simple Things

Today I saw what life after divorce is for some persons, especially if they have commenced another relationship: a common place. Wanna see why? Just a few steps: 1- first the wife falls in love with the husband's best friend. The friend, seeing there a better "piece of meat" that the one he has secretly encourages that passion non regarding anything else. 2- the wife (or husband) gains courage and leaves the family house with the kid to the friends house. He had promised her that on matter what he would take care of them, her and the kid. 3- few months lather, generally two or tree she gets pregnant, what a better way to seal this yet young relation than to have a child? meaning a bond for life (just in case, wouldn't she or he wanted to return to some past). During this state of grace the child from her previous marriage was never in stake, everything was fine and her companion was even well payed. A happy new family. 4 - the new child is born, oh joy! Then, gradually, her older kid from the other relation starts to misbehave, she starts to demand even more and more to the ex even her share of the expenses because the kid's father in law refuses to pay what ever it is for the child. And the mother agrees. Then, both, say ; If you dont pay more we'll put the kid at your door.... It happened to me. Themselves, until three months ago had an opposite position. Is shelfishness surpassing the other feelings such as the mother's love?? :S