Sarah Dreams

Wondering....

Monday, December 10, 2007 3:47:24 AM

Take a look if you dare.........

I asked Auntie Furie but I will also ask you intelligent folks.
How do you earn trust back from a friend after you have completely destroyed it?

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Dacotah # Monday, December 10, 2007 4:33:31 AM

Sarah, that is a very good question, it depends if that friend will want to or not than if the friend wants to it will take time. I pray that it will all work out in time.

Bad WolfCois # Monday, December 10, 2007 7:20:27 AM

Sometimes its safer to let a hornets nest be.. sometimes not.. depends on the person I guess..

H82typ # Monday, December 10, 2007 10:08:25 AM

*swats @ hornets*

H82typ # Monday, December 10, 2007 10:10:37 AM

*swats @ hornets*

Loiscakkleberrylane # Monday, December 10, 2007 10:56:56 AM

I would say, apologize sincerely, tell them that you hope that they will be forgiving and give you another chance, then show them how you are trying to earn back the trust. I think it's much easier for a person to get past it if they realize you recognize that you shouldn't have done it.

H82typ # Monday, December 10, 2007 11:49:13 AM

Yes,Sarah. What they said. Realize, though, it's going to take a long time to get a certain level of trust back. You also may never enjoy the same amount of trust from that person. *hugs*

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Monday, December 10, 2007 12:13:11 PM

Hummm, I have a lot to think about. Maybe it is not 're-gainable' But then again....I never lose faith..and I never give up on certain things so I will keep trying.

H82typ # Monday, December 10, 2007 12:24:42 PM

Just so long as you realize that, "Once bitten, twice shy" is not just an old saying.

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Monday, December 10, 2007 12:38:23 PM

It is not like it was a one sided thing....I think that this person was also in the wrong...I don't want to rehash things, but I am sure they knew it. Oh I am not pressing it at all. I will 'let nature take its course'

H82typ # Monday, December 10, 2007 12:47:43 PM

Ok. If you need a hand, and think I can help, let me know.

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Monday, December 10, 2007 1:02:16 PM

Thanks Dennis.

H82typ # Monday, December 10, 2007 1:25:25 PM

Loiscakkleberrylane # Monday, December 10, 2007 7:39:00 PM

Maybe if you show that you can be the adult and take responsibility for your part, the other person will step up and take responsibility for theirs too. I'm not sure it would be of value, but just an thought.

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Tuesday, December 11, 2007 12:55:44 AM

that is what I am trying ta do so maybe I will stick with that.

MarcusFXM256 # Tuesday, December 11, 2007 2:02:44 AM

I can't say it any better than Lois or Dennis did. That was some good advice they gave you

CherylDuckyChickenLady # Tuesday, December 11, 2007 1:28:41 PM

Ditto.

I hope things work out!

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Tuesday, December 11, 2007 5:27:22 PM

Thanks, I know it sounds a bit dramatic...but it wasn't so bad.

galadriel # Wednesday, December 12, 2007 12:58:43 PM

Cake? The way to someone's heart is through their stomach

H82typ # Wednesday, December 12, 2007 1:17:34 PM

Or, you could get em drunk!

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Wednesday, December 12, 2007 5:32:34 PM

thanks for the hint Galadriel...

Dennis,

MarcusFXM256 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 7:54:02 PM

Ooooo, Rum cake will do what Galadriel & Dennis suggested!

galadriel # Sunday, December 16, 2007 1:24:00 AM

Mmmm cake

I had some Christmas pudding yesterday yumm yumm

This is a stupid question, but is there Christmas pudding in America Sarah? Just that all I know about America, I have learnt from the Simpsons and I don't recall them eating Christmas pudding...

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Sunday, December 16, 2007 2:09:54 AM

Christmas pudding? Humm, I don't think so...unless you are talking about bread pudding..that is pretty popular around this time.

You learn about American through the Simpsons?

awww oh!

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v702/siddyboi10/B0002IQK7M.jpg -

galadriel # Sunday, December 16, 2007 11:03:39 AM

haha! Funny pic.
Oh ok. Here Christmas pudding is popular at this time. It's nice with custard

My auntie cooks it and it takes her 9 hours or something.

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Sunday, December 16, 2007 12:24:59 PM

9 hOurs?

That must be some good pudding! You should post pics!

galadriel # Sunday, December 16, 2007 12:29:42 PM