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One Year Smoke Free, I beat the habit!

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I felt like I should really talk about quitting the habit of smoking. Last year at this time I learned that my blood pressure was elevated and I was feeling slow, sluggish and not myself.

January of 2008 I decided that I was going to throw away the last 7 NEWPORT 100s and quit cold turkey. I couldn't keep going on smoking day after day...putting my kids at risk from the second hand smoke. We all know (or should know) what cigarettes do to your lungs, blood, and heart. I couldn't be more proud that I was able to quit before it was too late to fix all the issues that it has caused. So...I am giving a pat on my back and saying "Good job Sarah" for putting down this disgusting habit that more than likely killed my father. irked The cigarettes made me so angry, yet gave me so much comfort.

The whole big fat deal to 'babysit' your smoking habit was also part of the addiction. Making sure you had a pack, making sure you had a light, making sure where you could go would have a 'smoking section'. I mean, it is all a stupidly ridiculous, time consuming habit!

Now that I have quit, my hair smells wonderful, my skin smells heavenly. I am not constantly trying to cover up the smoke smell with gum, perfume and mints. I don't feel like hocking up a wad of snot in the AM. Let's get real folks, smoking isn't pretty.

I hope that I hear from some of you that have quit smoking as well. love

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-Sarah

PS-I DON'T miss it!

Doing the IroningVenting...I'm gonna blow if I don't vent!!!!

Comments

Mrs. HermitessHermitess Monday, January 12, 2009 5:42:33 PM

YAY! party cheers

Another pat on the back from me!

I've never been a smoker but know others who were (yes WERE, go dad! Pat on the back for you too).

Good job on all your hard work. bigsmile

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Monday, January 12, 2009 6:30:46 PM

Thanks so much L!

I agree about giving others a pat on the back as well, even if they are smoke free for only a few days. up

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Dorte Jakobsendortejakobsen Monday, January 12, 2009 7:21:01 PM

Congratulation to you - and your children!
- and thank you for adding me as your friend smile

I smoked for 10 minutes once when I was around 12 years old. A friend and I STOLE one of my father´s cigarets and shared it. After half a cigarette our faces turned green and we threw the rest away yikes
I told my father many years later and we agreed that something good may come out of crime smile

Stardancer Monday, January 12, 2009 10:15:12 PM

Congrats, Sarah! partypartyparty

I know how hard it is, personally. In May, it will be three years that I have been nicotine-free, after smoking for the better part of 31 years. Every day, I watch the long-term effects of smoking in my own mother, who lives with COPD and emphysema, heart disease, and various other ailments, turning off her oxygen so she can light up that next cigarette, hiding her habit and actually believing that she's fooling everybody. It's a sad way to live. Or not.

Never forget what it was like, Sarah.

Always remember what you have accomplished, and what you have done for your family.

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HenrySpicyFlier Tuesday, January 13, 2009 2:48:57 AM

Congratulations Sarah!
I'm pretty much the only person in my family who has never smoked. However, all of my family members have now stopped - even my parents, who smoked for the better part of 55 years (cold turkey, both of them)!! It's so much nicer to visit their place without the smell.
party party up

Dacotah Tuesday, January 13, 2009 4:18:24 AM

up party Way to go Sarah party
I still smoke, been tring to quit.

Bad WolfCois Tuesday, January 13, 2009 8:25:57 AM

Congratulations smile i quit trying to quit so a pat on the back for me too! party

maddysman2003 Tuesday, January 13, 2009 1:25:40 PM

Great job!!! You are adding years to your life which your friends and family appreciate.

CherylDuckyChickenLady Tuesday, January 13, 2009 3:22:06 PM

Congratulations!! party party I know how hard it is to quit only through observing my hubby who did it as well! It was hard for him!

I have to laugh at this..

I don't feel like hocking up a wad of snot in the AM. Let's get real folks, smoking isn't pretty.

I think that would have cured me -had I a smoking habit! p yuck heart

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Tuesday, January 13, 2009 4:39:32 PM

o Thanks all. p I have to say....I had some great online support, so thank you all my online friends. Seriously. Especially "stardancer" I went back and forth with her about smoking and not smoking. smile

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beimprimatur Tuesday, January 13, 2009 5:40:51 PM

excuse me, you didn't beat the habit. my friend is an alcoholic. he quittied drinking 4 years ago, but never says he quitted drinking. yeah, smoking and drinking isn't the same, but ...good luck!

