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everyday life of a stay at home mom/artist

For Selfish Reasons

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So…I was in the bathroom straightening my ‘permed’ hair rolleyes and I was thinking about an email that a good online friend of mine wrote me. She lives less than an hour from me, yet we have never met in person, as yet. I think we are going to meet and have a drink soon. (let’s plan it Nita!) Anyway she and a few others have asked about ‘what to blog about.’ I supposed that people in general should blog about whatever they want to…family life, music, poems, stories, a special subject such as their favorite celebrity… if that is what they want to write about.

I have to admit, blogging takes time and patience. It is not a simple task to take the time out of their busy life and sit down and write a complete journal entry about what is going on in their mind. Actually I think that writing is a God given gift…or just the ‘need’ to write. People learn and are stimulated in many different ways; some people are more prone to expressing their feeling in creating pictures, some are drawn to reading a long drawn out explanation or writing their own, others are musically inclined. I am interested in all aspects of art and creating so my blog is an eclectic mix of many different things. Painting, knitting, poems, ranting and music are things that I currently blog about. Current events interest me as well, but usually discuss those things by talking about them with my husband..lol.

I find that sometimes my blogging is a little selfish. I feel that I have to be selfish in my blog because in my everyday life it is about everything besides myself. It is about taking care of the home, the kids and the husband. I am not the type of person that likes to shop for new clothes or jazzy new shoes to fulfill my ‘me time’. I don’t go to a tanning bed, I don’t have my nails done every two weeks…I blog. Pathetic isn’t it? But as I look back and look forward on my life I see that I am doing exactly what I intended to as a child. Believe it or not, it was always a dream of mine to have 4 girls in the house. It reminds me of the book ‘Little Women’ that I loved so much or the T.V. series ‘Little House on the Prairie.” I always craved to be as nice, loving and understanding as ‘ma’ or ‘Caroline’ on Little House on the Prairie. I am not living on a prairie ‘technically’ but I am close to a prairie and there is a actual horse stable less than a mile from me.

*pause I hear my cell phone beeping…2 missed calls from the school. They caught me on the home phone because my little one was sick today! She seemed okay when she got home. bigeyes *I dunno.

Anyway..I guess my whole point is that you should blog about whatever is in your heart. Don’t try to be like others…being different is what people will love about you! If you want not to be known then make all your entries private! up And if you want feed back, go out in search of blogs that you feel you have similar interest with and begin contact with those folks.

Good luck in blogging all….I think it is the going to become more and more popular as the years progress in technology. Soon you will be able to type your best friend’s name in a google search to find out what they are doing right at that moment. Oh yeah..that is what Twitter is for. rolleyes
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Comments

Bad WolfCois Monday, September 10, 2007 11:52:06 PM

smile

Loiscakkleberrylane Monday, September 10, 2007 11:52:13 PM

I think the reason you blog instead of shopping etc. is because you are very creative. You also bring a great deal of plesure to other people through your blog - you give us interesting things to do, you start people thinking about things that they might not have thought of. You were the only one to think of asking people to write a story, you gave us all a lot of free stuff in your blog the other day. I think you are doing something very positive in all this.

KarenNerak Tuesday, September 11, 2007 12:36:57 AM

I totally agree with everything you've said. People have also asked me what they should blog about. After I get done looking like a deer in headlights bigeyes, I finally tell them that they should simply write whatever's in the forefront of their mind at that moment. That's what I do...although I'm the first to admit that my blog has absolutely no sense of organization & there's not a whole lot that's consistent about it. rolleyes I just write whatever's going on in my head at the time.

Anyway, I agree that a blog is a tool that means one thing to one person and another thing to someone else. *shrug*

Good luck with meeting your buddy! That sounds like a lot of fun. party If/when you guys finally meet in person, you'll have to take pictures! bigsmile I wish I lived closer to you so I could buy you a Rum Slushie thing or something. sad *sigh* Oh well...better to know you on the Net than not at all. I feel very blessed to have met you. heart

Yeah, okay...I'm going to shut up now. Sorry about the babbling! *blushes*

KarenNerak Tuesday, September 11, 2007 12:39:01 AM

P.S.
Why exactly did you perm it if you want it to be straight? lol

You're silly. wink

MarcusFXM256 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 3:35:14 AM

I have to agree with what Lois & Karen have said. You blog about interesting things that you like to share with others. It's a pleasure to read what you post up

Rippripp2002 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 4:20:12 AM

Good blog!!!!

Hiteshahitesha Tuesday, September 11, 2007 4:35:31 AM

this is such a sweet-nothings post!!

p.vishnurathanartworld.com Tuesday, September 11, 2007 4:45:55 AM

I have remembering the the date ...

