The purpose to have a blog
Tuesday, 27. January 2009, 12:58:27
When you create a blog, you have a purpose.
Some want to share histories of life. Some want to expose themselves. Some want to expose their thoughts and art. And some just want to show their opinion.
Whatever is the purpose, I think that blogs must have manners rules.
If I own a blog, I'm allowed to write what I want to. If you visit it, you read and you can answer or not. It's your choice. I can't preview if what I write will be fine to you or not. I can't preview if some words can offend or not. I have the right to write, to show my opinion.
If you want to answer, that's ok. It's your right too. But don't go to a blog thinking that all that you write will be accepted and agreed. Don't go to a blog full of arrogance. Don't think that because you have a nationality different from others, you're better than them.
If you don't agree with what is written, just ignore it. Nobody must agree. You just leave this blog and don't need to return. Block this user if this please you.
But keep writing like you're the owner of the truth and like people are stupid. This is not a way to relate with people.
I'm very pissed with people with attitude like that. It's not a way to make friends (if this is the main objective of a blog). It's not polite. Isn't nice.
In the end of the history you feel like your hands and feet are tied, you can't do nothing. And seems that YOU is the only wrong in it. Isn't it uncomfortable? You're invaded like that and in the end you have to shut your mouth?
This is outrageous!
Some want to share histories of life. Some want to expose themselves. Some want to expose their thoughts and art. And some just want to show their opinion.
Whatever is the purpose, I think that blogs must have manners rules.
If I own a blog, I'm allowed to write what I want to. If you visit it, you read and you can answer or not. It's your choice. I can't preview if what I write will be fine to you or not. I can't preview if some words can offend or not. I have the right to write, to show my opinion.
If you want to answer, that's ok. It's your right too. But don't go to a blog thinking that all that you write will be accepted and agreed. Don't go to a blog full of arrogance. Don't think that because you have a nationality different from others, you're better than them.
If you don't agree with what is written, just ignore it. Nobody must agree. You just leave this blog and don't need to return. Block this user if this please you.
But keep writing like you're the owner of the truth and like people are stupid. This is not a way to relate with people.
I'm very pissed with people with attitude like that. It's not a way to make friends (if this is the main objective of a blog). It's not polite. Isn't nice.
In the end of the history you feel like your hands and feet are tied, you can't do nothing. And seems that YOU is the only wrong in it. Isn't it uncomfortable? You're invaded like that and in the end you have to shut your mouth?
This is outrageous!
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WIDGETIZE
David Scott Aubrey # 27. January 2009, 13:05
steven # 27. January 2009, 14:19
FT back
Kitty # 27. January 2009, 14:30
Carol # 27. January 2009, 22:12
steven # 27. January 2009, 22:13
Bea # 27. January 2009, 23:06
Ste... I'm not sure if f** back is the solution... this kind of people never stops...
Z... yes, we're all different, and we must respect each other. But ignore this user maybe won't be fine once this person has many friends in common with me...
Carol
Ste, again!
Carol # 28. January 2009, 00:37
steven # 28. January 2009, 00:40
Bea # 28. January 2009, 01:29
steven # 28. January 2009, 01:55
Marcus # 28. January 2009, 04:14
Bea # 28. January 2009, 13:05
That's the spirit! If you're in a blog and you don't like, just ignore it, don't comment... or simply, you don't need to be arrogant. You can show your opinion but politely... some people can't be like that unfortunately.
Thank you once more!!
solid copper # 31. January 2009, 05:27
Nice new blog theme, by the way.
steven # 31. January 2009, 20:41
solid copper # 31. January 2009, 20:51
steven # 31. January 2009, 21:13
Bea # 31. January 2009, 21:46
Thank you for have liked my mew theme!
steven # 2. February 2009, 23:37
Bea # 3. February 2009, 11:28
daxonmacs # 7. February 2009, 13:40
People also tend to forget that discussing on a topic doesn't mean you need to convince the other. It is interesting enough to learn about other people's view on things in itself.
One image or poem can mean three different things to three different people.
Whose to say which one is right.
I know I am, but I remain, humble and silent
Bea # 8. February 2009, 02:49
Yes, you don't need to convince people, but sharing is most important, and I've to say, more funny!
daxonmacs # 8. February 2009, 03:02
Bea # 8. February 2009, 14:12
daxonmacs # 8. February 2009, 14:59
David # 9. February 2009, 23:13
As you may know, my blog has been under an attack by a person that I know in real life that will say and do anything to discredit me personally.
While I have limited comments for the time being to my Opera friends while I deal with the matter, I am very disappointed that my Opera friends seem to have decided to boycott my blog or something--The only comment that has been posted was from my friend Angeliki, since the the attacks. I ASKED her to make a comment to be sure it was still working.
I am considering not making any further posts. It is a sad state of affairs!
Bea # 10. February 2009, 01:09
In my case, I didn't explain in this post, but I told to Zaphira today about it: http://my.opera.com/Zaphira/blog/some-people?cid=6952793&startidx=50#comment6952793
There you can have an idea what happened to me.
Being attacked for someone you know in real life is worse than someone who you never saw (my case). Be sure that if it depends on me, I wish you never stop your blog and I promise you to go there every day. Visit you and put this person to run away!!
I'm very sorry for this bad situation. You're such a kind man and do not deserve to be attacked like this!
David # 10. February 2009, 01:14
Bea # 10. February 2009, 10:53
David # 10. February 2009, 15:36
Bea # 10. February 2009, 16:00
hey, but have you got here sometime?
David # 10. February 2009, 17:45
Bea # 11. February 2009, 00:18
next year, I wait for you here!!
David # 11. February 2009, 01:01
Bea # 11. February 2009, 12:16