KarenNerak Tuesday, January 13, 2009 6:00:54 PM

I am SO proud of you, Sarah! yes love

I totally agree that smoking is a horrid habit. It's disgusting on all levels...and I don't miss it either. yuck

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Tuesday, January 13, 2009 6:06:33 PM

beimprimatur, Come again? I have a family that can back up the
fact that I quit. wink

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Tuesday, January 13, 2009 6:08:29 PM

Karen,(bff)
That coming from you makes me feel very good. I am so glad that you quit as well...and I hope that we both stay smoke free! love

KarenNerak Tuesday, January 13, 2009 6:18:28 PM

I know one way to make sure we both do. We can make a pact with each other to never smoke again! I pinky swear that I will not ever smoke again. love

Mad Scientist (عادل)qlue Wednesday, January 14, 2009 6:51:23 AM

Hell, forget about he years added to your life. The real reward is the improvement to your quality of life. yes.
No more 'headaches' that aren't actually headaches, no more not being able to sleep 'cos you don't have a cigarette, no more constant sinus problems that are just your body's reactions to noxious chemicals beins imbibed. Waking in the morning and feeling refreshed instead of exhausted. Only smokers and ex smokers will really understand just how much smokers hate smoking. awww.
You are blessed to have taken back your quality of life from that vicious slave driver called nicotine. yes

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Wednesday, January 14, 2009 8:32:39 PM

Karen, Ok...I pinky swear! bigsmile heart

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Wednesday, January 14, 2009 8:34:46 PM

Aadil,

Soooo true! So...you were a smoker? Didn't know that.

KarenNerak Wednesday, January 14, 2009 10:04:01 PM

Hooray! yes

MsBeHaven Thursday, January 15, 2009 12:29:10 AM

Congrats! This is my next goal.

Cleanclean Thursday, January 15, 2009 7:02:29 AM

excuse me, you didn't beat the habit. my friend is an alcoholic. he quittied drinking 4 years ago, but never says he quitted drinking. yeah, smoking and drinking isn't the same, but ...good luck!



It's based on the AA model, I suspect ... even if a person hasn't had a drink in 50 years, they still have to think they're an alcoholic (to guard against their ever giving in to temptation and drinking again, which could lead to a relapse of alcoholism, etc) ... which (IMO) is a complete slap in the face to their achievement (but whatever works for them, I suppose). Beimprimatur meant well.

Good going, S! smile

beimprimatur Thursday, January 15, 2009 5:27:28 PM

good luck! sincerely smile

Uncle MickMickeyjoe-Irl Friday, January 16, 2009 6:38:15 PM

Good for you. yes

pssst Don't forget all the money you're saving. wink

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Friday, January 16, 2009 8:20:19 PM

K, p

MsBeHaven, Ooo please do it! You won't regret it. smile


David, I realized that. But it's ok to tell someone you don't agree with on your own blog to shut up and go away if you want to. (in a round about way) As far as I am concerned, I don't like the whole AA idea. I have beat the habit no matter what popular opinion is. wink Thanks for the congrats. bigsmile

beimprimatur, I want to say thanks...and I don't need luck. I have my mind made up...come on I am sure you know the feeling....

scott cummingIArtMan Tuesday, January 20, 2009 2:57:17 AM

good going sarah. i did it once for ten years.
i hope you last a lifetime. i got started again with just one cigarette. i'm planning to quit again soon myself... i love to smoke but it's just too much trouble, expense and besides it'll kill ya. heart

Mad Scientist (عادل)qlue Wednesday, January 21, 2009 12:37:43 AM

awww That's the way it is with any drug, it takes just one to be addicted all over again. I hate being addicted! irked.
People who've never been addicted to anything just don't understand how hard it is leave it. awww

prophetone Saturday, January 24, 2009 6:58:50 PM

Hi Sarah! I quited some eleven years ago(seems like a lifetime) and I enjoy eating lots of chocolate instead... but now and then I really long for a cop of black coffee and two cigarettes or so. I still like the smell of tobacco, in fact I love it! I hope I'll never begin again - but you never can be sure, can U?

Unregistered user Thursday, September 17, 2009 12:08:20 PM

jason writes: ive now on my fouth week

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Thursday, September 17, 2009 12:48:40 PM

up Congrats!

MsBeHaven Thursday, September 17, 2009 7:53:52 PM

I am taking Chantix to quit smoking. The Chantix really does work, and works well... problem is the side effect for me is that it makes me so nauseous for a hour or more after I take it.... now I have to quit smoking so I can stop taking that medicine!!! ha ha
That's not the way it's designed to make you quit, but hey, whatever works I guess.irked

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Friday, September 18, 2009 1:26:12 AM

I have heard that stuff really works. up I think that is what my brother took to quit. smile Good for you. I really don't miss smoking one little bit. It stinks and makes you smell like an ash tray. It's just nasty to me now.

