The things they do...
Thursday, December 13, 2007 2:23:52 PM
Hummm:eyes:
Thursday December 13, 2007
Well, yesterday I was in the kitchen finishing up the chicken and dumplings that I had started earlier in the day, the kids were home already from school and settled. For about 45 minutes I could smell wood burning, yet I hadn’t lit the fireplace, so I was really confused as to the smell. Opening the front door and walking outside, I was determined to find the chimney that the smoke was coming from because it was soooo strong, it smelled like it was coming directly from next door or my own. (neither of my neighbors has a chimney) So I was so curious!
I went back into the kitchen and could still smell the burning ….distinctly wood burning. I walked into the bathroom because one of my daughters has shown signs of being a bit of a pyromaniac so I was anticipating a small burn beginning somewhere. The bathroom wasn’t on fire….hummm…still hunting, hunting and sniffing like a dog around the house.
Making the chicken and dumplings, I used a whole cut up chicken and extra chicken breast, so that I only had minimal de-boning work to do…I hate that… plus little bones ALWAYS seem to get left in the pot…anyway, I took all the skin and bones and asked my artist daughter to put them in the bowl for the stray mother cat of the neighborhood. I started to unlock the back door and got a glimpse of a fire on the cement about 5 feet in width with flames almost reaching the top of the patio cover…that is wood by the way.
The only way to describe is to show a picture. I couldn’t think, couldn’t speak.. I could only imagine my house going up in flames, I was in panic mode, and I was in ‘put out the fire’ call 911 mode! I ran outside and turned on the back water, thinking the water hose was still there, but no..so I grabbed a bucket and yelled for the artist daughter to help me, we begun dousing the fire ….but it strangely spread out like a grease fire. All I could think is….who tried to burn my house down? We threw water on over and over…finally it began to smother… we took the water hose and soaked the hell out of the card board box that was on fire. Guess what box???!!!! The one that my husband plasma TV came in!
*sighI found out the truth about the fire after drilling the kids as to who was playing with fire…as if I had to, I knew who it was.
It was the pyromaniac that I had suspected. (RS for the record) Just a week before I found a burn mark in my bathroom carpet and we had a huge talk about it, I guess it didn’t work so well. Again, she had lit a toilet paper roll…and thinking that it was out, she UNLOCKED the backdoor, TOSSED it out and RELOCKED the door.
The fire was spreading because we had fire wood stored in a plastic container at the back door. The plastic had melted and when the water hit it, it spread like grease. I am going to start looking for fire hazards around the house but needless to say, it was preventable. Roof of back patio...
Melted disgusting mess.....I told my husband he should have torn that cardboard up and threw it away and he denied all charges....

Another angle at the mess...jeez.













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dɹɐzılpǝkɔıw ɐʞɐ ɹǝɥgɐllɐg lǝbɐsıwickedlizard # Thursday, December 13, 2007 5:12:43 PM
what are you going to do???
Stardancer # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:04:28 PM
His excuse? He was cold. He probably was, but sheeeesh.
He's now 26 years old. And he still plays with fire.
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:13:56 PM
I don't know yet. I see a bigger picture here. I see that this is going down in our big book of 'family happenings' but my husband doesn't see it that way. I am a little more relaxed about it, thinking that I am just happy that we are all safe and alive, blah blah. But HUBBY...uh no. He was royally pissed.
He wants to do this and that and whatever...I respect that he is upset, but I don't think he should punish her for the rest of the school year for it. I mean, after all...we are all ok. Whatever...I am so over it. So, I am numb about it all....I know how kids are in my heart...and yes she did get 'grounded' she can't be on the phone, computer, no friends for 2 weeks. So yeah...I am sad for her getting grounded. Sometimes I have such a soft heart towards the kids.
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:19:36 PM
It is good that you can laugh about it now.
Is he a fire fighter? I heard that many pyromaniacs are fire fighters.
Great job, though.
JDjrd2498 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:23:58 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:25:10 PM
JDjrd2498 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:31:45 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:40:54 PM
JDjrd2498 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:43:21 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:47:47 PM
JDjrd2498 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:51:40 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 6:53:46 PM
CherylDuckyChickenLady # Thursday, December 13, 2007 7:26:41 PM
It's good that she got a punishment...there definitely does have to be consequences to those kinds of actions...
It makes them think many times before contemplating stuff like that again.
We have a STRICT rule about fire here. It can turn deadly in seconds...it needs to be respected immensely.
We almost burned our house & farm down about 5 years ago...just by burning some garbage outside. It costed us about $3,000 in fines...thank God that was it.
So...we got a financial spanking!
JDjrd2498 # Thursday, December 13, 2007 7:51:13 PM
Stardancer # Thursday, December 13, 2007 9:23:56 PM
He also has a tendency to get spray cans, like hair spray and stuff like that, and lighters, and make "blow torches". He found a spiders' nest up under the eaves of the house one day, ran in and grabbed a can and a lighter, aimed and WHOOSHHHH!!!!!! Flames shot out, up, and over the roof! Almost set the roof on fire!