September 11 th ,night ,

In chennai ,when i was finished my work in Pentamedia graphics ltd,my friends and myself joyfully talikig about our us -projects.when i got in the auto,the driver said ,blst in usa. i have stunned ,rushed to my flats ,seened the tv- o!,like the tower ,myself and my friends US PROJECT DREAMS are fell down and becomes ashes.

But still i am thinking myself I am like a bird of pheenix,from the burnt ashes ,its starts her journey,

now my journry is still travelling to the same path...

I deeply mourend the victimes and their families in the world.
let us pray to the god -

O! MY DEAR GOD,PUT a COMPLETE END TO IT...
On behalf of opera members ,worldcommunity,LIKE MY IT .TEMAMATES
Art world

maddysman2003 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 8:28:20 AM

blogging can be difficult, especially now that I work nights I have to make an extra effort to stay up with the news. I do find a lot of good political stories to blog about. I rarely blog about my personal life because it is just that. But yes, everyone has their own use for blogging and it should be a free form expression baseed on that persons desires.

maddysman2003 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 8:29:03 AM

oh, i forgot, i love the 30ish title, maybe I should be 40ish? just turned on 9/9/7

Juanitahunebn72 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 10:37:05 AM

do you think it is the fact that we have 4 kids that make us think alike?? i was just sitting down the other day telling my mom that once things slow down with the kids and all, i was gonna talk with ya about driving over to your texas town and meeting for some drinks and shopping at target! (yes i love target and we don't have one in my oklahoma town lol) from the first day i met you (on myspace, lol) up until now, i have felt like i have known you a life time. you always seem to give me the advice i need when i need it. i look forward to coming on line and seeing something that you have posted. and you are so right, blogging is hard work when you have a real busy schedule and all. but soon sarah, we are gonna have to meet and have a nice cold one and take lots of pics!!! luv ya

Bad WolfCois Tuesday, September 11, 2007 11:41:42 AM

Well... yesterday I was a little rushed and couldn't comment but what I wanted to say is, by sharing little details of ones life with others can be some sort of therapy in it's own rights..
Like it's your outlet to the days doings.. And by sharing you also see other peoples views and how they perceive the world (your world) and that makes you again see a situation from another vantage point..
Don't know if this makes any sense.. p

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 11:45:32 AM

Thanks all for stopping by.

Cois, thanks for the smile.

Lois, thanks for the compliments. *blush I like the writing exercises as well, I need to post another one and I have an entry saved in Word, but also need to post it under the exercise. Thanks to David aka Clean we have a proper writing forum. heart


Karen, I love the randomness of your blog. Your photoshop creations are so creative and fun! And you have skills that I could never dream of having. I heart u! (Ok going to pick you up before going to sis' house! p)

Thanks Marcus, LC and Hitesha. smile


Artworld, that is wonderful of you to think about the victims of 9-11.

Brian, Sounds like you have an extra busy schedule! Also ...40 is the new 30...but for me I think more like 25. lol Thoughts of a 40ish sound good. I usually do a 'google' search before picking my title to my blog. Before this the name of it was "ImmaMomDotCom." lol



Nita, heart I would love to meet ...get drunk and go shopping..lol Not drunk but you know...heheheh. I agree, since I met you I was drawn to your name "Queen Bee" I was thinking...this is someone that knows exactly what she wants! I have to admit I am and always have been attracted to strong personalities and those who are sure in them self. Thanks for all the wonderful messages that you send to us on CafeMom. About extra time...I feel that sometimes life seems to be moving so slow and other times I barely have time to brush my hair. I don't know how you do it, working and home! Those mothers are the true heros!!! up
Meeting and pics...I am ready for it.

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Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 11:48:55 AM

Hey Clint,
I was just leaving a comment when I saw you new and extended version. Therapy...I agree! I have worked through so many emotions by blogging and getting my feelings out. faint Issues with my father's death, issues of abandonment...the range is expansive. But yes...seeing life from a different view is what it going to make someone understanding and perceptive. It will also help you to become a more well rounded person and open to new ideas. up
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p.vishnurathanartworld.com Tuesday, September 11, 2007 1:04:38 PM

I feel, Like your beautiful still,your mind is also like...
"Face shows the index of the mind...


dear sarah!world is big...
person like me always at your good heart side,

I took part in your bitter parts of your life...

wishing you a happy days,beginnings

p.vishnurathanartworld.com Tuesday, September 11, 2007 1:09:34 PM

Sarah,


You are forgetting to see the still with flowergarden behind the window ...

now see the flowers...
Iam on the petals,colors,smells,

WE always near you ...
in the form of greeny grass,blossoms,bees,smells...

