do bad deeds. A moslem woman who always watch over their sights, can be insluded as a woman who pay attention to their dignity and their genitals. Whomever let their own eyes to see anything including the bad one, can be fall into destruction; that is why the prophet had confirmed, “bend your eyes and take care your genitals. ”
Then take care your ear from listening bid’ah, gossip, infamous and deviate word, or mention other person's errors ; ear is created to listen Allah verse and the prophet instructions. a pair of beautiful ear is the one which could take the benefits of islamic science.
Then good hand that a hand which is extended to help other moslems, by giving alms and tithe ; we are given hands; one is used to help us and other is used to help another person ; then Islam also teach that giving something is better than just accepting ; dealing with this case, one day, the prophet was asked by one of his wife, “who is the one that will meet you for the first time? ” with a tremble voice, the prophet answered, “who has the longest hand among you all? so he is the one who will meet me on first. ” the longest hands” meant by Rasulullah is the one who love to give alms to poor people.
So, we have to take good care our hand, don't used it to strike other moslems, or being worn to take prohibited goods and steals, don't used to hurt other Allah creature, or betraying a mandate. or writing forbidden words.
Then beautiful foot have to be used for Allah Blessing; take good care our foot from walking to forbidden places or going to unbeliever's area. because those are big sins and humiliateour selves ; don't use foot to hurt other moslems, but only for serving other people in Allah way, such as, visiting mosque, walking to learn Islam knowlege and make better relationship with others, going for Jihad, etc.
The Prophet had uttered, “ whomever let their foots to be on dust in Allah's way, so it is forbidden for him to entering the hell” he explained again, “Allah will guarantee the one who out for fighting in Allah's way" The prophet also said, “whoever going out with me to do jihad, because of their belief in Allah the almighty and justify all of my teachings, so I will guarantee him to entering the heaven. ”
Those matter are also include for human parts of body ; all things look so beautiful and awesome if those are used in Allah and the prophet' way. Physical beauty of muslimah is very influenced by their mind beauty ; to get slim body, just try to share your food with other poor people.
The real beauty a muslimah is not lays in their physical beauties or the luxury of their clothes but the beauty is very influenced by their behaviour and their loyalty to Allah and Rasulullah. The real beauty is reflected to the soul.
So moslemn woman has to make a shy feeling because of Allah the almighty as the blush ;
they use veil as the hair cosmetic ;
they doing the recitation as their lipsticks ;
the glasses of them are avoiding the eyes from immoral thing ;
ablution are their powder for light at hereafter ;
their beautiful foot are always used to attending science assembly ;
their arms are used for a kindness for others.
listening good things are beautiful earings for muslimah.
their bracelets are tawadhu.
their necklace are holinesses.
Wednesday, July 7, 2010 3:13:34 PM

The Muslim Woman "Unveiled"
By Izdehar Albowyha
You look at me and call me oppressed,
Simply because of the way I'm dressed,
You know me not for what's inside,
You judge the clothing I wear with pride,
My body's not for your eyes to hold,
You must speak to my mind, not my feminine mold,
I'm an individual, I'm no man's slave,
It's Allah’s pleasure that I only crave,
I have a voice so I will be heard,
For in my heart I carry His word,
"O ye women, wrap close your cloak,
So you won't be bothered by ignorant folk",
Man doesn't tell me to dress this way,
It's a Law from God that I obey,
Oppressed is something I'm truly NOT,
For liberation is what I've got,
It was given to me many centuries ago,
With the right to prosper, the right to grow,
I can climb mountains or cross the seas,
Expand my mind in all degrees,
For God Himself gave us LIBERTY,
When He sent Islam,
To You and Me!
Behind the veil I am the queen..
I have a body that nobody seen..
Many people think I am oppressed-
And wonder how I got myself into this mess..
My veil is my cure..
And makes my heart pure..
It earns me my love from Allah my Lord..
And makes me strong against any sword..
Behind my beautiful veil lies..
My savior from the temptation of guys!
'Behind my veil,' I begin to say..
'Is where I shall forever stay!'
Friday, June 25, 2010 6:51:58 AM
28 days past...
I can face a fierce lion ...
I can stand phyusical torture...
I can climb the highest mountain...
I can dive deep in the ocean....
I can survive even though have to fast through out the year...
But u my lovely angel....
Despite am trying hard to erase all my memories...
Despite am making myself busy with all crazy works...
Despite am asking GOD to help me....
I still can't forget u ..
U always in my heart ...
U always in my mind...
Forever...
Daddy love u madly n deeply
Saturday, May 29, 2010 2:11:37 AM

nite with my angel ....
most of my taught only for u
most of my time only occupied by u ....
now u were not with me any more
now am really lonely
now am unable to sleep well
now i dont have u to play with
now i dont have u to talk with
now i dont have u to hug and kiss
now i dont have u by myside...
but
i know ALLAH will give me a better one
or
perhaps ALLAH is mad with me for loving u ...
i accepted this situation for long
but i dont expecting so soon...
to my only angel
please take care
coz dad really love u
forever
and ever....