He looked at the can, and it turned out that it was carburetor cleaner, containing ether. (He had thought it was Lysol.)
All he said was, "COOL!"
KarenNerak # Thursday, December 13, 2007 9:28:50 PM
KimberlySqueakeyCat # Friday, December 14, 2007 12:25:00 AM
sarah, i totally agree with karen, but i also agree that she should b punished for what she did. u never know what will happen with something like that. and the next time, u may not know where it is, until its too late to b able to do something about it. i would definitely get her into counseling b4 it gets any further out of control.
JDjrd2498 # Friday, December 14, 2007 2:23:06 AM
KarenNerak # Friday, December 14, 2007 2:29:26 AM
JDjrd2498 # Friday, December 14, 2007 3:35:11 AM
KimberlySqueakeyCat # Friday, December 14, 2007 3:36:42 AM
Bad WolfCois # Friday, December 14, 2007 10:18:37 AM
Unregistered user # Friday, December 14, 2007 10:39:51 AM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Friday, December 14, 2007 11:24:57 AM
Were you punished as a child? And how is that working for you now? For some of you, you wouldn't know what it would be like to have it differently, so it is difficult posing the question to you. If you have not experienced it from both sides, (loving and strict discipline like myself), then it will be hard and maybe impossible for you to answer that question.
This child should know better, I am royally pissed about it because she is so 'book smart', you would think she had some sort of common sense. I am not going to spank her, she is almost taller than I am. But I am sure her dad would have no problem doing that. You know, I was punished A LOT as a child, and I remember rebelling against it...I don't know if it was because it was my step father punishing me or what, but I know that I respond better to someone calmly talking to me than someone losing their ever loving mind and going off on me. I know that she is the same way. I don't think it is right to cut a child *especially girls* from their friends. Socially communication is very important...but she 'done did it' this time! An after thought...when parents are out of control, I remember looking at them when I was younger thinking, "I hope I am never like that one day" Sorry to say, but my step father looked like a complete IDIOT when he was going off on us.
Joni, I am sorry to hear that. I would rather hear that she punished you out of love and protection.
Star, wow, that sounds just like my girl!
Bad WolfCois # Friday, December 14, 2007 11:39:10 AM
Still today I wouldn't punish a kid as I was..
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Friday, December 14, 2007 11:41:44 AM
Bad WolfCois # Friday, December 14, 2007 4:29:54 PM
Today by even whipping a kid is considered abuse..
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Friday, December 14, 2007 4:32:00 PM
KarenNerak # Friday, December 14, 2007 4:59:23 PM
I agree that punishing kids by physical means is not the best way to go about it. Don't get me wrong - there are some really good parents out there who spank their kids for punishments...I'm just not one of them. (My son's almost 6' tall, so if I were to spank him now, he'd pile-drive my ass!
You're a wonderful Mom, Sarah...one of the best I've seen in a very, very long time. Don't ever doubt your methods. Although we make mistakes sometimes, our kids will always know that we love and respect them more than anything.
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Friday, December 14, 2007 5:10:06 PM
This is what I live and believe in.....(you said)
Exactly! Now who's the good mom? Karen's the good mom! (said in one of those encouraging type voices.) Speaking of voices, I think I will do a voice post whilst the stew is stewing.
KarenNerak # Friday, December 14, 2007 5:11:19 PM
Bad WolfCois # Friday, December 14, 2007 6:11:53 PM
Stardancer # Friday, December 14, 2007 7:02:59 PM
Seriously, she'll probably learn from this the things she needs to learn. And, eventually, she'll learn to channel that enormous streak of creativity she's gotten from "somewhere"
You are a good mom!
JDjrd2498 # Friday, December 14, 2007 11:12:53 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 12:36:27 AM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 12:37:37 AM
KarenNerak # Saturday, December 15, 2007 12:37:57 AM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 12:38:27 AM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 12:39:17 AM
SIRAN M. YATESsiran11 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 2:21:55 AM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 2:23:00 AM
SIRAN M. YATESsiran11 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 2:27:05 AM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 2:35:19 AM
I informed her that she wouldn't want to see us burned up either...well of course she agreed but said, "you guys act like I really have a problem, like I need to be in the State Hospital or something."
SIRAN M. YATESsiran11 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 2:38:17 AM
JDjrd2498 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 3:50:03 AM
Bojanrolling_thunder # Saturday, December 15, 2007 2:58:59 PM
However, yeah, I almost lit the major fire by burning some garbage. It was autumn and the grass was dry and dead, so the fire spread a little bit quicker than anyone expected... O_o
MarcusFXM256 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 3:51:40 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 5:03:22 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 5:04:24 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, December 15, 2007 5:05:05 PM