My OperaDating: Do You Know When to Stop Dating Someone?
Tuesday, April 10, 2012 8:15:09 AM
squidoo.com/the-tao-of-badass-download, squidoo.com/the-tao-of-badass-download, squidoo.com/the-tao-of-badass-downloadIs it possible to be married and feel lonely at the same time? Unfortunately, yes, it is real! My young friend is crystal clear that he wants children. His special lady loves being an aunt to 5 nieces and nephews and has absolutely no interest in having children of her own. It is important to him that his life partner be as passionate and enthusiastic as he is about family and co-parenting (he holds a very high value for family/children).
This is an unsolvable problem. My young friend is correct. He must end the dating relationship. However, he and his lady friend might be able to change the nature of their relationship.
· First he must tell her very directly that they are not a match and why and that he isn't going to date her anymore. Learn to say goodbye so you can use your physical and emotional energy to attract the man or the woman who will make your heart sing every day for the rest of your life.
Remember, only YOU can make it happen!
Copyright Dr. Jackie Black 1999-2005
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E-Whoring. It does not sound like a nice name and in the dating world it isn't. Put simply, e-whoring is when a man pretends to be a woman on the internet. Start talking to a 'woman' who has set up one of these profiles and at best you are wasting your time. At worst, she will scam you out of your money or personal details.
So how do you spot a scam profile from a photo alone?
If she ignores the request or says she does not have a camera, then you are talking to a guy. Even the cheapest cell phones these days have 3 MP cameras built in.
Risque photos - men sometimes think with the wrong head and the scammers know this. If you see a beautiful women and she is showing too much skin, then think hard before replying. Honestly, how many women do you think send half naked photos of themselves to men online for the purpose of finding a meaningful relationship? It never happens, so don't start thinking this is an exception.
Small photos and photos with blurred out water marks - this is a sign of a lazy scammer. To cut down bandwidth taken up by visitors who have not joined yet, many dating sites will only show thumbnail sized photos. If the scammer stole the photo from one of these sites without bothering to pay for a membership, then they are not going to have a bigger resolution photo. Similarly, some sites put a water mark on the photo. It is possible to remove the mark with Photoshop but it can take awhile. If you are setting up several fake accounts, then you are not going to invest that time.
Her description does not match the photo - many men who set up fake profiles are not fluent in English. Because of this, they often make mistakes.
This is an unsolvable problem. My young friend is correct. He must end the dating relationship. However, he and his lady friend might be able to change the nature of their relationship.
· First he must tell her very directly that they are not a match and why and that he isn't going to date her anymore. Learn to say goodbye so you can use your physical and emotional energy to attract the man or the woman who will make your heart sing every day for the rest of your life.
Remember, only YOU can make it happen!
Copyright Dr. Jackie Black 1999-2005
If you like this article, please read more about
Dr. Jackie's relationship dating advice and help for issues and problems.
This article may be re-published with appropriate attribution to the author including name, web site, email address and telephone number.
E-Whoring. It does not sound like a nice name and in the dating world it isn't. Put simply, e-whoring is when a man pretends to be a woman on the internet. Start talking to a 'woman' who has set up one of these profiles and at best you are wasting your time. At worst, she will scam you out of your money or personal details.
So how do you spot a scam profile from a photo alone?
If she ignores the request or says she does not have a camera, then you are talking to a guy. Even the cheapest cell phones these days have 3 MP cameras built in.
Risque photos - men sometimes think with the wrong head and the scammers know this. If you see a beautiful women and she is showing too much skin, then think hard before replying. Honestly, how many women do you think send half naked photos of themselves to men online for the purpose of finding a meaningful relationship? It never happens, so don't start thinking this is an exception.
Small photos and photos with blurred out water marks - this is a sign of a lazy scammer. To cut down bandwidth taken up by visitors who have not joined yet, many dating sites will only show thumbnail sized photos. If the scammer stole the photo from one of these sites without bothering to pay for a membership, then they are not going to have a bigger resolution photo. Similarly, some sites put a water mark on the photo. It is possible to remove the mark with Photoshop but it can take awhile. If you are setting up several fake accounts, then you are not going to invest that time.
Her description does not match the photo - many men who set up fake profiles are not fluent in English. Because of this, they often make mistakes.
