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The Party

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Joseph Arthur - You're So True.mp3


This was the song we used to enter the buffet house, where we had our party! :hat:

After being about 20 minutes in the car through the streets and waiting all the guests arrive in the buffet, we talked about the ceremony and looked each other still not believing we were married, so we arrived the buffet where everybody were already there waiting for us. This song is one of the soundtracks of Shrek 2, a movie I love so much and who knows the story, knows that everything is possible when you love true.
And so was with us. :smile:

The buffet were amazing. Decoration, disposition of the tables, candy table, cake table, the food was great (and yes, I ate!!! Yay!). Everything!

I loved all. It was a money we paid and worthed!

We took many photos. But till now I don't have them. :cry:

I want my photos!!!!

I thought I could go last Saturday see them and choose but I didn't have enough time to do it. Many things to fix at home (yet) and I'll try next Saturday. I'll have to!

I'm asking my friends who took their cameras too to give me the photos. The non-official ones! p:

Let's see if I'll have them first. For now, what I can show you is the album I did called What I planned for the wedding and didn't worked with just 4 images but just to give you an idea of what I planned and I had to change in the last week. Not that I didn't like but I got a bit frustrated, specially with my bouquet :irked:

Anyway, what's important is that everything went fine. :smile:

Starting to tell

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The last post I did before the weddin was on Friday 08th. I was not too nervous but was anxious. Of course, we always think about everything and if all will be fine.

Amazingly, I had a glorious sleep night. I slept very well and woke up fine. At morning I just kept doing all my beauty chack list. And so this was the whole day! :happy: Yes, I worked for a whole year to let everything just perfect in the Big Day, so, I deserved to have a quiet and peaceful beauty day!

Had lunch and went to Beauty Studio have a massage :D a shower of petals :smile: and make my make-up and hair!

For about 4 pm I was really calm. Just waiting for my hair stylist and so I had a small meal. After that, I was nervous. Not because the moment was getting close, but because my hair stylist was driving me crazy :insane: She was nervous and so was putting me down.

She did my hair and then my make-up. I loved both. Was exactly the way I wanted. Then people helped me to dress myself... oh, God... I still don't know till now how was possible to sit down with that dress! :lol: And then the driver took me to the Church! :insane:

At that moment I was nervous. Really... More when I got in front of the Church. I was there, seeing my brother and my sister. My parents. My future husband. In few minutes I would be his wife and we'd have a family.

When I saw him, seemed my entire body shaked... And I felt worse when I saw the Priest, in the middle of the Church, talking to my guests and my organizer. :insane: I thought 'Oh My God'... He's causing problems. That was first came to my mind. My organizer talked before that every time she had to make a wedding in Saint Rita's Church she had problems with the Priest there. And I remembered what she told and guessed she was having problems again... in my wedding... I wanted to cry. But I turned my face to the other side and thought 'I won't look... if I look, I won't control myself... I can't cry now...' And so I did and controlled myself. In some minutes I saw the ceremony starting.

First, the brothers and sisters (from both side, we chose as our bridesmaid. In Brazil, the concept of 'bridesmaid' is totally different. We don't choose just the best bride's friends, but people from both sides. In our case, I chose my brother and his wife, and my sister and her husband. And my fiancé chose his sisters and husbands. We guessed it better. Family is family after all.) Then, my mom and Francis' dad entering. And Francis and his aunt entering (he chose his aunt to enter with him. His mom is not alive anymore for 4 years...)

Me... nervous... in the car... You can imagine the scene...

So, my organizer called me and said I could get out the car. My dad came and took my hand... :insane: For my surprise, my dad was totally fine (which I thought it could be a problem. In the essay day, on Thursday, he was totally nervous and I thought he could have some problem in the ceremony. I was afraid for him) and so, photos and videos started... I was feeling a star!! p:

We stopped in front of the door. Waited some moment, and then the doors were opened. The Church and my guests. My friends. Family. People I love and love me were there. I didn't cry. I controlled myself all time. Thanks God!!! But I was nervous. And I tried not to look to people directly... ok, you can imagine how stressfull this moment can be, specially those who have already passed through this... :smile:

When I met my love, I saw he was more nervous than me. He was almost white! p: Serious. Worse than me. But the ceremony was fine. Fast, funny and great. I got ok after the entering. I guess it's because when you are entering the Church, you're exposed to everyone and when you're up there, with your back to people, it's better. You can almost forget that people are there and you relax. At least for me as like that. And I was fine. We said 'yes' and signed the papers. Took lots of photos! :smile: And when we were getting out the Church, people 'gave a shower' of rice in us!! :lol::lol:

Was great! I got lots of fun! I loved that moment! After that we got into the car and waited about 20 minutes, through the city untill the guests could arrive in the buffet house, so we could go there too.

The songs I chose for my wedding, most of you could have see in my blog. I have listened to them for the whole year but I always tried not to tell in what moments those songs would be played.

Now I give you my ceremony playlist:

01 - Ashram - 5 Steps - For the entering of our brothers and sisters
02 - Ashram - Il Monstro - For the entering of my fiancé
03 - Ashram - For My Sun - For the entering of the bridesmaid (here we use children to enter with the rings and roses... who were my daughter :smile: and my nephew)
04 - Chopin - Estudio en E Major - Lento Ma Non Troppo - For my entering
05 - Elvis Presley - Love me Tender
06 - Frank Sinatra - The Way You Look Tonight
07 - Frank Sinatra - Moon River
08 - Frank Sinatra - Wave

These last four songs were used to the signatures. This moment while people are signing we use to take photos too. That's why we need more songs to it.

And for get out of the Church, I chose:

Elvis Presley - Can't Help Falling In Love With You :heart:

The moment we were getting out, walking through our friends and our hearts were joined forever! :happy:

I'm writting this post and remembering all the moments we lived that night... I started to cry right now... :D Was a great moment and I'm happy that everything was fine.

The party comes next post! :cool:

I'm back!

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And got a lot to say! :headbang: But you'll have to wait! I still have to put things in order!

Came back from Fortaleza yesterday night and now I'm trying to put all my gifts in their right place, but aren't enough space :no:

Slowly I'll tell you my adventures on my wedding day and in my trip! Thank you for all your kind and sweet words!! I'm sure you'll never meet someone happier (I wrote it right?? :confused: ) than me!

I'm very happy! And I'm sure I'll be for the rest of my life!

See ya! :heart:

I tried to sleep last night

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But there are so many things in my mind that I couldn't!

I just come here now, in this post, to say goodbye for few days! :smile:

See you in 12 days when I come back! :hat:

Love you all! :cool:




Wish me luck! :D

Bizarre histories of weddings...

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Looking at G1 I saw many funny, sad and bizarre histories about weddings... Unfortunately this website is in portuguese but try any translation website to read them! :smile:


1 - Police use heavy weapons to arrest a couple during their ceremony


2 - Dress tear e the bride keeps almost nude during her wedding


3 - Cake has the face of the bride in her wedding


4 - Bride marries with a dress made of toilet paper


5 - Bride doesn't want to deliver back the ring to her ex-fiancé


6 - Bride asks for annulation after a honeymoon with no sex


And so on... well... hope everything goes fine in my wedding. I don't wanna have a weird history to tell my grandsons!!! :lol:

I Invite My Opera Friends...

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to my wedding!!

Here is the invitation!






Opening...





And to give a better idea of what is written and what is the theme, here I put the image in b&w. My invitation is in golden color, with the paper a little shinning... well, the seller told the paper was imported (from where I don't know) because of the quality that is pretty much better! I sincerely think that they do this just because $$$!!! So, they say 'it's from USA', or from England, or from anywhere else, so, we pay much more!





The theme is Cinema! :smile: When I saw this invitation I was completely crazy for it! It's so my fiancé's like!!! And the images we used to put in the invitations you already know them, they're at Opera. We took a quote from a movie: "Sometimes the better way to find yourself is loosing yourself in someone's life!" from the movie "Tara Road" (2006). I never saw this movie, but I liked the quote.

And so now, you, my friends from Opera are oficially invited for mywedding. August 09th! :cheers:

... You May Kiss The Bride!