KarenNerak Tuesday, September 11, 2007 3:09:43 PM

Yesssssss! party

bdb47 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 3:25:10 PM

What a great blog post, I'm not a comedian or a politician so in my blog I just write what's in my mind as you say here, OK it's really boring for other people maybe but I can look back on it like a diary to reflect on what was in my mind last week/month/year whatever, after all blog is just an abbreviation of weblog which is in effect a web diary.

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 6:15:33 PM

Karen cheers babe!!!

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 6:16:18 PM

Brian,
That is the best way to do it! up

KarenNerak Tuesday, September 11, 2007 6:17:47 PM

cheers heart

JakeJJ-Jake Tuesday, September 11, 2007 7:26:21 PM

Fan Mail! lol
Wow...hate to say it out loud,but...DAMN YOUR GOOD!!! drunk ...anyways,thanks...you just made me come up with a range of ideas for my blog nervous ...just gotta get back to the drawing bored and brainstorm once more,thanks...Your the best! party

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Tuesday, September 11, 2007 9:00:49 PM

right What did I do? lol

Thanks JJ bigsmile

Froggyfbaggins Wednesday, September 12, 2007 1:46:04 AM

"for selfish reasons"
i agree with you.. as i am the same as you. though im not good in writting stuff and all, but i do make my blog a place where its all about me and the things that i love. with work, life and whatnots.. for me, my blog is a place to just relax.

my bf doesnt even know i have a blog.. im that selfish. faint lol

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Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Wednesday, September 12, 2007 2:12:26 AM

lol I know the feeling Aida. I don't encourage my best friend to visit my blog at all, because so much I am talking about her in it. bigeyes Ohhh the things I have said...bad me. sad

Froggyfbaggins Wednesday, September 12, 2007 10:36:31 AM

ahhh sarah.. but if she doesnt visit your blog, then she wouldnt know, then its alright. see? bigsmile

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Wednesday, September 12, 2007 10:53:00 AM

what they don't know won't hurt them....lol

Froggyfbaggins Wednesday, September 12, 2007 11:15:40 AM

lol yup!

Uncle MickMickeyjoe-Irl Wednesday, September 12, 2007 8:55:31 PM

I don’t go to a tanning bed, I don’t have my nails done every two weeks…I blog. Pathetic isn’t it?


Not at all. You enjoy it (so do we bigsmile ) it's not hurting anyone, there's a lot worse ways you could be spending your time.

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Thursday, September 13, 2007 1:50:55 AM

Thanks Mickey....I know...I could be doing something like parachuting off of planes in my spare time..oh I wish. p

Esther-Sugar Winxsugarwinx Thursday, September 13, 2007 7:25:28 AM

Awww.... iMom blogged about the essence of blogging itself... love

Well, I blog about my private life also. That makes us personal bloggers, iMom. smile

Bad WolfCois Thursday, September 13, 2007 9:19:18 AM

I blog for entertainment reasons..lol

~ Callya ~Callya Thursday, September 13, 2007 8:05:43 PM

Hey Sarah, thank you so much for this post.

To me, a baby blogger:p (i've only been blogging for four months), this post and your blog are an inspiration.
I'm slowly getting more comfortable with the whole blogging idea. I'm learning, and although Opera mini has it's limitations, i'm getting there.

Besides, our blogs, or at least mine, is a home away from home.
Thank you Sarah heart

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Thursday, September 13, 2007 9:21:00 PM

Esther, well there is nothing else going on with me that's why I blog about my personal life. lol but not all of it of course. lol

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Thursday, September 13, 2007 9:21:21 PM

Cois, I know! lol

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Thursday, September 13, 2007 9:22:29 PM

Callya, I totally agree..(about a home away from home) Totally!
I couldn't tell that you were a phone user...your blogs are so full of wonderful things!
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~ Callya ~Callya Friday, September 14, 2007 7:18:39 AM

Thank you Sarah. You're an inspiration to alot of us:heart:, keep it up:cheers:

Esther-Sugar Winxsugarwinx Saturday, September 15, 2007 7:02:07 AM

Of cos not, iMom!! up

Some parts about the private life should remain private. Like how many multiple orgasms I had last night. left lol

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Saturday, September 15, 2007 2:25:38 PM

Thanks Callya, wow...I am speechless. love

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Saturday, September 15, 2007 2:26:04 PM

Esther! tisk tisk

Esther-Sugar Winxsugarwinx Sunday, September 16, 2007 1:51:42 PM

lol

I did kept it private!! lol

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Sunday, September 16, 2007 6:51:17 PM

lol Well..I suppose if you think that 212,000 or more possible ppl could have seen it. Sure. smile

Esther-Sugar Winxsugarwinx Monday, September 17, 2007 9:15:44 PM

I just said multiple... I didn't say how many!! lol

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