MsBeHaven Friday, September 18, 2009 4:20:14 AM

Yep, my favorite "smoking" saying is that "kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray".
I know, I am a smoker but I hate it and do NOT WANT to be one. It's soooo disgusting. I absolutely can't stand it and can't wait to be NON SMOKING. I quit in July, but 10 days later my sister died and I slipped up, had a cigarette then before you know it I had another, and another, and another... right back to square one.
This time I am doing well. I've been on Chantix for a week tomorrow. I had half a cigarette this morning, then didn't even think about them (or realize I hadn't thought about them) until 3:30 this afternoon! Yay me!
smile
So I've had 3 today.
I'm GOING to beat this addiction!!!!!!

scott cummingIArtMan Friday, September 18, 2009 6:21:56 AM

i quit for ten years once and one year twice. my way was just to throw the pack out the window of the car and never buy another one. but i am smoking again. i'm going to die anyway, i may as well enjoy life.

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Friday, September 18, 2009 10:48:00 AM

Originally posted by MsBeHaven:

I'm GOING to beat this addiction!!!!!!



Yes you are! You can do it, I know. I really have no advice on how to quit, because everyone is so different...ya know? I am so happy that you are quitting despite the loss of your sister. sad I am so sorry to hear that.

It's about feeling better in general. I noticed Scott (artman) mentioned he is going to die anyway.

Scott, I really think that smoking fills your body with toxins and makes you feel bad. I am surprised to see that coming from you. sad I really hope you feel better soon...

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Cleanclean Saturday, September 19, 2009 1:14:38 PM

Good on you everyone who's quit. What worked for me is Allan Carr's Only Way to Stop Smoking Permanently. If you're having trouble, give it a read. Like I said, it worked for me. smile

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Saturday, September 19, 2009 1:20:05 PM

That's great, David. Thanks for the link..hopefully someone can use it I am sure they will. up

Unregistered user Friday, January 29, 2010 3:21:07 PM

Ian writes: Good for you Sarah, I quit on March 23 of last year so I'm heading very close to my one year mark, what a change that's all I can say, no more hacking up a lung in the morning, no more smelling like an ass, it's awesome and I have no regrets when it comes to putting that filthy habit away permanently.

scott cummingIArtMan Friday, January 29, 2010 8:24:04 PM

*gives sarah a pat on the back. warning...

this may not happen to you but i say it anyway. i had quit smoking for ten years.

one cigarette... only one, got me going again. since then i have quit for one year again twice. i could say a lot more. but just be on your guard forever. cool

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Monday, February 1, 2010 9:01:50 PM

Hi Scott!
I have your package finally on the way! Well, I have had a puff or cigarette or two and I haven't gone back. It's strange, I don't crave it at all even after having a drag.
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scott cummingIArtMan Monday, February 1, 2010 11:46:52 PM

oh goody happy

you were lucky then. you don't have the 'addictable' obsessive or is it compulsive gene. sherlock

i do. but it's a good gene in some ways. it helps with working at art. cool

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Saturday, February 20, 2010 3:06:48 PM

Scott, did you get your cookies? Sorry I was so late! bigsmile

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Saturday, February 20, 2010 3:07:15 PM

Oh, and I want to share some of my own little art work today.. smile

prophetone Saturday, February 20, 2010 7:12:22 PM

I need a chocolate Cake - a BIG One. Whenever somebody walks by with a cigarette in their mouth, I feel the good smell and wish I had just One cigarette...just One. I'll always come through this thing with another large Chocolate Cake. p

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Saturday, February 20, 2010 7:26:39 PM

Mmm do you think chewing gum will help you at all? I can't stand the smell of cigarettes anymore, thank GOD.

prophetone Saturday, February 20, 2010 7:32:26 PM

THAT smell is just wonderful! I LOVE it!! So 2 quit the habit is one thing, 2 live without tobacco is another...
I tried chewing gum with Nicotine - and ended up smoking, chewing and taking snuff every day lol

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Saturday, February 20, 2010 7:36:54 PM

Oh no, you really were addicted. Snuff just grosses me out, seeing others spit it.

So...you don't do nicotine anymore?

Mad Scientist (عادل)qlue Sunday, February 21, 2010 8:25:47 PM

I've just discovered the e-cigarette. left.
Patches and gum never worked for me! rolleyes.

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Sunday, February 21, 2010 10:12:40 PM

What is that Aadil?

Mad Scientist (عادل)qlue Monday, February 22, 2010 2:34:58 AM

Sarah Dreamsangel292005 Monday, February 22, 2010 2:26:11 PM

So is it working for you?

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