My OperaGetting some things off....my mind!
Thursday, May 21, 2009 8:40:26 PM
I really need to get some things off of my chest....(because I know YOU are reading)
There are a few people here in the My.Opera community that hate me. Well...maybe not HATE me but I know they don't like me that is for sure! They accuse me of making more of a subject than what is involved and blah blah blah. When Karen and I got into the disagreement/fight situation I kept quiet about it for the most part, because I felt it was all childish and sorry but....something people in trailer parks do.
So anyway...we are here now...friends again. Karen made an apology video to me, and I thought that was really sweet and I just couldn't believe the bravery in her.
I just watched it again and I felt like I couldn't tell her thank you enough. I just felt like 'thank you' wasn't enough words.She has bigger balls than most men to apologize and post it for the world to see!!
I gave her one back, but NO ONE knows where it is, except for her. What I want to know is...why did all you people come out of the wood work and write Karen about how much you despise me, etc. It is so stupid to ask someone who was making it a point NOT to talk about me!! It just really ticks me off! If you don't like me and want to tell someone, then tell me!! Grow yourself a pair and write me. I even have my email address above that is completely public.
And then Karen clearly stated that she didn't want any slack about her decision, and sure enough she got it. That means that someone wasn't respecting her wishes. I wish someone wouldn't respect mine and tell me what they think!
"ohhh Sarah is over reacting again" YES I AM! If you don't like me then tell me. Trust me, I am not a baby and I won't go crying to mommy about it. The only time I cried was when I lost Karen as a friend. All the rest of you haters can go take a long walk off of a short pier. I love all of my friends....but I love it more when someone is honest with me.
When someone tells you the truth...it is because they love you and want what is best for you... If you can't tell ANYONE the truth then why even bother having friends? *meh* That's just me and the way I think...
I am shocked about some of the things I heard....
It's not any of you that visit my blog...it's others who visit and don't comment. Waaaa they don't like me.
-Sarah
maddysman2003 # Thursday, May 21, 2009 8:47:14 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Thursday, May 21, 2009 8:50:58 PM
Mrs. HermitessHermitess # Thursday, May 21, 2009 10:24:30 PM
I dont know if anyone hates me, if they do they aren't saying.
That whole fight is between you and Karen. I'm glad you gals are pals again, it's hard to lose a good friend!
*Big Hugs*
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Thursday, May 21, 2009 11:05:54 PM
I SERIOUSLY doubt that anyone hates you!
*hugs*
Sansanshan # Friday, May 22, 2009 2:15:50 AM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Friday, May 22, 2009 4:21:05 AM
On another note...I hope you are doing better. I really need to come and check out your blog again. I was so saddened to hear the news about Lola. I know the feeling all too well.
KarenNerak # Friday, May 22, 2009 9:03:33 AM
Then again, how would a person go about telling another person they don't like them, ya' know? I mean, getting a PM that says, "I don't like you and I just thought you should know" would be pretty freakin' rude.
I think the solution is to keep negative opinions about other people to ourselves. Seriously. Even if they told you, Sarah, what good would it do...other than make you feel like shit. (You can say it wouldn't hurt, but you know it would. You have a big heart and are sensitive. I know it'd hurt me immensely to get a PM or email like that.) The solution is for people to simply keep their negative opinions about others to themselves. Don't go telling other people, "I don't like her" or worse...just keep it to yourself.
That's just my opinion, of course. But now that we're friends again (and thank God we are), I'm afraid that if I heard that you got a message from someone saying that they hated you, I'd be tempted to become homicidal. You know how protective I get of my friends.
Anyway, I know you're upset - and with every right in the world to be upset...but the bottom line is this: Consider the source.
BTW - I loves me some Sarah no matter what ANYBODY has to say and/or think about it. They can all bite my lily ass. It is my life and OUR friendship. Not their business at all.
beavidal # Friday, May 22, 2009 11:02:42 AM
Cleanclean # Friday, May 22, 2009 12:43:57 PM
starree # Saturday, May 23, 2009 2:17:34 AM
Hopefully you won't have to deal with too much more drama that sucks to hear.
I have a hard enough time avoiding it at work (FYI: if men EVER say they don't gossip they are liars !
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, May 23, 2009 2:33:26 AM
Bea, Hahahah....you know them.
Dave, I read that as "I still stalked both of ya"
Star, Hi! I dropped by your blog earlier. yeah drama
JDjrd2498 # Saturday, May 23, 2009 3:47:08 AM
I never even heared about this till the other day on FB. I am really glad your both freidns again.
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, May 23, 2009 2:52:05 PM
Subject To Be Deletedgopal_mahadeva # Saturday, May 23, 2009 6:29:04 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Saturday, May 23, 2009 10:40:07 PM
Subject To Be Deletedgopal_mahadeva # Sunday, May 24, 2009 12:17:16 AM
Well, I have not been here so frequent. But no onwards I will be here often. This is the place I used to love a lot and still do.
KarenNerak # Sunday, May 24, 2009 6:34:07 AM
Cleanclean # Sunday, May 24, 2009 9:44:17 AM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Sunday, May 24, 2009 3:34:40 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Sunday, May 24, 2009 3:36:11 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Sunday, May 24, 2009 3:37:09 PM
KarenNerak # Sunday, May 24, 2009 6:39:31 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Sunday, May 24, 2009 6:43:45 PM
JDjrd2498 # Monday, May 25, 2009 8:11:01 PM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Tuesday, May 26, 2009 12:21:30 AM
Subject To Be Deletedgopal_mahadeva # Tuesday, May 26, 2009 12:25:43 AM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Tuesday, May 26, 2009 12:29:07 AM
Subject To Be Deletedgopal_mahadeva # Tuesday, May 26, 2009 12:29:48 AM
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Tuesday, May 26, 2009 12:33:54 AM
Cleanclean # Tuesday, May 26, 2009 12:50:56 AM
Karen went to the butt doctor ... ?
Sarah Dreamsangel292005 # Tuesday, May 26, 2009 12:56:01 AM
KarenNerak # Wednesday, May 27, 2009 12:00:48 AM
JDjrd2498 # Wednesday, May 27, 2009 2:23:56 AM
CherylDuckyChickenLady # Wednesday, May 27, 2009 4:17:38 PM
Rickcwbywz # Sunday, May 31, 2009 5:31:42 AM
KarenNerak # Sunday, May 31, 2009 6:10:06 AM