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Tony Bennett - The Way You Look Tonight.mp3





The Way You Look Tonight - Tony Bennett


Someday, when i'm awfully low
when the world is cold
i will feel a glow, just thinking of you
and the way you look tonight

oh but your lovely
with your smile so warm
and your cheeks so soft
there is nothing for me, but to love you
just the way you look tonight

with each word your tenderness grows
tearing my fear apart
and that laugh
that wrinkles your nose
touches my foolish heart

lovely, never never change
keep that breathless charm
won't you please arrange it
because i, i love you
just the way you look tonight




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Your Opera's Friend Wedding!!! =P

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Aretha Franklin - I Say A Little Prayer For You.mp3







I Say a Little Prayer For You - Aretha Franklin


The moment I wake up
Before I put on my makeup
I say a little prayer for you
While combing my hair, now,
And wondering what dress to wear, now,
I say a little prayer for you

Forever, forever, you'll stay in my heart
and I will love you
Forever, and ever, we never will part
Oh, how I love you
Together, together, that's how it must be
To live without you
Would only mean heartbreak for me.

I run for the bus, dear,
While riding I think of us, dear,
I say a little prayer for you.
At work I just take time
And all through my coffee break-time,
I say a little prayer for you.

Forever, forever, you'll stay in my heart
and I will love you
Forever, and ever we never will part
Oh, how I love you
Together, together, that's how it must be
To live without you
Would only mean heartbreak for me.

My darling believe me,
For me there is no one
But you
Please love me too
I'm in love with you
Answer my prayer babe.



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Bride's Update

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Well, far from posting since last week, many things happened since there!

There are 17 days untill the wedding and yes, I've become a Bridezilla!!!

Last week, in the apartment nothing more changed unless for the bath box we put there. Now we're waiting for our frigde and our dinning table. That's just what we need now.

Apart of this, I am very anxious, nervous and yes... emotional. I cried last week. :irked: Iknow that feelings are evrywhere but I hate this. I hate the fac of can't be able to control it. Last week, I was not nervous about the party, but about the marriage itself. If I'm able to manage it. If I won't disappoint my future husband in some way. If someday he'll look at me and will think 'Oh, my goodness... and I married to this??'... You know, this kind of thing we think when we are about to get into a real commitment...
I was alone for 9 years, since I finished my first marriage and now, I'm involved in a new one. So, expectations and fears are normal in this situation. But... I can't stop thinking it, then I've to deal with it.

Saturday, I got my Bachelorette Party :hat::hat: at the bowling. Yes, I didn't have any nuded man... :D I got some gifts from my friends (only women) and I loved it!! We got there and had a great time having fun!!! As I'm a totally Homer: Doh! I didn't get my camera (I didn't find) and a friend of mine is still owning me the photos, once she was the official photographer! I hope pics are coming soon!! :smile:

We got some more gifts from the wedding (my brother gave me two) and I'm still cleaning and putting things at the apt. On Sunday a friend of family (who is a priest) gave us a blessing in the apt. You know, my family is very religious and even I am not so much, is nice to continue with the traditions (sometimes). Was cool! :smile:

And yesterday, was the worst. We went to the buffet house to pay the last part of our party and to deal the details of the ceremony. There we realized that we really will marry in August 09th!!!!! :yikes: I got totally nervous cos we had all the details and sequence of what will happen.

- Entrance of the bridesmaid;
- Entrance of the parents;
- Entrance of the fiacé (my fiancé was getting white yesterday... so nervous!!!);
- Entrance of the bride (me, freaking out and laughing sooo much, nervous!!! Yes, I laugh when I'm nervous!!! I'm afraid of having a laugh attack while I'll be entering!!);
- The ceremony itself, with the part of putting the rings and telling all those things :yikes: and the kiss;
- Signing the book;
- Cumpliments and more photos;
- Cake and champagne;
- Dance of the newlyweds!! :yikes: (Other laugh attack!!!)
- Dinner and the rest... where I don't know if I'll be alive after have cried, have had at least two laugh attacks and have received all the cumpliments...

After all this sequence, we realized that we're officially NERVOUS!!!! :yikes:

:cry::cry:

July 09th

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Exactly 1 month.











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